Okuqukethwe
Yethula uMntwana ngemisebenzi yasekhaya emincane
Ukubandakanya ingane yakho emisebenzini yasekhaya kungenzeka. Ngempela, ingane yakho encane iyakwazi ukuthwala imithwalo yemfanelo ethile. Ngokwesibonelo, lapho nje ehamba, ungangabazi ukumkhuthaza ukuba abeke amathoyizi akhe emgqonyeni lapho engasawasebenzisi. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, mdumise ukuze umkhuthaze, uzozizwa ebalulekile. Lapho eneminyaka engu-2 ubudala, ingane yakho ibheka ngokucophelela labo abaseduze kwayo futhi ikopishe ukuthinta kwalabo abaseduze nayo: lesi yisikhathi sokulingisa. Ukhiqiza izimo azibona ezimzungezile. Izingane, amantombazane nabafana, bathanda ukudlala ngomshanelo noma ngesicoci se-vacuum. Uma kuwumdlalo nje ekuqaleni, kumvumela ukuthi afane nalezi zimo ezibambekayo azibonayo. Ngalesi sikhathi, ingane yakho izokwazi ukukunikeza usizo oluncane lapho ubuya esitolo ukuze uqoqe igilosa noma ukhiphe okuthengile esikhwameni. Ngaphandle kwalokho, angase abe ngowokuqala ukuthatha lesi sinyathelo. Ungakhathazeki: angakwenza! Kuwumsebenzi wokumethemba omnika wona, futhi uzimisele ngokuqinile ukuthi angakuphoxi. Uma ephathiswe umsebenzi “omkhulu”, kufanele asabele “njengomkhulu”. Nakulokhu, uzozizwa abalulekile. Yebo, kwakungekho mbuzo wokumvumela ukuthi agcine amaqanda, noma amabhodlela engilazi. Angase azilimaze noma aphendule ikhishi libe inkundla yempi. Kukho konke okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe, ingane yakho izobamba ngekhanda ngokushesha indawo ye-pasta, ubisi, njll. ukuzivocavoca okumangalisayo kwengane yakho, kodwa futhi nomzuzu wokuzibophezela ukwabelana naye. Lolu hlobo lomsebenzi lumvumela kancane kancane ukuba athuthukise ukuzimela kwakhe futhi, kungani kungenjalo, ukuqonda ukuthi "umsebenzi" nokuzijabulisa kuyahambisana. Ngaphandle kwalokho, ungangabazi ukufaka umculo nokudansa lapho niqoqa ndawonye. Lokhu kufunda okumnene kuyomvimbela ekulinganiseni noma yimuphi umsebenzi omncane nesijeziso.
Umndeni: eminyakeni emi-3, ingane yakho iba umsizi wangempela
Kusukela eminyakeni engu-3 ubudala, ungacela ingane yakho usizo lokuqoqa ikamelo layo, inqobo nje uma amabhokisi namashalofu kubude bayo. Lapho nje ekhumula, futhi mfundise ukubeka izingubo zakhe endaweni engcolile noma ukubeka izicathulo zakhe ekamelweni, isibonelo. Ngaphambi kokuba aphume, angakwazi futhi ukulenga ijazi lakhe endaweni yokubeka amajazi, uma lifinyeleleka. Etafuleni, uyakwazi ukuletha ipuleti lakhe nenkomishi yakhe yepulasitiki phezu kwetafula noma akusize ulethe isinkwa, ibhodlela lamanzi ... Kulesi sigaba, ungakwazi futhi ukwabelana ngezikhathi ezinhle ekhishini futhi wenze ingane yakho ibe umpheki omncane okhulayo. Ngokwenza ikhekhe nawe, uzoba nomuzwa wokuthi ngenxa yakhe, umndeni ungadla! Kungakusiza futhi ukuthi ukhiphe ilondolo emshinini wokuwasha bese ulenga izinto ezincane ezifana namasokisi noma izingubo zangaphansi emshinini wokomisa. Phakathi nezinyanga, ungangabazi ukumnika imithwalo yemfanelo eyengeziwe. Lokhu kuzomfundisa ukuhlela isikhathi sakhe futhi athole amakhono amasha. Futhi khumbula, lokhu kufunda kuthatha iminyaka. Ngakho-ke kungcono ukukwenza kahle ngaphambi kokuthomba.