Abazali abaningi bangavuma ukuthi inhlalakahle yezingane zabo ibaluleke kakhulu kithi. Enye yezindlela ezingcono kakhulu zokuba nomthelela kulokhu iwukubafundisa ukuba nethemba. Ungase ucabange ukuthi “ukufundisa ukuba nethemba” kusho ukufaka izibuko ezinemibala egqamile futhi uyeke ukubona iqiniso njengoba linjalo. Nokho, akunjalo nhlobo. Ucwaningo lwakamuva lubonisa ukuthi ukufaka umqondo omuhle ezinganeni kuzivikela ekucindezelekeni nasekukhathazekeni, futhi kuzisiza ukuba zithole impumelelo yesikhathi esizayo. Kodwa-ke, isimo sengqondo esihle empilweni asikona ukumamatheka okujabulisayo ngenkathi ufika entanyeni yakho ezinkingeni. Kumayelana nokusebenza ngendlela yakho yokucabanga nokusishintsha ukuze kuzuze wena. Ake sibheke ezinye zezindlela abazali nothisha abangasiza ngazo ekulolongeni ukucabanga okuhle ezinganeni zabo. Yiba yisibonelo somuntu ocabanga kahle Sisabela kanjani ezimweni ezicindezelayo? Sithini ngokuzwakalayo uma kwenzeka okuthile okungajabulisi: isibonelo, ibhilidi ifika ukuze ikhokhwe; siwela ngaphansi kwesandla somuntu esishisayo; ukudelela? Kubalulekile ukufunda ukuzibamba emcabangweni ongemuhle othi “Asinamali eyanele” bese ufaka esikhundleni sawo ngokuthi “Sinemali eyanele yokukhokha izikweletu.” Ngakho, ngesibonelo sethu, sibonisa izingane indlela yokusabela ezicini ezihlukahlukene ezingemnandi. "Inguqulo engcono kakhulu yakho" Xoxa nezingane zakho ngalokho ezingathanda ukuba yikho/ukuba yikho. Ungakwenza lokhu kokubili ngefomethi yengxoxo yomlomo, futhi uyilungise ngokubhala (mhlawumbe inketho yesibili iphumelela nakakhulu). Siza ingane yakho ukuthi iqonde futhi ibone inguqulo yayo engcono kakhulu ezindaweni ezihlukahlukene zokuphila: esikoleni, ekuqeqeshweni, ekhaya, nabangane, njalonjalo. Ukwabelana ngemizwa eyakhayo Ezikoleni eziningi kunesikhathi esabelwe ngokukhethekile, esibizwa ngokuthi “ihora lekilasi”. Phakathi nalesi simiso, kunconywa ukuxoxa ngezikhathi ezijabulisayo, zokufundisa ezenzeke kubafundi ngalolu suku noma usuku olwedlule, kanye namandla omlingiswa wabo abawabonisa. Ngezingxoxo ezinjalo, sikhulisa ezinganeni umkhuba wokugxila ezinhlelweni zazo ezinhle futhi zakhele phezu kwamandla azo. Khumbula:
2022-11-11