Okuqukethwe
Lokhu kwenzeka kuwo wonke owesifazane ngezikhathi ezithile: ekuseni simi phambi kwekhabethe elivulekile futhi asiqondi ukuthi yini okufanele siyigqoke. Phakathi nokushintsha kwezinkathi zonyaka, isimo “sokungagqoki” siba sibi nakakhulu. Uchwepheshe wesitayela nonengqondo yokuthenga u-Natalya Kazakova uveza izizathu eziyisikhombisa zalesi simo esiqhubekayo futhi utshela indlela yokubhekana nazo.
1. "Izingubo ziyangingiza"
Njengoba ufunde ngokucophelela ikhabethe lakho, ungavame ukuqonda ukuthi izinto eziningi ezikulo zifana nomunye nomunye, imininingwane encane kuphela iyashintsha. Njengomthetho, lapho ngimenywa ukuba ngihlaziye ikhabethe, ekamelweni leklayenti ngithola amabhulukwe ama-5-6 amnyama, ama-3-6 ama-jeans afana namaconsi amabili amanzi afanayo, noma intambo engapheli. izingubo zesitayela esifanayo.
Ake sicabange ukuthi into ngayinye yigama elithile elikuchazayo. Isibonelo, i-jeans "ikhululekile", amabhulukwe amnyama "avinjelwe", isiketi "sesifazane", ijezi "lithokomele". Ngesikhathi esifanayo, uhlobo ngalunye lomkhiqizo, umbala walo kanye nesitayela kuyoba negama layo. Uma ungenalutho lokugqoka ekuseni, ikhabethe lakho libonakala lingenawo amagama afanele okuveza isimo sakho somzwelo. Noma, ngolimi lwezingubo, imibala efanele, izitayela, imininingwane.
Futhi isizathu esiyinhloko ukungingiza kwezingubo. Ziningi izinto, kodwa azikho izinhlobonhlobo ngombala noma ngesitayela. Futhi kuvela ukuthi isithombe ngasinye siyirekhodi eliphukile. “Akukho okokugqoka” kusho ukuthi izingubo zakho azikwazi ukuveza isimo esingokomzwelo obhekene naso njengamanje. Impilo iba yi-monotonous: sibona uhlangothi olulodwa kuphela lwethu, senqaba okunye ukubonakaliswa. Futhi isizathu sobuchwepheshe ukuntuleka kolwazi lwesitayela nesikhathi sokuhlolwa esitolo.
2. Indlela yokuphila nokungalingani kwekhabethe
Isibonelo esicacile sokungalingani okunjalo singatholakala ku-wardrobe yowesifazane owayesebenza ehhovisi, wabe esehamba ngekhefu lokubeletha futhi akakaqapheli ushintsho emisebenzini yakhe yokuphila. U-60% wekhabethe lakhe usenezinto zasehhovisi, u-5-10% wezinto zasekhaya, u-30% nje ezithokomele, ezithengwe ngenhlanhla, ngokuxhamazela. Futhi lokhu naphezu kokuthi lo wesifazane uchitha 60% yesikhathi sakhe ekhaya, 30% ekuhambeni nengane, futhi 10% kuphela isikhathi ekhethwa imicimbi kanye nemihlangano ngaphandle kwengane.
Izimo zingase zihluke, kodwa ingqikithi iyafana: indlela yokuphila ihluke kakhulu emandleni ekhabethe. Cishe, kulokhu, umuntu akakwazi ukwamukela ukuphila kwakhe kwangempela futhi uhlala kwelinye, izwe "elifiselekayo". Umehluko phakathi "kokufuna" kanye "nokudla" kuphinde kuholele enkingeni ku-wardrobe.
3. Ukungabi namagoli
Ukuntuleka kwemigomo ekuphileni kuholela ekuthengeni okuningi ngokuxhamazela. Konke kumayelana nokungagxili emgomweni othile. Esikhundleni sokuthola isithombe esiphelele, lapho into eyodwa ku-wardrobe igcwalisa enye, futhi ndawonye bakha izithombe eziphelele, kunezinxushunxushu eziphelele.
4. Ukunciphisa izinkolelo zobumpofu
Abaningi bethu bakhula ngezikhathi zokuntula, futhi emindenini eminingi kwakuwumkhuba ukonga kukho konke. Ogogo bethu kanye nokhokho bethu babecabanga kakhulu ngokuthi bazondla kanjani izingane zabo kunokuba bazigqokise. Bagqoka izingubo ezimbotsheni, bashintsha futhi bagqoka. Futhi baphinde badlulisa imiyalelo yokuthi izinto kufanele zivikelwe futhi zingalahlwa nhlobo.
Ngenxa yalokho, kwabesifazane abaningi, ukulahla into, ezingeni lokungazi lutho, kufana nokukhaphela amasiko, imithetho noma izimiso ezidluliselwa ezizukulwaneni ngezizukulwane.
5. "Amahange" angokomzwelo
Lesi siketi ngisithenge lapho ngiya ePrague ngisengumfundi, angikwazi ukusilahla! kubabaza elinye lamakhasimende ami ngesikhathi ngihlaziya ikhabethe lezingubo. Naphezu kokuthi isiketi sekuyisikhathi eside silahlekelwa ukubonakala kwayo. Into ngayinye ekusetshenzisweni kwayo iqoqa imizwelo nezinkumbulo. Khona-ke le ntaba yezinkumbulo ilele isisindo esifile emakhabetheni, ivimbela ukufinyelela kumathuba amasha nezinhlanganisela.
