“Ungamtholaphi umuntu ocebile? Ngaso sonke isikhathi uma nginyathela erekeni elifanayo - kungani kunjalo? Ngenzenjani uma ngingatholi ucingo ngemuva kosuku? Umhleli wesayithi, u-Yulia Tarasenko, uhambele izinkulumo eziningana zesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uMikhail Labkovsky ukuze athole ukuthi yimiphi imibuzo abalaleli abaqhamuka nayo nokuthi kungenzeka yini ukuba bajabule ngehora nesigamu.
Phakathi neviki, kusihlwa, isikhungo saseMoscow. Ubusika. Indawo yokwamukela izivakashi yeCentral House of Architects imatasatasa, kunomugqa endlini yezingubo. Izitezi ezimbili ngaphezu kwenkulumo kaLabkovsky.
Isihloko sithi "Indlela yokushada", ukubunjwa kobulili kwezilaleli kucacile kusengaphambili. Iningi ngabesifazane abaneminyaka engama-27 kuya kwengama-40 (kukhona ukuchezuka kuzo zombili izinhlangothi). Kukhona amadoda amathathu ehholo: umthwebuli, ummeleli wabahleli kanye noMikhail ngokwakhe.
Inkulumo yomphakathi ayiyona i-monologue yochwepheshe owaziwayo, kodwa imizuzu emifushane, cishe eyishumi, isingeniso kanye nokuxoxisana okwengeziwe: buza umbuzo - thola impendulo. Kunezindlela ezimbili zokuzwakalisa iphuzu elibuhlungu: kumbhobho noma ukudlulisa inothi elibhalwe ukuthi elikhulu, elifundekayo futhi eliqukethe umbuzo.
UMikhail akaphenduli amanothi ngaphandle kombuzo: lokhu, mhlawumbe, kungaba ukubusa kwakhe kwesikhombisa. Isithupha sokuqala:
- yenza lokho okufunayo
- ungakwenzi ongakufuni
- vele usho lokho ongakuthandi
- ungaphenduli uma ungabuzwa
- phendula umbuzo kuphela
- ukulungisa izinto, ukhulume ngawe kuphela,
Ngandlela thize, ezimpendulweni zakhe zemibuzo evela ezilalelini, uMikhail uyayizwakalisa. Kusuka emibuzweni, kuyacaca ukuthi isihloko sibanzi futhi sigcwele kakhulu kunalokho esingase kubonakale.
Embhoshweni kukhona blonde osemusha. Kwakukhona ubuhlobo nendoda "ekahle": ebukekayo, ecebile, i-Maldives nezinye izinjabulo zokuphila. Kodwa engenamizwa. Uscandal, uhlakazekile, manje useqhathanisa wonke umuntu naye, akekho ongamela umncintiswano.
“Unemizwa,” kuchaza uMikhail. — Leyo ndoda yakukhanga ngoba yayigodola nawe. Kumele siziguqule thina.
Ngemuva kwendaba ngayinye yesibili kubanda, obaba abalahlayo. Ngakho-ke ukukhangwa kwabalimazayo
— Kubonakala sengathi ufuna ubuhlobo: ukuba nomuntu ongaxoxa naye. Kodwa udinga ukwakha kabusha impilo yakho, uthulule ishalofu ekhabetheni, ususe izinto ... — u-brunette oneminyaka engu-37 ubudala uyabonakalisa.
"Unquma," uLabkovsky uphonsa izandla zakhe. - Noma wena nomunye nikahle, bese niyasamukela isimo njengoba sinjalo. Noma awunakho ukusondelana okwanele - khona-ke udinga ukushintsha okuthile.
Ngemuva kwazo zonke ezinye izindaba kubanda, ukwenqaba obaba bengekho ezimpilweni zamadodakazi abo noma ukuvela ngokungajwayelekile. Ngakho-ke ukukhangwa kulabo abalimazayo: "kokubili kubi ndawonye, futhi ngokuhlukana lutho." Isimo siyaziphinda: abalaleli ababili bakhuluma ngokuthi ngamunye unemishado emihlanu ngemuva kwabo. Nokho, lesi akusona kuphela isimo esingenzeka.
- Ngingayikhanga kanjani indoda - ivikelekile, ukuze ihole ngokuphindwe kathathu kunami, ikwazi ukunakekela uma ngibuthana ngekhefu lokubeletha ...
— Ngakho izimfanelo zomuntu siqu azibalulekile kuwe nhlobo?
— Angizange ngisho lokho.
Kodwa wena waqala ngemali. Ngaphezu kwalokho, bamemezele: imali engenayo iphindwe kathathu kuneyakho. Hhayi ezimbili nengxenye, hhayi ezine...
— Awu, yini engalungile?
