Eqiniseka ngokujulile ukuthi uyathandwa, i-erotomaniac ihamba phambili kunomlandeli womculi odumile: i-erotomania yakhe ingamholela ekuziphatheni okuyihlazo. Ungasibona kanjani lesi sifo socansi? Ungasabela kanjani njengesisulu se-erotomaniac? Izihluthulelo zokuqonda i-erotomania, eyaziwa nangokuthi i-Clérambault syndrome.

I-Erotomania iyi-pathology yangempela yemvelo yengqondo. Lokhu kuphazamiseka kwezocansi kubangela ukukholelwa okujulile, ngokungafanele, kokuthandwa. I-erotomaniac ivame ukuba ngowesifazane. Ngokuqondene nomuntu othandwa uhlangothi olulodwa, ngokuvamile kuyisidalwa esimisebenzi yakhe yezenhlalakahle noma yobungcweti ibhekwa engqondweni evamile njengophakeme: uthisha, udokotela, ummeli noma ngisho nomuntu owaziwayo emphakathini - ikakhulukazi usopolitiki. - noma usaziwayo - umbhali odumile, umculi wemfashini ...

Ngaphezu kokuthatheka okudlulayo kwentsha yenkanyezi yakhe eyintandokazi, isithombe sayo asiveza ezindongeni zekamelo lakhe lokulala, i-erotomania iyisifo sengqondo sangempela esinemiphumela yayo - lapho i-erotomaniac kodwa futhi othandekayo ehlupheka. – azinakwa.

Isimo samanje sezifo zengqondo asivumeli ukuthi izimbangela ze-erotomania zitholwe ngokuqiniseka. Lokhu kuphazamiseka kwezocansi, njengabanye abaningi, kungachazwa nokho ukuntula ngokomzwelo okwenzeka ebuntwaneni - okungenani ngokwengxenye. 

Inkohliso eyinkohliso yokuthandwa, i-erotomania ilandela inqubekelaphambili ngezigaba eziningana: ithemba, naphezu kokucasuka. Kunoma yikuphi, isiqephu se-erotomaniac kufanele sicushwe.

Izimbangela ze-delirium evuthayo

I-delirium evuthayo ye-erotomaniac ithatha umsuka wayo egameni noma ngokuziphatha ngokusuka komuntu into yothando olungavunyelwe. Lo muntu, ngokuzenzakalelayo, ukhuluma ne-erotomaniac ngendlela yokuthi lo mbhalo uhumushe amagama noma izenzo zomxhumanisi wakhe njengobufakazi bothando olujulile kakhulu. Ngakho-ke yisisulu okuthi, emqondweni we-erotomaniac, sisemsuka wendaba yothando eyinkohliso. Ngakho-ke, ikholelwa ukuthi ithandwa, i-erotomaniac isebenzisa izindlela zokuqhubekisela phambili isixhumanisi futhi yenze indaba yothando eyinganekwane iphumelele, ehlala njalo futhi ehlangothini olulodwa, egcina ngokuhluleka okunemiphumela ebaluleke kakhulu noma engabalulekile. .

Isigaba sethemba sesiqephu se-erotomania

Isikhathi eside, i-erotomania icindezela umuntu ophethwe yiyo ukuthi aphindaphinde imizamo yokushintshana ngothando nomuntu othandekayo. Ukuthumela izincwadi, ukuba khona okuphikelelayo eceleni kwakhe ekuphileni kwansuku zonke, izenzo zothando, i-erotomaniac iphindaphinda ukuxhumana ngokuziphatha okungahle kuhlanganiswe nokuhlukumeza. Uma kungekho ukubuya, i-erotomaniac igcina ithemba futhi ithola izincazelo: isisulu sithanda ukuhlala sihlakaniphile ngothando lwaso, kuwumdlalo ovusa inkanuko awumisayo ... ngaphandle kwalokho, isigaba sesibili somjikelezo we-erotomania.

Ukucasuka, umuzwa olimazayo

Lapho isigaba sonya sesidlulile, lapho i-erotomaniac ibona ukuthi uthando aluhlanganyelwa, uzwa ukudumala okujulile okumholela ekucasukeni. Uthukuthele omunye ngokumenza akholwe ukuthi ubesothandweni futhi uzizwa enesidingo sokuziphindiselela. Ukuziphatha kwakhe kungase kube ubudlova: ukuhlasela ngokomzimba, izinsongo noma ukucekelwa phansi kwezinto ezibonakalayo. 

I-Erotomania iyinkinga yocansi eyingozi kumuntu othandwa kakhulu. Njengoba i-erotomania i-pathological, asikho isidingo sokuzama ukubhekana nayo yedwa. Ngokuphambene nalokho, isisulu kufanele sikhulume nabantu abalungile futhi sizungeze nabantu abalungile.

Ekuqaleni, angasetshenziswa ebulungiswa, ukuze azivikele ekuqhumeni okunobudlova kwe-erotomaniac. Esinyathelweni sesibili, kungenzeka ukucabangela ukudlulisela i-erotomaniac ezinsizeni zezempilo zengqondo ezinekhono. 

I-Erotomania inobandlululo kumuntu othintekayo yikho, ezingeni lomuntu siqu - ukucindezeleka okulandela isigaba sonya - futhi ngokobulungiswa - izinyathelo zokususa ngokumelene naye noma ngisho nokuboshwa uma kwenzeka ehlaselwa kanzima. othandiweyo.

Ngaphansi kwalezi zimo, kuyaphuthuma ukwenza ukwelashwa: izixazululo ezisekelwe ekwelashweni kwengqondo noma ukwelashwa kwezidakamizwa zikhona ukusiza i-erotomania.