Okuqukethwe
Lapho ubuhlobo obuseduze nobokwethembana buxhumene nothandekayo, umuntu akafuni ukucabanga ukuthi konke kungashintsha. Lesi yisikhathi sokukhumbula isisho: ukuzivikela okungcono kakhulu ukuhlasela, okusho ukuthi kufanele uzame ukuvimbela izinkinga ezingase zibe khona kusengaphambili. Futhi nakuba singekho isiqinisekiso sokuthi ubuhlobo abusoze bugqitshwa yizingxabano nokungaqondi, izinyathelo ezimbalwa zizosiza ukwenza inyunyana yakho ibe namandla. Khona-ke, ngisho nalapho nibhekene nobunzima, niyobe nikulungele ukukhulumisana nokusekelana.
Isithukuthezi nokunganeliseki amabhomu esikhathi sangempela abukela phansi umfelandawonye. “Indlela eningi esikhushulelwa ngayo emsebenzini iwukugcina uthando lwethu luphila, njengoba nje sidinga ukujaha i-adrenaline ngezikhathi ezithile ebudlelwaneni bethu bomuntu siqu,” kusho umqeqeshi uKali Roger. – Uma ubuphila ngeshejuli engasho lutho olusha futhi olulungele nobabili, zama ukuyishintsha.
Hhayi nje ngenxa yezingxabano ezinodlame nokubuyisana okujabulisayo: lesi simo, esijwayezwa eminye imibhangqwana, sibeka engcupheni yokuthi usuku olulodwa lungapheli ngenjabulo. Woza nemisebenzi emisha noma uhambo oluzojabulisa wena nozakwenu, yenza impelasonto ibe nemicimbi eminingi.
Ngokuvamile kubonakala sengathi uma sikhululekile ukuthula sodwa, lokhu kuyinkomba yobudlelwano obunempilo. Kodwa-ke, kubalulekile ukuthi ungatholi nje ukungakhululeki ekuthuleni, kodwa futhi ukuthola ngokuhlanganyela isipiliyoni esiyohlala njalo enkumbulweni.
Umbuzo othi "Belunjani usuku lwakho?"
Kungase kubonakale kuwe ukuthi uzoqonda ngaphandle kwamagama uma kukhona okwenzekile kumlingani wakho futhi udinga usizo lwakho. Akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kuyafaneleka ukuqalisa isiko lokubuza ukuthi usuku lwabo luhambe kanjani — kusivumela ukuthi sizwe kangcono ukuba khona ngokomzwelo komunye umuntu ezimpilweni zethu. “Kubalulekile ukuthuthukisa ikhono lokuhlala uyisilaleli esikhuthele nesilalelisisayo,” kusho umelaphi womndeni uJanet Zinn. - Ngezindlela eziningi, lokhu kuyisiqinisekiso sokuthi uzokwazi ukunqoba isikhathi sokungqubuzana ebuhlotsheni.
Ikhono lokulalela, ngakolunye uhlangothi, lizokusiza ukuthi uqonde kangcono ukuthi yini eshayela umlingani wakho futhi uthole izinto enivumelana ngazo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukunaka kwakho kuzomnika isignali yokuthi uyi-priori ohlangothini lwakhe. Akadingi ukuhlasela noma ukuvikela - uvulekile futhi ufuna ukuthola ukuvumelana.
Independence
Ngokungangabazeki, izinto ezivamile zokuzilibazisa nabangane zibalulekile, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo kudingekile ukuthi ube nendawo yakho yezithakazelo. Abanye abantu bacabanga ukuthi lokhu kungase kube ubugovu ngokuphathelene nomlingani ongase athambekele ekunikeleni isikhathi sakhe esiningi samahhala kuwe.
“Nokho, ngisho nesikhathi esifushane niqhelelene kushajwa kabusha amabhethri akho angokomzwelo futhi kukuvumela ukuba ninikezane okwengeziwe,” kusho isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo u-Anita Chlipala. - Kubalulekile ukuhlangana nowakho, hhayi nje nabangani bakho. Kuyasiza ukuphazamiseka, ukuthola amandla avela kwabathandekayo, futhi ubheke inyunyana yakho ngaphandle.
Ukudlala ngothando
“Qiniseka ukuthi kuhlale kunesici emdlalweni ebudlelwaneni nokuthi impilo yakho yothando ayithuthuki ngokwesimo osekunesikhathi saziwa yibo bobabili,” kweluleka umqeqeshi uChris Armstrong. Hlukanisa lesi sikripthi, cela umlingani wakho ngezinsuku futhi ningayeki ukudlala ngothando. Ukudlala ngobudlelwano kusiza ekugcineni intshisekelo yocansi, okuyiyona enquma kakhulu ukuthi inyunyana yenu iwusizo kangakanani nempumelelo.