6. Inzuzo yesibili
Isimo esingamahlalakhona sokuthi "angigqoki lutho" sihlala sinenzuzo yesibili. Omunye wabafundi bami, lapho ehlaziya izinkolelo ezihlobene nezingubo, wabona ukuthi kunenzuzo kuye ukukhononda ngokuntuleka kwezinto futhi, ngenxa yalokho, agqoke ngendlela engafanele, ngoba ngaleso sikhathi uzizwa enelungelo lokubuza abazali bakhe nomyeni wakhe. ukumsiza ngezingane noma ngemisebenzi yasekhaya.
Uma egqoke kahle futhi, ngenxa yalokho, ejabule, ngeke akwazi ukuvusa isihawu, futhi uzokwenqatshelwa ukusekela. Emfanekisweni wakhe wezwe, uma owesifazane emuhle, ehlotshiswe kahle futhi engakhonondi nganoma yini, akadingi ukusekelwa futhi kufanele abhekane nakho konke ngokwakhe. Futhi le nkolelo izibonakalisa ku-wardrobe.
7. Ukudideka nokuyekethisa
Abanye bethu bavame ukubamba izinto ezahlukene futhi bangalethi lutho ekugcineni. Ngokunokwenzeka, ku-wardrobe yethu kulokhu kuzokwazi ukuthola izinto ezingahambisani nanoma yini. Kungashiwo okufanayo ngabantu abangokomzwelo nalabo abacindezelekile. Ekuthengeni, bafuna ithuba lokuthola umthamo wokuzijabulisa. Yiqiniso, lokhu kugcina ngokucindezeleka nakakhulu, ngoba imali iphinde isetshenziswe, kodwa akukho mphumela.
Izinyathelo eziyisithupha zibheke kuwe
Indlela yokuvalelisa kulesi simo kanye unomphela? Kuyafaneleka ukuthatha izinyathelo ezilandelayo.
- Yenza isinqumo sokuvala umbuzo othi "akukho lutho ongayigqoka", ngenkathi usondela kuwo ngokuqaphela. Qaphela ukuthi empeleni awugcini nje ngokuhleleka ikhabethe, kodwa futhi imizwelo nemicabango. Zivumele ukuthi udedele okwedlule futhi uvule amathuba amasha.
- Cabanga futhi ubhale ukuthi singakanani isikhathi phakathi nenyanga osichitha emsebenzini (ikakhulukazi emihlanganweni ebalulekile namakhasimende), ukuphumula, ukuhlangana nabangane, ukuhamba nezingane, izinsuku. Nquma isilinganiso esilinganiselwe. Ngokusekelwe kulo, kufanelekile ukwakha ikhabethe.
- Bhala imigomo yezinyanga eziyisithupha kuya onyakeni. Lapho ukucaca kufika, uzokwazi ukuqonda ukuthi yiziphi izinto ezizokusiza ufinyelele izinhloso zakho, nokuthi yini ezokususa kuzo. Konke kumayelana nendlela esizizwa ngayo kulokhu noma kuleya mpahla noma esithombeni. Lapho imigomo inemba kakhudlwana, kuyoba lula ukunquma ukuthi yiziphi izinto ezidingekayo ukuze kube nomphumela ofanele.
- Hlela ikhabethe lakho. Zinike isikhathi sokuzama izinto. Buyisela ihange elingokomzwelo elalisele kubo, yekela into ngayinye, ushiye umzwelo ngokwakho. Lokhu kuzosiza ukwehlisa ikhabethe lakho ezingutsheni eseziphelelwe yisikhathi isikhathi eside, kodwa zikugcine ngokwengqondo. Uma unezinto eziningi, ungakwazi ukuqedela umsebenzi ngokuvakasha okuningana, ukuhlunga isigaba esisodwa ngesikhathi - isibonelo, iziketi. Lapho uhlukanisa, udinga ukucabangela kokubili izici zesitayela nezomzwelo zento.
- Thatha izithombe zazo zonke izinto ofuna ukuzishiya. Yenza amasethi awo, isikhathi ngasinye uzibuze ukuthi ngabe le sethi izokubeka yini esimweni esizokusiza ufinyelele umgomo wakho. Ungaphenduli ngengqondo yakho, kodwa ngomzimba wakho. Uma ingubo oyigqokile ikwenza ukhululeke futhi umoyizele, bese ushaya iso lenkunzi.
- Yenza uhlu lokuthenga okudingekayo ukuze ukwazi ukuyothenga ngayo ngokuphumelelayo, ngokuzola nangokuqaphela.
Ikhabethe libonisa isimo sethu ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye. Indlela yokuqaphela futhi ehlelekile ku-wardrobe yakho, ehambisana nesimo sengqondo sangaphakathi sokuxazulula isimo kanye unomphela esikhathini esizayo, izokunikeza ukuthula kwengqondo, injabulo nokonga isikhathi. Kuzophinde kukunike ukuzethemba futhi kukunike ithuba lokukhombisa izici ezihlukene zobuntu bakho futhi udlulele ezinhlosweni zakho.