Ngabe isikole siyeke abafana?
Juni 28, 2007 - Isikole asibakhathaleli ngokwanele abafana, yingakho abaningi babo bengenayo intshisekelo yokuqhubekisela phambili imfundo yabo.
Lokhu ukubonwa kwesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uWilliam Pollack1, evela e-Harvard University School of Medicine ehlonishwayo. Lo mkhuba ungabonakala kakhulu e-United States naseCanada njengasemazweni amaningi aseNtshonalanga.
IQuebec nayo iyafana: “Abayisikhombisa kwabayishumi abashiya phansi ngabesilisa,” usho kanje. Izinga lokuyeka esikoleni likhuphuka kakhulu emindenini encishwe amathuba: I-43% yabasha baseQuebecers abavela kulezi zizinda abanawo ama-diploma esikoleni esiphakeme.
Ngisho nangaphambi kokuyeka isikole, abafana bakuthola kunzima ukuthola indawo yabo esikoleni. "Kodwa-ke, bathola usizo oluphindwe kabili kunamantombazane", kuncenga uWilliam Pollack. E-United States, izingane zigasela emakilasini akhethekile â € ”lapho kutholakala khona izingane ezisebunzimeni. Abamele izinombolo ezingekho ngaphansi kwama-70% kulawa makilasi.
Sifunda kanjani? “Amantombazane amaningi afunda ngokumane alalele othisha bawo noma ngokubuka. Ngokuqondene nabafana, bakhetha ukufunda ngokuzama - ngokuzenzela bona. Amakilasi amaningi awayifanele le ndlela yokwenza izinto. Ngenxa yalokho, umfana angase abe nesithukuthezi noma angaphumuli futhi abhalwe ukuthi unezinkinga zokuziphatha, ukungakwazi ukunaka kahle, noma ukunyakazisa umzimba ngokweqile.2. " UWilliam Pollack |
“Ingabe banalo ikhono elincane kusukela ekuzalweni kwabo? ", Wethula uWilliam Pollack ngendlela yehlaya. Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo asiwuphenduli umbuzo wakhe ngqo. Kodwa izibonelo azinikezayo ukuze zicacise iphuzu lakhe zibonisa ngokucacile ukuthi akakholelwa kukho.
Ngokusho kwakhe, uhlelo lwesikole aluzihloniphi izidingo eziqondile zabafana. Isikhathi sokuphumula siyisibonelo esihle. Ukuze zanelise isidingo sazo sokuthutha, izingane zesikole zesilisa kufanele zibe nezikhathi ezinhlanu zokuphumuza. “Kodwa akukubi uma sebenayo. Futhi kwesinye isikhathi akukho nhlobo, ”esho ngokuzisola.
Nasenyuvesi
Lokhu kuhlukana phakathi kwamantombazane nabafana kuyaqhubeka kuze kufike ekolishi. “Benza kangcono futhi kangcono kuyilapho bengaphumeleli kangako kuneminyaka eyishumi edlule,” kusho isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo saseMelika.
Kuwo wonke amazwe aseNtshonalanga, u-33% wabesifazane abaneminyaka engu-25 kuya ku-45 baneziqu zasenyuvesi uma kuqhathaniswa nama-28% amadoda aneminyaka yobudala efanayo.3. Ngakho-ke igebe kungenzeka likhule nakakhulu eminyakeni embalwa ezayo.
UWilliam Pollack ucaphuna izinhlolovo zabafundi basenyuvesi. Abangaphambili bachitha amahora amathathu kancane ezifundweni zabo phakathi nesonto. Abesifazane abasebasha benza okuphindwe kahlanu!
Dlala ukuze ube "abafana bangempela"
Kungani izingane nezinsizwa zihlangabezana nobunzima obuningi kangaka endleleni eya empumelelweni ezifundweni? UWilliam Pollack uyakuchaza ngomusho oshaqisayo: “Bazizwa ‘benqanyuliwe’ kubo nasemphakathini. “
Kwesinye isikhathi ngokungazi, umndeni kanye nesikole zibafundisa ukuhambisana nalokho indoda “eqinile, ebusayo” okufanele ibe yikho, ngokusho kwayo. Umphumela: bafunda ukufihla imizwa yabo yangempela. “Abafana abaningi badangele, babodwa futhi baphazamisekile ngisho noma bebonakala benokhahlo, bejabule noma bezethemba,” usho kanje encwadini yakhe edayisa kakhulu, Abafana Bangempela4.
Khona-ke ingozi inkulu, kubo, yokulahlekelwa indawo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi sicabanga ngokuluthwa izidakamizwa, ukudangala noma ukuzibulala lapho bechayeka khona kakhulu, ukhumbula umcwaningi.
Xhumana kabusha nabo
Yini-ke okufanele uyenze ukuze ubasize? “Yiba nobudlelwano obungokomzwelo,” ebabaza. Abazali nothisha ngokufanayo kufanele, ngokusho kwakhe, baphinde baxhumane nabafana: badlale nabo, balalele abakushoyo… Uphinde futhi uthi makuthuthukiswe umsebenzi wothisha â € ”enkulisa kanye 'nasesikoleni â € ” indima yabo. liyigugu kakhulu ezinganeni.
UWilliam Pollack udonsela ukunaka ocwaningweni olwenziwa ukuze kuthuthukiswe impumelelo ezifundweni zezingane zesikole5, okuhlanganisa nokufundisa. “Kuzo zonke izikole obekufundiswa kuzona lehlile izinga lokuphuma kwesikole. Umfana ngamunye angakha ubuhlobo obukhethekile nomeluleki wakhe, ”kusho yena. Umthelela ube mkhulu.
“Sinamandla kakhulu,” kuqhuba isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo ngentshiseko. Singakwazi ukushintsha isimo… futhi sisize izingane zethu hhayi nje lapho zineminyaka emi-4 noma emi-5, kodwa kukho konke ukuphila kwazo! “
Izingane ezinekhono futhi ezijabule? Ukuzinikela ezinganeni kungakhokha kakhulu. UWilliam Pollack usikhumbuza lokhu ngokugcizelela ukuthi isimo sothando nesifudumele somndeni nesikole singaba nomthelela kanjani empumelelweni yezingane.
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1. UWilliam Pollack ungumbhali we Abafana Bangempela, incwadi eyafika esitolo sezincwadi sase-US ngasekupheleni kwawo-1990. Wabuye wabhala Amazwi Abafana Bangempela et Incwadi Yokusebenzela Yabafana Bangempela. Wethula inkulumo ngohlaka lwe-13e Uhlelo lweNgqungquthela yaseMontreal eyenzeka kusukela mhla ziyi-18 kuya kumhla zingama-21 kuNhlangulana wezi-2007.
2. Ukuhumusha kwamahhala, kuthathwe ku- Abafana Bangempela : www.williampollack.com [kufinyelelwe ngoJuni 27, 2007].
3. Idatha evela ku-Organisation for Economic Co-operation and Development (OECD), ecashunwe nguWilliam Pollack.
4. Abafana Bangempela yanyatheliswa ngesiFulentshi: Pollack W. Izinsizwa zangempela, Varennes, Éditions AdA-Inc, 2001, 665 p.
5. UWilliam Pollack ubhekisele emsebenzini kaRobert Pianta waseNyuvesi yaseVirginia. Isibonelo: Hamre BK, Pianta RC. Ingabe ukusekelwa kokufundisa nokungokomzwelo ekilasini lebanga lokuqala kungenza umehluko ezinganeni ezisengozini yokufeyila esikoleni?, I-Dev Yezingane, 2005 Sep-Oct;76(5):949-67.