— Kunjalo lapho owesifazane ozethembayo efuna indoda elingana naye. Kuphelele.
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Abanye abantu beza ekilasini bezilungiselele. Ngemva kokufunda imithetho nokuzama ukuyilandela, intombazane ibuza umbuzo: ineminyaka engaphezu kwengu-30, ineminyaka emibili nengxenye ihlangene nensizwa, kodwa isenqaba ukukhuluma ngokungathí sina ngezingane nomshado - ingabe kunjalo? kungenzeka ukuqala ukuphola omunye umuntu ngesikhathi esifanayo? Isikhathi kukhona okwenzekayo.
Izithameli ziyahleka - umzamo wokuthola ukuzitika ubonakala ungenangqondo. Ihholo ngokuvamile livumelana ngazwi linye: liyabubula ngozwela liphendula ezinye zezindaba, liyahonqa kwezinye. Ngisho nabalaleli beza cishe ngesikhathi esifanayo: enkulumweni yokuphuma ebudlelwaneni bemizwa kusenesikhathi, baye enkulumweni yokuzethemba - sekwephuzile kakhulu. Ngendlela, inkulumo yokuthi ungayenza kanjani iphrojekthi ephumelelayo ngaphandle kokuzethemba kwakho iqoqa inani eliphakeme lamadoda - abantu abangu-10 abavela ekamelweni labantu abangu-150.
Sifika ezinkulumweni zomphakathi ngenxa yesizathu esifanayo sokuthi cishe eminyakeni engu-30 edlule abazali bethu bahlangana ezikrinini ze-TV ukuze babukele izikhathi zikaKashpirovsky. Ngifuna isimangaliso, ukwelashwa okusheshayo, okungcono, ukuqedwa kwazo zonke izinkinga enkulumweni eyodwa.
Empeleni, lokhu kungenzeka uma ulandela imithetho eyisithupha. Futhi siyakwamukela okunye esikuzwile ngenjabulo: emhlabeni, lapho wonke umuntu ebiza ukushiya indawo yokududuza, ukuze enze umzamo ngokwakho, uLabkovsky weluleka ngokuqinile ukuthi angenzi lokhu. Awuzizwa uthanda ukuya ejimini? Ngakho ungahambi! Futhi "Angizange ngiziphoqe, kodwa ngase ngizwa ukwanda kwamandla" - ubudlova ngokumelene nawe.
UMichael usho lokho iningi lethu elidinga ukukuzwa: zithande njengoba unjalo.
Kodwa ezimweni ikakhulukazi "ezinganakwa", uMikhail uthi ngokwethembeka: sidinga ukusebenzisana nodokotela wezengqondo (kwezinye izimo, isazi sezinzwa, i-psychotherapist noma i-psychiatrist). Lapho bezwa lokhu, abaningi bayacasuka: ukubalwa kwesimangaliso esisheshayo kukhulu kakhulu, inkolelo "yephilisi" eliwumlingo lakho konke.
Naphezu kwalokhu, izinkulumo ziyaqhubeka ziqoqa amahholo amakhulu, hhayi eMoscow kuphela: unabalaleli bakhe eRiga naseKiev, eYekaterinburg, eSt. Petersburg nakwamanye amadolobha. Okungenani sibonga ukuziphatha kwakhe, ukuxega, amahlaya. Futhi le mihlangano isiza ababambiqhaza ukuthi baqonde ukuthi ababodwa ezinkingeni zabo, okwenzeka kubo kuvamile kangangokuthi kungase kubhekwe njengento entsha evamile.
“Umuzwa othakazelisayo: kubonakala sengathi bonke abantu abafani, wonke umuntu unezizinda ezingafani, futhi imibuzo ifana kakhulu! - uhlanganyela u-Ksenia, oneminyaka engama-39 ubudala. “Ngento efanayo sonke esinendaba nayo. Futhi lokhu kubalulekile: ukuqonda ukuthi awuwedwa. Futhi asikho ngisho nesidingo sokuzwakalisa umbuzo wakho kumbhobho - ngokuqinisekile, ngesikhathi senkulumo, abanye bazokwenzela, futhi uzothola impendulo.
“Kuyajabulisa ukuqonda ukuthi ukungafuni ukushada kuyinto evamile! Futhi ukungabheki “isiphetho sakho sowesifazane” nakho kuyinto evamile,” kuvuma uVera, oneminyaka engu-33 ubudala.
Kuvele ukuthi uMichael usho lokho abantu abaningi okudingeka bakuzwe: ukuzithanda ngendlela oyiyo. Yiqiniso, kunomsebenzi ngemuva kwalokhu, futhi ukwenza noma ukungakwenzi kuwumthwalo wawo wonke umuntu.