Isifiso sokuba nomntwana: ubufakazi obudabukisayo babesifazane abadinga umntwana

” Ngemva kokuba wehliselwe umbungu eminyakeni emi-3 edlule, nganginesifiso esinamandla sokuba nenye ingxenye encane. Ukuthi wayeyintombazane noma umfana, kwakungasho lutho kimi. Inqobo nje uma nginaleyongane engiyifuna ngaphezu kwanoma yini. Ngiphinde ngicabange ngakho futhi nakuba ngijabule kakhulu ngamawele ami, ngisadinga elilodwa elizovala ukulahlekelwa kwamanye amaqembu amabili ukujoyina izingelosi. Ngasohlangothini lomndeni akekho owaziyo, kubo, asikho isidingo sokuba nalesi sifiso. Kodwa inamandla kunami, ngize ngikwazi ukuzibangela ukuba ngibambezeleke kuma periods, isisu sikhukhumale ngifune ukuphalaza kanti ngiyazi ukuthi akwenzeki ngoba ngine IUD. Angililahli ithemba ukuthi ngolunye usuku kuyohlala kimi isidalwa esincane. ”

myle

UJoëlle Desjardins-Simon:Ukuncishiswa kwe-Embryonic kusekude ekubeni isenzo esincane. Myle, ubonakala uthwele icala kakhulu, ungatsheli abathandekayo bakho ngakho, wenza iziqalo zokukhulelwa okucatshangelwayo, futhi unethemba lokuthi ukukhulelwa okusha kuza ukuzolungisa ukubhujiswa kwemibungu yakho emibili. Ungawunciphisa kanjani lo mthwalo wecala ukuze ungawudluliseli enganeni yakho engakazalwa?

“Ngemuva kokuphuphunyelwa yizisu izikhathi ezingu-8 eminyakeni engu-4, kuhlanganise newele lapho ngalahlekelwa khona umbungu wesibili emasontweni amabili ngemva kowokuqala, ukukhulelwa kwe-ectopic kwatholakala sekwephuzile, ngakho-ke ukususwa kweshubhu elilimele, izigaba zezinyembezi ezigelezayo… Yebo, ukuthatheka bekukhona. Izivivinyo eziningi, izibalo, ukuncipha ... Ngamafuphi, ngafika kudokotela wami wezifo zabesifazane ngikhala izinyembezi, ngithi: yeka, ngiyaqhekeka, ngimisa zonke izindlela zokwelapha, ngiphinde ngiliphuze iphilisi, angisakholwa. Kwakuwukuphuphunyelwa kwesisu okukodwa okuningi kakhulu! Ngakho ukuqaliswa kabusha kwephilisi elivamile, ngaphandle kokukhohlwa, ngesikhathi esinqunyiwe, kwakungoFebruwari 2011. Azikho ezinye izindlela zokwelapha, i-magnesium kuphela yokwenyuka ngomthambeka. NgoJuni 2011, ukuhlolwa kokukhulelwa engangikushiye (inqwaba ethengiwe) ekhemisi yami, njengehlazo ukuyilahla iphelele, ngiyakwenza. Ngaphinda ngafunda “ibhukwana” izikhathi ezi-3, ngashaqeka kangangokuthi lalilungile! Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa kamuva, ukuphola kwe-echo, amasonto angu-7 ekhulelwe. Ukuphumula okuphelele. February 2012 ngesikhathi, inhliziyo yami encane kukhona 4,02 kg kanye 52 cm. ”

oneminyaka

I-JDS: Uhambo lwakho lukhombisa ukuthi impilo ihamba kanjani ngaphandle kolwazi lwethu nokuthi, ezindabeni zokungabi nabantwana, akukho okungahlehliswe ...

“Iminyaka emi-5, besifuna ucezwana lwethu… kodwa cha! Lokhu kwaba kunzima ukubona abangani, umndeni, bonke baba abazali emsebenzini, kulula kakhulu kwabanye! Bekunezinyembezi eziningi ezigciniwe noma ezifihliwe, ngiyavuma… Bese kuthi emva kwalokho kufakwe ama-2, ingane yethu encane yazalwa, cishe ezinyangeni eziyi-7 ezedlule. Ungalahlekelwa ithemba ! »

I-Charline

I-JDS: Ukungatholi abantwana, osekuvele kubuhlungu, kwesinye isikhathi kuvusa umona ovuthayo nongakhulumeki obuye andise ukuhlupheka.

“Lapho isifiso siba yisidingo, lapho lobu bukhona obufiswayo sekwedlule isikhathi eside futhi lapho bungekho…. Ngicabanga ukuthi igama elithi obsession likhethwe kabi! Lapho kufanele ungcwabe wonke amathemba akho, ngiyacabangasingakhuluma ngokuzila! »

Blueberry

I-JDS: Akufanele ube wedwa ngenxa yokuphelelwa ithemba okungaka… Zizungeze nabantu obathandayo, oshade naye ukuze ungabhekani nalokhu uwedwa.

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