I-Psychology

Ngemva kokufunda ama-biographies abantu abadumile, sizothola ukuthi akukho lutho olungaphezu kwemvelo ezindabeni zabo zempumelelo, futhi iresiphi yempumelelo ilula futhi ngenxa yalokho ifinyeleleka kuwo wonke umuntu. Ngakho-ke, uma ulandela iphupho lakho futhi ulahle amagama athi "kodwa" futhi "kufanele", ungashintsha kakhulu ekuphileni.

Umthetho kaSteve Jobs: Landela Inhliziyo Yakho

Bekhumbula indlela uSteve Jobs aqala ngayo, bambalwa abazali abangafuna ukumbeka njengesibonelo ezinganeni zabo. Umsunguli wesikhathi esizayo wohlobo oludumile lwe-Apple wayeka eReed College ngemva kokufunda izinyanga eziyisithupha. “Angizange ngilibone iphuzu lakho, ngangingaqondi ukuthi ngenzeni ngokuphila kwami,” echaza isinqumo sakhe eminyakeni eminingi kamuva kubafundi baseStanford University. "Nganquma ukukholelwa ukuthi konke kuzolunga."

Wayengazi nokuthi enzeni. Wayazi into eyodwa ngokuqinisekile: "kufanele alandele inhliziyo yakhe." Ekuqaleni, inhliziyo yakhe yamholela ekuphileni okujwayelekile kwama-hippie wama-70s: walala phansi kwabanye abafundi, waqoqa amathini e-Coca-Cola futhi wahamba amakhilomitha ambalwa ukuze athole ukudla ethempelini lase-Hare Krishna. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, wayejabulela yonke iminithi, ngoba wayelandela ilukuluku lakhe kanye nengqondo.

Kungani uSteve ebhalisele izifundo ze-calligraphy, yena ngokwakhe akazange aqaphele ngaleso sikhathi, wabona nje iphosta ekhanyayo ekamelweni.

Kodwa lesi sinqumo eminyakeni eminingi kamuva sashintsha umhlaba

Ukube akafundanga i-calligraphy, eminyakeni eyishumi kamuva, ikhompuyutha yokuqala ye-Macintosh ibingeke ibe nohlu olungaka lwezinhlamvu namafonti. Mhlawumbe uhlelo lokusebenza lweWindows, futhi: Imisebenzi ikholelwa ukuthi inhlangano yeBill Gates yayikopisha ngokungenamahloni iMac OS.

“Iyini imfihlo yobuhlakani bukaJobs? kubuza omunye wabasebenzi obesebenza kwa-Apple iminyaka engu-30. - Umlando we-calligraphy yikho konke okudingeka ukwazi mayelana nezimiso ezishayelayo. Ngicabanga ukuthi kufanele uthole umsebenzi wokuba uweta noma okuthile kuze kube yilapho uthola into oyithanda ngempela. Uma ungakayitholi, qhubeka nokubheka, ungayeki.” Imisebenzi yayinenhlanhla: wayazi kusenesikhathi ukuthi yini ayefuna ukuyenza.

Wayekholelwa ukuthi uhhafu wempumelelo kasomabhizinisi ukubekezela. Abaningi bayayeka, abakwazi ukunqoba ubunzima. Uma ungakuthandi okwenzayo, uma ungenalo intshisekelo, ngeke ukwazi ukwenza intuthuko: "Into kuphela ebingigcina ngiqhubekele phambili ukuthi bengiwuthanda umsebenzi wami."

Amazwi ashintsha yonke into

U-Bernard Roth, umqondisi we-Stanford School of Design, uqhamuke nemithetho ethile yolimi ukukusiza ukufeza izinhloso zakho. Kwanele ukukhipha amagama amabili enkulumweni.

1. Faka esikhundleni "kodwa" ngokuthi "futhi"

Yeka ukuthi sikhulu kangakanani isilingo sokuthi: "Ngifuna ukuya kuma-movie, kodwa kufanele ngisebenze." Ungenza muphi umehluko uma esikhundleni salokho uthi, “Ngifuna ukuya kumamuvi futhi ngidinga ukusebenza”?

Sisebenzisa inyunyana «kodwa», sibekela ubuchopho umsebenzi, futhi ngezinye izikhathi siza nezaba ngathi. Kungenzeka ukuthi, ukuzama ukuphuma "ekungqubuzaneni kwezithakazelo zethu", ngeke senze okukodwa noma okunye, kodwa ngokuvamile sizokwenza enye into.

Cishe ungenza kokubili njalo - udinga nje ukuthola indlela

Uma sishintsha elithi «kodwa» ngokuthi «kanye», ubuchopho bubheka indlela yokufeza zombili izimo zomsebenzi. Ngokwesibonelo, singabuka ifilimu emfushane noma sinikeze omunye umuntu ingxenye yomsebenzi.

2. Ithi "ngiyafuna" esikhundleni sokuthi "kufanele"

Ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho uzothi “Ngidinga” noma “Kumelwe,” shintsha indlela yokwenza kube “Ngiyafuna.” Uyawuzwa umehluko? “Lokhu kuvivinya umzimba kusenza sazi ukuthi esikwenzayo ngempela sizikhethele thina,” kusho uRoth.

Omunye wabafundi bakhe wayezonda izibalo kodwa wanquma ukuthi kufanele enze izifundo ukuze aqedele iziqu zakhe ze-master. Ngemva kokuphothula lesi senzo, le nsizwa yavuma ukuthi empeleni ibifuna ukuhlala ezifundweni ezingajabulisi ngoba inzuzo yokugcina ingaphezu kokuphazamiseka.

Njengoba usuwazi kahle le mithetho, ungabekela inselele i-automatism futhi uqonde ukuthi noma iyiphi inkinga ayinzima njengoba ibonakala ekuqaleni.

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