Isilo esinamandla, esinomusa, esinobuqili esihlola isimo ngesivinini sombani. Kukangaki thina—abesilisa nabesifazane—sintula lezi zimfanelo zamahlosi eziye zazuza njengefa emvelweni. Kodwa mhlawumbe zingathuthukiswa kuwena?
Uphawu luka-2022, ngokwekhalenda lamaShayina, yingwe. Futhi sanquma ukukhumbula izimfanelo ezitholakala esilwaneni esizingelayo esinemigqa - zingaba wusizo nakithi, izakhamuzi zehlathi lamatshe.
Nakuba isintu sizakhele indawo yaso yokuhlala, kuningi esingakufunda endle. Phela ngesinye isikhathi ngisho izingxoxo zasehhovisi zibukeka njengempi phakathi kwezilwane ezingafuywanga, kanye nemvelo yokuzivikela evuka esilwaneni esizingelayo, uma kukhona okusongela ingane yakhe, nathi sinakho. Linjani ingwe endaweni yalo yemvelo?
Asihambe siyozingela
“Ingwe, ngokungafani nami nawe, izinzile futhi ayiguquki,” kusho uMxhumanisi Omkhulu we-WWF Wokongiwa Kwezinhlobo Ezingavamile uPavel Fomenko. "Uma inyama, inyama, futhi ungabheki otshanini."
Ingwe ingumzingeli ozelwe, iyakwazi ukuzifihla ngokuphelele, ibheke ilitshe, kanye nokuyiphishekela ngesineke nangokuphikelela: ifuna inyamazane enkulu engazitholi ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Ukuzingela nakho kuyingxenye yempilo yethu, futhi ama-algorithms empumelelo afana kuzo zombili izimo.
Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo u-Eduard Mavlyutov sithi: “Uma sidinga ukuthola indawo enhle ngaphansi kwelanga, ngokwesibonelo, emsebenzini, siqala silinde futhi sibone, khona-ke sisebenzisa ikhono lokubamba futhi singaphuthelwa isisulu sethu (kithi, chance) futhi uthuthukise isivinini ukuze ungene ngesigqi esifanele futhi uthole okufunayo.
Umzingeli emvelweni akakwazi ukukhokhela ukungaqiniseki. “Uma ingwe liyozingela alizitsheli ukuthi lizophumelela noma cha, livele lihambe,” kuqhuba isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo. “Siyazingabaza kaningi okwenza singakwazi ukuya emgomweni wethu. Ngemuva kokungabaza kwethu kukhona inqwaba yokwesaba: ukwesaba impumelelo, ukwehla kwenani okulandelayo, i-syndrome yomuntu omncane.
Ngezinye izikhathi siyangabaza ngisho nendawo esikuyo - hhayi nje ngokomzimba, kodwa nangokwengqondo: sizizwa singelutho noma singadingeki - yile ndlela i-impostor syndrome ezibonakalisa ngayo, okuyinto amahlosi angenayo ngisho nokuyibona. Abalokothi bazibheke njengabangelutho endaweni abakuyo.
Ake sengeze ubushelelezi
Amahlosi mahle kakhulu, anoboya obukhulu futhi obukhanyayo, futhi, ngokungafani namakati amaningi, athanda amanzi. Bageza emfuleni ngisho nasolwandle, babuye babhuquze eqhweni. Ukuhlanzeka komuntu, ngokoqobo nangokomfanekiso, kuwukubonakaliswa kokuzithanda nokuhlonipha abanye. U-Eduard Mavlyutov uthi: “Umxhumanisi ongahlelekile, cishe, akanalo ukuhleleka ekhanda lakhe.
Amahlosi anamandla kakhulu, kodwa lawa mandla awashayi - sibona umusa wabo, ukushelela kokunyakaza.
Uma sifuna ukusebenza emizimbeni yethu, singenza i-aerobics noma i-gymnastics. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amahlosi ayakwazi ukuhlola ngokushesha isimo, afunde emaphutheni awo futhi ahlakulele imikhuba emisha.
“Ukuvumelana nezimo ezingokwengqondo nakho kungathuthukiswa,” kunezela isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, “ukufunda ukubamba isigqi sokuphila, kanye nokuthuthukisa ikhono lokulalela nokuzwa. Abaningi balabo abaphumelele bazithola besezikhundleni zokuphatha, ngenxa yokuthi abahlanganyeli emaqilisweni, kodwa baqhelelane nawo. Futhi, njengamahlosi, afinyelela umgomo wawo, abambe ama-alamu kusenesikhathi.
Abaholi abanjalo bayakwazi ukucabanga isu, icebo, bathathe ikhefu esiphithiphithini bese befika esimeni esihlakaniphile, ngaleyo ndlela babuyise amandla abo. "
Masithuthele edolobheni lama-cougars
"Catwoman", "intombazane yahamba iyozingela" - kunemisho eminingi efanayo enkulumweni yethu. Imikhuba yengwe ingaba usizo empilweni yomuntu siqu.
“Ingwe ayesabi isizungu, iyakwazisa ukuba yedwa, futhi le mfanelo ingaba ifaneleka entombazaneni engenabo ubuhlobo, umama okhulisa ingane eyedwa, nalowo ozakhela ibhizinisi lakhe,” kusho isazi socansi uSvetlana Lebedeva. “Ukuziphilisa kukwenza uzizwe ukhululekile futhi unganciki emadodeni.”
Kodwa ukuzenelisa akusho ukungabi bikho kwezifiso. Emvelweni, uma isikhathi sokurutha sesifikile, insikazi isuke ifuna owesilisa. Ingwe «ishada» izikhathi eziningana phakathi nokuphila kwayo.
“Akazibeki icala yena noma ingwe lapho ubuhlobo babo buphela,” kuqhubeka isazi socansi. - Uyazi ukuthi angadedela kanjani futhi anganamathelani ngokungaphezu kwesilinganiso, kodwa uphinde azifunele iduna elingcono kunawo wonke kanye namawundlu ayo akusasa. Ikhwalithi enhle kakhulu uma ungakakwazi ukudala umbhangqwana impilo yakho yonke.
Njengama-tigress, abaningi bethu bayiqapha ngokucophelela insimu yethu, beqaphela imingcele yezinto zethu siqu futhi balwe nanoma ubani onesibindi sokuzingenela. Le mfanelo isisiza ukuba sivikele imingcele yomuntu siqu ezimweni ezihlukahlukene, isibonelo, ezimweni zokuhlukunyezwa noma izicelo ezivela kumphathi zokusebenza isikhathi esengeziwe ngaphandle kwenkokhelo eyengeziwe.
Ezimweni zanamuhla, ngayinye yezimfanelo ze-tiger - ilukuluku, ukuhlakanipha, ukubuka, ukuguquguquka, ukuhlolwa okusheshayo kwesimo - kusezandleni zabesifazane kuphela.
"Basiza ukuzulazula kalula cishe kunoma iyiphi indawo yokuphila, kungaba umsebenzi wobuchwepheshe, ukutadisha, impilo yomuntu siqu noma ukuzenzela ngokwakho," kuphawula uSvetlana Lebedeva. “Umnikazi walezi zimfanelo uyakwazi ukuhlaziya inqwaba yolwazi, abone izitayela ezintsha phambi kwabanye futhi azisebenzisele inzuzo yakhe.”
Mhlawumbe, ngamunye wethu angakwazi ukuboleka okuthile kulezi zilwane ezingavamile. Ingabe usukulungele ukuzama indima yekati elikhulu lasendle?