Ngezinye izikhathi siyehluleka ukuxazulula inkinga, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi sizama kanzima kangakanani ukucabanga ngendlela enengqondo. Lapho i-hemisphere yesokunxele enengqondo ingenawo amandla, ilungelo lokudala liyasiza. Enye yezindlela eziphumelela kakhulu zokusebenza naye ukwelapha inganekwane. Iluphi uhlobo lwendlela futhi kusiza kanjani ukuxazulula inkinga ebonakala ingaxazululeki, kusho isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo u-Elena Mkrtychan.
Ekuqaleni, yayiwumthombo oyinhloko wolwazi, yayivumela ukudlulisa ulwazi mayelana nokuphila, ukugcina umlando. Khona-ke yaba ithuluzi elisiza izingane ukuba zikhule ngokuvumelana, kokubili ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo. Ezinganekwaneni, umuntu angathola incazelo yemithetho yemvelo, nama-archetypes abalingiswa babantu, nazo zonke izinhlobo zezingxabano nezimo zomndeni, nezinhlobo zokuziphatha kuzo.
Uma ingane yeqa isigaba "esimangalisayo" semfundo, i-algorithm yempilo yakhe ayakhiwa, futhi isimo sakhe sengqondo ngempilo siqala ukuthonywa izimo zengqondo zabantu abadala, ngokuvamile ezicabangelayo.
Izingane ezingakafundwa izinganekwane ziseqenjini elithi «ingozi». Lapho bekhula, bazama ukuxazulula noma iyiphi inkinga ngokunengqondo, ngokunengqondo, besebenzisa ukunyakaza okujwayelekile kanye namasu futhi bashaya indiva amandla e-hemisphere enembile enembile, ikhono lokwenza izinto ngobuciko, ngokuphefumulelwa, ngokuzenzakalelayo. Abaphili, kodwa banqoba okuthile ngaso sonke isikhathi.
I-hemisphere yesokunxele ifuna incazelo yayo yonke into futhi ayiboni izimangaliso. Futhi ilungelo liyaqaphela - futhi liyabaheha
Abawuniki umcabango wamahhala, futhi ngemva kwakho konke, konke okungacatshangwa nokucatshangelwa kungafezeka. Futhi hhayi emcabangweni, kodwa eqinisweni. I-hemisphere yesokunxele ifuna incazelo yayo yonke into futhi ayiboni izimangaliso. Futhi i-hemisphere efanele iyaqaphela. Futhi, ngaphezu kwalokho, uyazi ukuthi angayenza kanjani futhi ngisho nokubiza nokuheha.
I-hemisphere elungile isebenza ngezimo ezingenangqondo, kangangokuthi ngakwesobunxele ayinaso isikhathi sokuyilandela nokuyilungisa. "Wenze kanjani?" - i-hemisphere yesokunxele enengqondo ididekile. "Ngesimangaliso esithile!" — uphendula kahle, nakuba lokhu kungachazi lutho. Kujabulisa nakakhulu ukuhlangana nemiphumela “emangalisayo” yomsebenzi ofanele we-hemispheric, echazwa ngokombono we-neurophysiology kanye ne-psychology.
Kungani ubhala eyakho indaba
Uma siqhamuka nenganekwane ngokuvumelana nayo yonke imithetho, ngosizo lwezithombe ezazijwayele kusukela ebuntwaneni, sethula i-algorithm yokucabanga kwekhodi yethu, esebenzisa amandla ethu, wonke amandla ethu engqondo nangokomzwelo.
Lokhu kucabanga sikunikwe kusukela ekuzalweni, akunawo ama-stereotypes abekwa ngokukhuliswa, «abadala» logic, isimo sengqondo sabazali, kanye namasiko. Ngokwethula nokusebenzisa le-algorithm esikhathini esizayo, sifunda ukuphuma emikhawulweni efile yempilo.
Khumbula: ngokuqinisekile wena noma abangani bakho senike niwela embuthanweni ononya. Naphezu kwayo yonke imizamo, uchungechunge lokwehluleka aluzange luyeke, konke kwaphindwa kaningi ...
Isibonelo sakudala yilapho "kokubili okuhlakaniphile nokuhle" kushiywa yedwa. Noma, ngokwesibonelo, zonke izimfuneko, nengqondo, nemfundo, nethalente, ziyabonakala, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuthola umsebenzi ofanele. Futhi othile ngephutha ufika ngesikhathi esifanele endaweni efanele, uhlangana nofunda naye ephaseji - futhi usizo luvela ohlangothini olungalindelekile futhi ngaphandle komzamo omkhulu. Kungani?
Lokhu kungase kusho ukuthi sithambekele ekwenzeni izinto zibe nzima, sivumele abalingiswa abangadingekile ekuphileni kwethu, senze imizamo engadingekile.
Labo abanebhadi bayakhononda: “Ngenza konke kahle! Ngenza okusemandleni ami!» Kodwa nje ukuthi “inkinobho” edingekayo ebuchosheni ayivulwanga, futhi ngisho nokwenza “konke kulungile”, siphuthelwa okuthile, asikucindezeli futhi ngenxa yalokho asikutholi esikufunayo.
