Ukubuyela esikoleni kuyisiqalo esisha. Ngokuvamile kuhlanganiswe nezinqumo eziningi. Njengobusuku Bangaphambi Kukancibijane, kufanele uqale ukhulume naleli sonto ngokuzola ukuze uvimbele ukucindezeleka ekutheleleni ingane yakho.

1. Lungiselela ingane yakho usuku olukhulu

Uma kungokokuqala ebuyela esikoleni sokufundela izingane, kubalulekile ukulungiselela ingane yakho kahle ngokuxoxa nayo ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ngaphambi kwalokho okuzokwenzeka kuyo: isimiso sayo esisha, imisebenzi yayo emisha, uthisha wayo, izingane efunda nazo esikoleni. umdlalo, ikhentini, njll. Kungushintsho olukhulu kuye, futhi lokhu, noma ngabe useyazi impilo emphakathini, enkulisa noma ekugcinweni okuhlanganyelwe.

Ungakhohlwa ukukhuluma naye mayelana nezingqinamba ezihlobene nesikole ukuze angaphoxeki kakhulu: umsindo, ukukhathala, imithetho okufanele ihlonishwe, imiyalelo yothisha nayo izoba yingxenye yohlelo. Mkhombise ukuthi awumlahli ngokumbhalisa esikoleni, kodwa kuzomsiza ukuthi akhule. Ungamtshela kanjani ngosuku lwakho lokuqala esikoleni? Izingane zizizwa ziqondwa futhi zikwazisa kakhulu ukuhlanganyela izinkumbulo zabazali bazo.

2. Thola ijubane elinengqondo

Isonto elilodwa ngaphambi kokuqala konyaka wesikole, shiya kancane kancane isigqi samaholide ukuze uvumele ukuthi uthole amashejuli angaguquki futhi anengqondo. Ngakho-ke kuyadingeka - futhi nonke nizophumula kakhulu - ungabuyi eholidini ngosuku olwandulela ukuqala konyaka wesikole, izinzwane zakho zisagcwele isihlabathi. Kuyoba nzima ngezingane ukuphinde zixhumane nempilo yesikole uma ukuhlukana kwenzeka kungazelelwe.

Sizama ukulala ngaphambi kwesikhathi: gcina imizuzu eyishumi nanhlanu ebusuku, isibonelo. Khumbula ukuthi phakathi kweminyaka eyisithupha neshumi nambili, ingane kufanele ilale phakathi kwamahora ayisishiyagalolunye neshumi nambili ebusuku. (asivamile ukuba nazo ngesikhathi samaholide!). Zama ukudla kusenesikhathi, gwema ama-aperitifs adonsayo futhi lokhu, ngisho nangempelasonto ngaphambi kokuqala konyaka wesikole ukuze ungaphazamisi imikhuba emisha kanye nesigqi esisha somndeni. 

3. Zihlele ukuze ukhululeke ngosuku olukhulu

Kuthiwani uma uthathe ikhefu losuku olulodwa noma ezimbili ukuze ukhululeke futhi unokuthula kwengqondo ngosuku lokuqala esikoleni? Kuyiqhinga abazali abaningi abalamukele ukuba 100% nengane yabo ngaphandle kwengcindezi noma ukubambezeleka okungenzeka emsebenzini. Ingane yakho inomuzwa wokuthi ukulungele ngempela futhi izoqiniseka nakakhulu. Futhi uma ukhathazeke (noma ngisho nangaphezulu) kunengane yakho, lolu suku luzoba yithuba lokuphefumula, lokuthatha isikhathi sakho ngemuva kokubeka isizwe sakho emakilasini abo.

Ukuze usondele kulolu suku - ngisho nakuleli sonto - ngokuthula, futhi cabanga ukuthenga izinto ezidingekayo ngaphambi kokuthi amaholide aqale. Uzoba nomoya okhululekile! Uma ubungakakwenzi lokho, linda ngabo-20 ntambama ukuze uye esitolo sakho esikhulu ukuze ugweme izibhelu eminyangweni ethintekayo! Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi izinto zilethwe ekhaya lakho. Ungakhohlwa ukufaka ingane yakho kancane kulolu hambo kodwa ngenxa nje yobuncane obuncane (ingakhetha idayari yayo, isikhwama sayo sesikole noma isikhwama sayo sepensela) ukuze ingadingeki imhudulele ezitolo. Iqale kahle!

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