Indlela yokuhlangana nomfana emgwaqweni
Ukuthi shazi esitolo kulele insizwa ebukekayo edla yodwa. Ugqoke kahle, umuhle njengo-Apollo… Kodwa ulokhu uphuza ikhofi futhi ungenzi lutho. Isimo esijwayelekile? Ukuyigwema, "Ukudla Okunempilo Eduze Kwami" kuqoqe izindlela ezimbalwa ezisebenzayo - ukuthi ungahlangana kanjani nensizwa futhi ungathusi inhlanhla.

Ngobusuku bangaphambi koSuku lweValentine, ukuntuleka kwengxenye yesibili kubi kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi nje kwaleli holide, sinqume ukushicilela iziyalezo zabafundi bethu abangashadile mayelana nokuthi bangahlangana kanjani nomfana futhi kanjani. Iseluleko esiwusizo kumantombazane sanikezwa umqeqeshi we-Dmitry Melanin Academy.

1. Cela usizo

"Kunezindlela ezimbili ezisebenzayo zokuqomisana zamantombazane - ezisebenzayo nezivusa inkanuko," kusho uchwepheshe wokuyenga. Ake siqale ngesinyathelo. Njengoba igama lisho, kusho ukuthi isinyathelo sivela entombazaneni. Kodwa lokhu akusho neze ukuthi indoda idinga ukuthathwa amabele futhi ihudulelwe ehhovisi lokubhalisa. Kulokhu, umsebenzi wentombazane ukuqala ukujwayelana nombuzo noma isicelo.

Ngesikhathi esifanayo, indlela ehlulekayo, ngokusho kochwepheshe, ukucela usizo kumuntu. Isibonelo, cela usizo lokuphakamisa izinto endizeni, usize ekukhetheni iwasha yamawindi esitolo sezimoto, njll. Ayikho neyodwa indoda eziphatha kahle (futhi amantombazane adinga abanjalo nje!) Uyenqaba ukusiza abobulili obubuthakathaka. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, umfana uyamsiza, intombazane inethuba lokuqala ingxoxo elula. Thola ukuthi akhona yini amaphuzu okuxhumana. Futhi uma kunjalo, shintshanisa oxhumana nabo.

2. Ichukuluze indoda

Kulokhu, ubizo "lokucasula" lunomqondo omuhle kakhulu. Vusa indoda embuzweni wokuqala! Ukuvusa isithakazelo ocansini oluqinile, uchwepheshe ukholelwa ukuthi, izici ezintathu ezibalulekile zizosiza:

Ukubukeka okulungiswe kahle nezingubo ezikhanyayo

Isibonelo, amadoda asabela ngokuzithandela ngezingubo ezibomvu - lokhu kuye kwafakazelwa ngokuhlolwa. Futhi, ngeke bangabi nandaba nezicathulo ezinezithende, iziketi ezincane, amasokisi nezingubo ezigcizelela okhalweni.

Izimpawu zocansi ezifihliwe

Ukuhamba usuka okhalweni, ukubuka okufiphele, ukunyakazisa umzimba (isibonelo, ukulungisa izinwele), njll. kuqinisekisiwe ukuheha ukunaka kwendoda.

Ubungane

Nokho into ebaluleke kakhulu ukukhombisa abobulili obuhlukile ubungane bakho nokuvuleleka kwakho. Indlela elula yokwenza lokhu ukumomotheka. Futhi futhi - ungangabazi ukugqolozela amadoda owathandayo. Ukubukeka okuthakaselayo kobungane kanye nokumomotheka kuyindlela eyinhloko yokwazana okuphumelelayo.

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