Ingane iye esikoleni. Kuye, lesi yisikhathi esinzima soguquko, lapho ukusekelwa kwabazali kudingekile kakhulu. Ukuze ungabhebhethekisi isimo sakhe, ungakwazi ukwethula isiko elilula kodwa eliphumelelayo empilweni yakho ndawonye - njengoba kwenza uthisha kanye nomsebenzi wegeyimu u-Maria Shvetsova.
Kungani singakutsheli ukuthi yini ebinhle futhi ethokozisayo namuhla? Ngisikisela izingane ezilinde indaba yokulala. Ezandleni zami ngibambe indlovu eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Uzosuka entendeni yesandla efudumele aye kwenye futhi alalele konke okuqoqwe emini.
Singakhohlwa ukuthi asikuthandanga kakhulu namuhla. Ake ngiqale.
Ngitshela inguqulo yami yanamuhla. Kuyamangaza - besindawonye cishe ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi wonke umuntu unombono wakhe.
Indodakazi yatshela izimfihlo zomdlalo wegceke - lezo ababevumelene ngazo ngaphambili ukuthi bazigcine ngaphansi kwesihloko esithi "imfihlo". Wabelana ngokuthi wayengamthandi kakhulu uthisha (futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi - manje sengiyazi ukuthi ngenzeni ngakho). Indodana yakhohlwa ngokuphelele ukuthi isipho sasijabule kanjani ekuseni. Ngiphawule ukuthi ngiyayithanda inganekwane aqhamuke nayo namuhla.
Lesi siko labonakala emndenini wakithi lapho indodakazi endala ifunda esikoleni. Njengothisha, ngaqonda ukuthi ukuzivumelanisa kwakhe nezimo endaweni entsha nakho kwakuxhomeke kakhulu ezingeni lokuxhumana kwethu. Futhi esikhundleni sokujula ngokuyimfihlo, kwaba nobungane ngokwengeziwe ngokusemthethweni.
Ngokuvamile omama, ikakhulukazi labo abanezingane eziningana, banesithakazelo kuphela endleleni "yokugeza-indwangu-yokugeza". Lokhu kuyaqondakala: ukuphila kuyalutha, kukhona amandla amancane futhi amancane asele emndenini kanye nokukhulumisana kwekhwalithi. Ngesinye isikhathi, intambo yokuqonda phakathi kwabazali nezingane iqala ukugqashuka.
Kubalulekile ukusungula ukulandelana futhi ungaphazamisi kuze kube yilapho othile eseqedile. Ungasebenzisa ithoyizi - kusho lowo osezandleni zakhe
Ngokwami, indlovu eluhlaza kanye nesiko lethu elisha kwangisiza. Ngezikhathi ezithile, amanye amalungu omkhaya ayahlanganiswa engxoxweni. Futhi ngiyajabula ukubona ukuthi kanjani:
- izingane zifunda ukubona isimo ngama-engeli ahlukene: hhayi ngaso sonke isikhathi okuhle komunye kufana ncamashi nokuhlanganisa kwenye;
- izinga lokuthembela liyakhuphuka. Ngisho noma abazali bebesemsebenzini usuku lonke, ukukhulumisana okunjalo okuphezulu kusihlwa kwanele ukuba kungalahleki;
- izingane zinekhono lokuzindla, zifunde ukuxoxa kabusha izenzakalo. Kamuva esikoleni, la makhono azoba usizo kakhulu kubo.
Ukuze ingxoxo yakusihlwa inikeze imiphumela enjalo, udinga ukulandela imithetho elula:
- Hlanganyela ezingxoxweni nezingane. Khuluma ngempumelelo yakho kanye nokwehluleka kwakho - kunjalo, uma kubhekwa iminyaka yengane.
- Ungahloli iziphetho zengane («Awu, ingabe kuhle?!»).
- Bungaza inqubekelaphambili yezingane. Ngokwesibonelo, inkulumo ethi: “Ngizithandile izincwadi ezinhle okwazile ukuzibhala namuhla” ingakhuthaza ingane ukuba ifunde kanzima.
- Setha i-oda futhi ungaphazamisi kuze kube yilapho othile eqeda. Ungasebenzisa ithoyizi elincane - kusho lowo onakho ezandleni zakhe.
- Ungakhohlwa ukubamba izingxoxo njalo, bese kuthi ngemva kwesonto izingane ngokwazo zikukhumbuze ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuhlangana futhi uxoxe ngosuku oludlule.
Lesi siko esilula sakusihlwa sizosiza ingane ukuthi ikhulume ngalokho okwenzeka emini, ibone imizwa yabo futhi izwe ukusekelwa kwabazali nezingane ezindala.