Okuqukethwe
“Njengombhangqwana iminyaka eminingi, u-Alban noStéphan babengakucabanganga bengenamntwana. Njengoba besondela eminyakeni engamashumi amane, bafuna ukuqala umndeni, "ukunikeza uthando nezindinganiso". Futhi bazimisele ngokudelela umthetho kwazise awubaniki ilungelo lokuba abazali. “Ukutholwa, sikucabangile, kodwa sekuvele kuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu kumbhangqwana, ngakho-ke kumuntu oyedwa”, uyazisola u-Stéphan. “Bekuzoba nophenyo emphakathini, okusho ukuqamba amanga. Angiboni ukuthi besingakufihla kanjani ukuthi sisothandweni ”.
Esinye isisombululo, ukukhulisa izingane, kodwa futhi, izingibe zalesi simiso ziningi. Ekugcineni, umbhangqwana unquma ukusebenzisa umama oshade naye. Besekelwa abathandekayo babo, bandizela e-United States. Izwe eline-India ne-Russia kuphela elingagodleli omama abazalelwe izakhamuzi zalo. Lapho befika eMinneapolis, bathola ukuthi imakethe yomama ovela endaweni eyodwa ithuthukiswa futhi igadwe kanjani. Baqinisekiswa: “Nakuba kwamanye amazwe izimo zilinganiselwe ngokwezimiso zokuziphatha, e-United States, uhlelo lwezomthetho luzinzile futhi abantu abazongenela ukhetho baningi. Kuyingxenye yamasiko, ”kusho uStéphan.
Ukukhethwa kukamama oshade naye
Umbhangqwana ube usuthumela ifayela ne-ejensi ekhethekile. Bese uhlangana nomndeni ngokushesha. Kuwuthando ekuqaleni. “Yilokho kanye ebesikufuna. Abantu abalinganiselayo abanesimo, izingane. Lo wesifazane ubengakwenzi lokhu ngenxa yemali. Wayefuna ukusiza abantu. Konke kuhamba ngokushesha okukhulu, kusayinwe inkontileka. U-Alban uzoba ubaba ozalayo futhi u-Stéphan ubaba osemthethweni. “Kwakubonakala kuwukuvumelana okuhle kithina, ukuthi le ngane inofuzo olufana negama lenye. Kodwa konke kusanda kuqala. U-Stéphan no-Alban manje kufanele bakhethe i-egg donor. E-United States, umama oshade naye akuyena onikela ngamaqanda akhe. Ngokusho kwabo lokhu kuyindlela yokugwema ukuthandeka owesifazane angase abe nakho nale ngane okungeyona eyakhe. ” Sakhetha umuntu ophile kahle osewanikele ngamaqanda akhe », Kuchaza uStéphan. "Ekugcineni, sibheke isithombe futhi kuyiqiniso ukuthi kwakukhona esasifana no-Alban, ngakho kwaba kuye ukuthi ukukhetha kwethu kwehlela kuye." Iphrothokholi yezokwelapha ihamba kahle. UMélissa ukhulelwa emzameni wokuqala. U-Stéphan no-Alban basezulwini. Isifiso sabo esikhulu ekugcineni siyofezeka.
Ukwesaba okukhulu ku-ultrasound yokuqala
Kodwa nge-ultrasound yokuqala, ukwesaba okukhulu. Kuvela indawo emnyama esikrinini. Udokotela ubatshela ukuthi kunamathuba angama-80% okuthi isisu siphuphunyelwe. UStéphan no-Alban bakhungathekile. Emuva eFrance, baqala ukukhalela le ngane. Bese, i-imeyili ngemva kwesonto: “umntwana uphilile, konke kuhamba kahle. ”
Qala i-marathon eqinile. Phakathi kohambo oluya emuva naphambili oluya e-United States, ukuhwebelana kwe-imeyili kwansuku zonke, obaba besikhathi esizayo bahlanganyela ngenkuthalo ekukhulelweni kukamama oshade naye. “Saziqopha sixoxa izinganekwane. UMélissa wafaka isigqoko sokuzivikela esiswini ukuze umntanakhe ezwe amazwi ethu. », Confides Stéphan.
Ukuzalwa okuphelele
Selusondele usuku lokulethwa. Lapho isikhathi sifika, abafana abafuni ukuya ekamelweni lokubelethela kodwa balinda ngokuphelelwa isineke ngemva komnyango. U-Bianca wazalwa ngoNovemba 11. Umhlangano wokuqala unomlingo. ” Lapho ebeka amehlo akhe kwawami, ngafikelwa umzwelo omkhulu », uStéphan uyakhumbula. Iminyaka emibili yokulinda, umdlalo wawufanele ikhandlela. Obaba base behlala nengane yabo. Banekamelo labo ewodini lababelethayo futhi benza zonke izidingo zezingane njengomama. Amaphepha enziwa ngokushesha.
Isitifiketi sokuzalwa sikhishwa ngokuhambisana nomthetho waseMinnesota. Kubekwe ukuthi uMélissa noStéphan bangabazali. Ngokuvamile, lapho ingane izalwa phesheya, kufanele imenyezelwe ku-consulate yezwe lendabuko. “Kodwa uma ebona owesilisa efika onengane nomunye wesifazane oshade naye, imvamisa icala liyavalwa.”
Ukubuyela eFrance
Umndeni omusha ushiya i-United States, ezinsukwini eziyishumi ngemva kokuzalwa kukaBianca. Lapho sezibuya, izinsizwa ziyavevezela njengoba zisondela emasikweni. Kodwa konke kuhamba kahle. U-Bianca uthola ikhaya lakhe, impilo yakhe entsha. Futhi ubuzwe French? Ezinyangeni ezilandela obaba baphindaphinda izinyathelo, benze ubudlelwano babo futhi ngenhlanhla, bawuthole. Kodwa bazi kahle ukuthi bahlukile. Njengoba indodakazi yabo izobe igubha usuku lwayo lokuzalwa maduze nje, U-Alban no-Stéphan bajabulela indima yabo entsha njengobaba. Wonke umuntu uthole indawo yakhe kulo mndeni ohlukile. ” Siyazi ukuthi indodakazi yethu kuzomele ilwe enkundleni yokudlala. Kodwa umphakathi uyashintsha, izimo zengqondo ziyashintsha, ”kuvuma uStéphan, enethemba.
Mayelana nomshado wobulili obufanayo, okuzogunyazwa ngumthetho omusha, umbhangqwana uhlose ukuya phambi kwemeya. “Ingabe sinakho ngempela ukukhetha? », Kugcizelela u-Stéphan. ” Ayikho enye indlela yokuvikela indodakazi yethu ngokusemthethweni. Uma kusasa kwenzeka okuthile kimi, u-Alban kufanele abe nelungelo lokunakekela ingane yakhe. “