Okuqukethwe
Lokhu kuyiqiniso ngokwengxenye, ngokusho kochwepheshe bethu, izazi zocansi u-Alain Eril no-Mireille Bonyerbal, bexoxa ngenye inkolelo evamile mayelana nobulili. Kwenzeka ukuthi abesifazane balahlekelwe isithakazelo ocansini ngokukhula, kuyilapho amadoda engenzi.
U-Alain Eril, isazi se-psychoanalyst, isazi sezocansi:
Isikhathi eside, izenzo zobulili zabantu abadala zazibhekwa njengento engcolile. Ngenxa yalokhu, amadoda afinyelela eminyakeni engu-65-70 ayezizwa engenandaba. Yiqiniso, ngokukhula, isikhathi esithathayo ukuze indoda ifinyelele ukumiswa ingase ikhule ngenxa yokuncipha kwethoni ye-urogenital sphere. Kodwa ngokuvamile, isimo mayelana nalokhu siyashintsha.
Ezinye zeziguli zami zithole i-orgasm yazo yokuqala ngemuva kweminyaka engama-60, njengokungathi kufanele zilinde kuze kunqamuke ukuya esikhathini futhi zilahlekelwe amandla okuba ngumama ukuze zizivumele okuthile okungenamsebenzi njenge-orgasm…
U-Mireille Bonierbal, udokotela wezifo zengqondo, udokotela wezocansi:
Ngemuva kweminyaka engama-50, amadoda angahlushwa izifo zenhliziyo nemithambo yegazi ephazamisa ikhono labo lokuchama. Kodwa ngikholelwa ukuthi ukulahlekelwa isithakazelo samadoda ocansini ngokuyinhloko kungenxa yokukhathala kobudlelwane kumbhangqwana; lapho la madoda ejola nabesifazane abancane kakhulu kunabo, benza kahle.
Abanye besifazane balahlekelwa isifiso sabo sokwenza uthando ngokukhula ngoba beyeka ukwazisa nokuzibona njengento evusa inkanuko.
Ngokuqondene nabesifazane, bangase babhekane nokuntuleka kokugcoba, kodwa namuhla le nkinga iyaxazululeka. Abanye besifazane abaneminyaka engu-60 ubudala baphelelwa isifiso sokwenza uthando ngenxa yokuthi abasazisi futhi bazibheka njengento evusa inkanuko. Ngakho-ke inkinga lapha ayikho ku-physiology, kodwa ku-psychology.