Ngunkulunkulu! Intombazane eneminyaka engu-4 ubudala ingitshele izolo ngokubonisana: " uyazi, ubaba wami, uyakwazi ukukhuphuka umbhoshongo waseMontparnasse ngaphandle “. Kusukela ku-0 kuya ku-3 ubudala, intombazanyana inezithombe zabesifazane kuphela ezizungezile (enkulisa, emhlabeni wezokwelapha) futhi lokho kuyihlazo. Imvamisa okuwukuphela kwendoda empilweni yakhe ubaba wayo, uhlukile.
Futhi umama kukho konke lokhu?
Ngokwemvelo ubamba iqhaza ekwakhiweni kwesibopho sikababa nendodakazi ngoba ebuhlotsheni nomunye wabazali, ubuhlobo nomunye bubhaliwe. Umama, ubaba kanye nengane: this is the founding trio.
Ubaba unendima yokuhlukanisa phakathi kukamama nengane yakhe. Umama naye kumele amyeke ayinakekele noma engamthandi. Kumele amethembe ngoba izikhathi lapho ubaba nendodakazi bebodwa zibalulekile.
Kwenzekani Emikhayeni Yomzali Oyedwa?
Isikhathi esiningi kuba omama ababodwa. Kulokhu, ukuhlangana kukamama nendodakazi cishe kuzohlala. Ingane encane ingaba umvikeli uma ithatha indawo kayise futhi ihlale incike kunina. Izinkinga zokuzethemba nokuzihlonipha zingavela.
Kubalulekile “ukubuyisela uyise ngezwi” nokuvumela umntwana ukuba athole “uyise wenhliziyo”: umalume, unkulunkulukazi, umngane omusha kamama ... Ingane idinga ubaba nomama, abanabo. indima efanayo futhi akukho okungakwazi ukunxephezela ukungabikho komunye.
Singachaza ngemisho emithathu indima kababa kusukela 0 kuya 3 ubudala? Kuyasiza ukuhlukanisa ingane nonina. Iveza futhi ivule ingane ekuphileni komphakathi. Uthi ukuvinjelwa kokulala nezihlobo. |