Uma inkinga ingaxazululeki ezingeni le-logic, sekuyisikhathi sokuvula i-hemisphere efanele. Inganekwane esiyibhalile iveza amakhodi, izinkinobho nezinsimbi ezisetshenziswa ubuchopho ekunqobeni izithiyo, ekuxazululeni izinkinga, ekwakheni ubudlelwano. Siqala ukubona amathuba amaningi, siyeke ukuphuthelwa, siphume kulowo mbuthano ononya kakhulu. Le algorithm iqala ukusebenza ezingeni lokuquleka.
Sithi ukudayela ikhodi - bese isisefo sivuleka. Kodwa kulokhu, ikhodi kufanele ikhethwe ngendlela efanele, inganekwane ibhalwe ngokuvumelana, ngokunengqondo, ngaphandle kokuhlanekezela.
Kunzima ukwenza lokhu, ikakhulukazi okokuqala. Ngaso sonke isikhathi siwela emibonweni, silahlekelwe intambo yendaba, siqhamuke nabalingiswa besibili abangadlali indima ekhethekile. Futhi siphinde sivule i-logic, sizama ukulungisa lokho okufanele kuhlale kuwumlingo.
Lokhu kungase kusho ukuthi ekuphileni kwangempela sivame ukukhombisa kakhulu, senze yonke into ibe nzima, sivumele izinhlamvu ezingadingekile empilweni yethu, futhi senze imizamo engadingekile.
Kodwa lapho inganekwane yembula konke lokhu, kakade kungenzeka ukusebenza nayo.
Ukubhala inganekwane: imiyalelo yabantu abadala
1. Woza nendaba yenganekwane, ukuguquguquka okuzocaca enganeni eneminyaka engu-5-6 ubudala.
Lesi yisikhathi lapho ukucabanga okungaqondakali kungakakhiwa, ingane ibona ulwazi mayelana nomhlaba ngokusebenzisa izithombe ezibonakalayo. Futhi zimelelwa kangcono ezinganekwaneni, ngenxa yokuthi uhlobo "lwebhange" lwezimo zokuphila lwakhiwe, isithombe esibalulekile somhlaba.
2. Qala ngebinzana lakudala (“Kudala kwakukhona …”, “Embusweni othile, isimo esithile”), ephendula umbuzo wokuthi obani abalingisi basenganekwaneni.
3. Gcina izinhlamvu zakho zilula: kumele bamele okuhle noma okubi.
4. Landela umqondo wokuthuthukiswa kwesakhiwo kanye nobudlelwano obuyimbangela. Uma ububi benziwa enganekwaneni, kufanele kucace ukuthi ubani, kanjani futhi kungani. Ukuvumelana okunengqondo kwesakhiwo kuhambisana nokuvumelana kokusebenza kwethu kwengqondo. Futhi lapho sesikuzuzile, sizofinyelela imigomo yethu yokuphila.
5. Khumbulaukuthi enye yezinjini eziyinhloko zendaba yenganekwane ingumlingo, isimangaliso. Ungakhohlwa ukusebenzisa itulo elingenangqondo, elingenangqondo, elimangalisayo: "kungazelelwe kwavela iqhugwane emhlabathini", "wanyakazisa induku yakhe yomlingo - futhi inkosana yaphila." Sebenzisa izinto zomlingo: ibhola, ikama, isibuko.
Uma ingane ilalela inganekwane yakho, ingabe ibingakwazi ukumelana nale nqwaba yemininingwane? Cha angadinwa abaleke
6. Bamba isithombe phambi kwamehlo akho. Lapho uxoxa indaba, qiniseka ukuthi umzuzu ngamunye ungamelwa njengesithombe esicacile. Akukho okucatshangelwayo - imininingwane kuphela. Ukuthi “inkosazana yahlabeka umxhwele” kuwumcabango, “inkosazana yawa ingaphilanga noma yafa” kuwumbono.
7. Ungafaki inkimbinkimbi noma andise isakhiwo. Uma ingane ilalela inganekwane yakho, ingabe ibingakwazi ukumelana nayo yonke le nqwaba yemininingwane? Cha angadinwa abaleke. Zama ukugcina ukunaka kwakhe.
8. Qeda indaba ngegama elinesigqi sakudala, kodwa hhayi ngesiphetho futhi hhayi ngokuziphatha kwalokho okwashiwo, kodwa kunalokho “ngokhokho” ovala le ndaba: “Lokhu ukuphela kwenganekwane, kodwa ubani owalalela ...”, “Futhi baphila ngokujabula kuze kube phakade.”
9. Nikeza isihloko sendaba. Faka amagama ezinhlamvu noma amagama ezinto ezithile, kodwa hhayi imiqondo engabonakali. Hhayi "Mayelana nothando nokwethembeka", kodwa "Mayelana nendlovukazi emhlophe nembali emnyama."
Enqubweni yokubhala inganekwane, kubalulekile ukugxila emizweni yomzimba. Uqala ukuba nesicanucanu? Ngakho, umcabango wadideka, waya eceleni. Kufanele sibuyele lapho siqala khona futhi sibheke lapho ukwehluleka kwenzeke khona. Uthole ugqozi, i-adrenaline "idlaliwe", ushaye phansi? Usendleleni efanele.
Uma itulo lakho lingazalwa, ungathatha esinye seziningi ezikhona njengesisekelo - uzofuna ukwenza izinguquko kuso.
Futhi vumela inganekwane enesiphetho esijabulisayo ibe isinyathelo sakho sokuqala esiholela ekuphileni okujabulisayo!