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Isikhathi esimaphakathi sokukhulelwa umntwana
Ukubekezela, ukubekezela. Kuyadingeka ukubala ngokwesilinganiso izinyanga ezingu-7 ukukhulelwa umntwana, ngokocwaningo lwakamuva olwenziwe yiNational Institute for Demographic Studies (INED). Ngemuva konyaka owodwa, u-97% wezithandani zizobe sezikuzuzile lokhu. Kodwa wonke umbhangqwana uhlukile. Futhi ukuzala kuyahluka kakhulu kumuntu ngamunye. Amaphesenti angu-25 kuphela imibhangqwana (yesilinganiso sokuzala) azozuza ukukhulelwa enyangeni yokuqala ngemva kokuyeka ukuvimbela inzalo. Kodwa lapho isikhathi esiningi sidlula, yilapho kukhombisa ubunzima obuthile. Uma ekuqaleni umbhangqwana unamathuba angu-25% umjikelezo ngamunye wokuya esikhathini wokuthola ukukhulelwa, ngemva konyaka owodwa, lesi sibalo sikhuphukela ku-12%, futhi siye ku-7% ngemva kweminyaka emibili. Yingakho kunconywa ukuba bonana nochwepheshe ngemva konyaka owodwa wokuya ocansini njalo ngaphandle kokuvimbela inzalo. Kodwa akungenxa yokuthi sisizwa isayensi ukuthi izinto zihamba ngokushesha. Lapho ukuhlolwa kokuzala sekuyenziwe, ukwelashwa kuyaqala. Ukusebenza akukona ngokushesha. Kuthatha isilinganiso sezinyanga eziyisi-6 ukuya onyakeni ukuze kuqale ukukhulelwa. Isikhathi esingase sibonakale siside, ikakhulukazi lapho izindlela zokwelapha zokungabi nabantwana zinzima futhi zizama.
Kuzothatha isikhathi esingakanani ukukhulelwa ngemva kokumisa iphilisi noma ezinye izinto zokuvimbela inzalo?
Ungakhulelwa ngaphambi nje komjikelezo wokuya esikhathini ngemva kokumisa iphilisi. Ngempela, ikhululiwe kunoma yikuphi ukuvimbela inzalo kwama-hormone, i-ovulation ingaphinda iqale futhi. Ngezinye izikhathi nge-caprice kanye nokungahambi kahle, nakuba lokhu kuyivelakancane (cishe u-2% wamacala). Isikhathi esiningi, umjikelezo uqala kabusha lapho uyeka ukuphuza iphilisi.. Akukho ukuphikisa kwezokwelapha ke ukuba kwenziwe ukuhlolwa kwengane. Uma i-oocyte ikhona, ingavundiswa. Umbono oyiphutha oye waphikelela isikhathi eside ukuthi kungcono ukulinda imijikelezo emibili noma emithathu ngaphambi kokukhulelwa ukuze unciphise ingozi yokuphuphuma kwesisu, ngoba ulwelwesi lwesibeletho luzothuthukiswa kakhulu. Le nkolelo ayikaze iqinisekiswe ngokwesayensi. Ngakho-ke uma wena nomlingani wakho nizizwa nilungile, akumele nilinde!
Ngokuphathelene nezinye izindlela zokuvimbela inzalo, kuyafana: ukukhanya okuluhlaza okusheshayo. Ama-IUD, ama-patches, ama-implants, ama-spermicides, zonke lezi zindlela zinemiphumela esheshayo yokuvimbela inzalo, okungenani ngokombono. Ngakho asikho isidingo sokulinda noma nini ngaphambi kokuzama ukuba nomntwana. Futhi uma ukukhulelwa kwenzeka usagqoke i-IUD, lokhu akubeki engozini ingxenye esele yokukhulelwa. Udokotela uzobe esezama ukuyisusa. Uma ingafinyeleleki, ingahlala isendaweni.
Ukuhlolwa kwengane: kungcono nini ukulibazisa iphrojekthi yokukhulelwa?
Ezinye izimo ngezinye izikhathi zidinga ukubambezeleka ngaphambi kokukhulelwa. Ngokuphawulekayo uma unesifo esingamahlalakhona njengoba kungcono ukuthi lesi sifo sizinze ngaphambili, isibonelo esimweni se-Graves' disease noma i-lupus.
Ngemva kokusebenza okuthile yendawo yangasese (i-conization yomlomo wesibeletho, isibonelo), odokotela batusa ukulinda izinyanga ezintathu noma ezine ngaphambi kokukhulelwa.
Okokugcina, ngemva kokwelashwa komdlavuza webele, kuyatuswa futhi ukuthi ulinde cishe iminyaka emibili ngaphambi kokuzama i-adventure. Kusukela eminyakeni engu-35, odokotela bacabanga ukuthi ukubonisana akufanele kubambezeleke. Ngoba ukuzala kwabesifazane kuncipha ngokuphawulekayo kusukela kuleyo minyaka. Ingozi yokuphuphuma kwesisu nayo iyanda kakhulu. Senza kanjalo, lapho sifuna kakhudlwana ukuba nengane “ephuzile,” yilapho kudingeka silinde kancane.