I-Psychology

Kaningi, udinga ukufunda ukuphatha izinga lomzwelo. Ngempela, ngezinye izikhathi imizwa “ibi kakhulu”, futhi ngezinye izikhathi “imbalwa ngokwenhlekelele”. Ukukhathazeka kokuhlolwa, isibonelo, kuyisibonelo esihle sokuthi "kakhulu." Futhi ukuntula ukuzethemba phambi kwakhe "kuncane kakhulu".

Isiboniso.

Hhayi-ke, ubani ofuna ukufunda ukuphatha eminye yemizwa yakhe. Andrew, mkhulu. Uyini lomzwelo?

- Ukusiqhenya.

Kuhle. Yizwe manje.

— Yebo.

Kulungile, ungacabanga izinga eliphezulu kakhulu lokuzethemba. Hhayi-ke, lapho kungekho lutho olusele ngaphandle kokuzethemba. Ukuzethemba okuphelele.

Ngiyakwazi ukucabanga...

Okwamanje, sekwanele. Leli zinga eliphezulu malibe ngamaphesenti ayikhulu. Izinga lokuzethemba ongazakhela lona njengamanje ukuthi lingakanani? Ngamaphesenti?

- Ingaphansi kancane kwesigamu.

Futhi uma ngephesenti: amashumi amathathu, amashumi amathathu nantathu, amashumi amane nesishiyagalolunye nengxenye?

Hhayi-ke, angikwazi ukuqiniseka.

Cishe

— Cishe amashumi amane.

Kuhle. Gxila futhi kulowo mzwelo. Yenza manje amaphesenti angamashumi amahlanu.

— Yebo.

Amashumi ayisithupha.

— Yebo.

Amashumi ayisikhombisa.

— Yebo.

- Amashumi ayisishiyagalombili.

- Hmm yebo.

- Amashumi ayisishiyagalolunye.

— (Ehleka) Mmmm. Yebo.

Kuhle. Masingathathi izinyathelo ezinkulu kangaka. Amaphesenti angamashumi ayisishiyagalombili nantathu awakude namashumi ayisishiyagalombili, akunjalo?

— Yebo, kuseduze. Ngikwazile.

Hhayi-ke, amaphesenti angamashumi ayisishiyagalombili nanhlanu azokusebenzela?

— Mmm. Yebo.

Futhi amashumi ayisishiyagalombili nesikhombisa kulula nakakhulu.

- Yebo.

Kuhle. Siya kwirekhodi - amaphesenti angamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye.

- Yebo!

Kuthiwani ngamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye nantathu?

- Amashumi ayisishiyagalolunye nambili!

Kulungile, asime lapho. Amaphesenti angamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye nambili! Amazing.

Futhi manje ukubizelwa okuncane. Ngizosho izinga njengephesenti, futhi uzibekele isimo osifunayo. Amashumi amathathu, ... nesihlanu, ... amashumi ayisishiyagalolunye, ... amashumi ayisithupha nantathu, ... amashumi ayisishiyagalombili-nesithupha, amashumi ayisishiyagalolunye nesishiyagalolunye.

“O, senginamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye nesishiyagalolunye manje futhi!”

Kuhle. Njengoba kwavela amashumi ayisishiyagalolunye nesishiyagalolunye, khona-ke kuzovela ikhulu. Usele kancane!

— YEBO!

Manje khuphuka uye phansi esikalini izikhathi ezimbalwa, ukusuka kuqanda ukuya cishe kwekhulu, umaka ngokucophelela la mazinga omzwelo. Thatha isikhathi esiningi njengoba usidinga.

- Ngikwenzile.

Kuhle. Ngiyabonga. Imibuzo embalwa. Andrey, le nqubo ikunike ini?

“Ngafunda ukuphatha ukuzethemba. Kungathi nginepeni ngaphakathi. Ngiyakwazi ukusonta - futhi ngithola izinga elifanele.

Kuyamangalisa! Andrey, ngicela ucabange ukuthi ungakusebenzisa kanjani lokhu empilweni yakho?

— Ngokwesibonelo, lapho ukhuluma nomphathi. Noma nomkakho. Lapho ukhuluma namakhasimende.

Ingabe ukuthandile okwenzekile?

- Yebo, kuhle.

Igxathu emvakwe gxathu

1. Emotion. Khomba umzwelo ofuna ukufunda ukuwulawula.

2. Scale. Setha isikali ngaphakathi kwakho. Ukuze wenze lokhu, mane uchaze izinga eliphezulu lomzwelo elingaba ngu-100%. Futhi nquma ukuthi yiliphi izinga lalo mzwelo kulesi sikali onaso njengamanje. Kungaba ngaphansi kuka-1%.

3. Izinga eliphezulu. Umsebenzi wakho ukwandisa kancane kancane amandla ombuso ukuze ufinyelele ezingeni lama-XNUMX%.

4. Ukuhamba ngesilinganiso. Kancane kancane yehla esikalini ukusuka ku-zero uye kumaphesenti ayikhulu, ngama-increments ngamaphesenti amathathu kuya kwamahlanu.

5. Okujwayelekile. Linganisa inqubo. Ukunikeni? Ungalisebenzisa kanjani ikhono olitholile ekuphileni?

Amazwana

Ukuqwashisa kunikeza ukulawula. Kodwa ukwazi kusebenza kahle uma kukhona ithuba lokulinganisa okuthile, ukuqhathanisa okuthile. Futhi hlolisisa. Yisho inombolo, iphesenti. Lapha sikwenza. Sakha isikali sangaphakathi, lapho ubuncane bezinga lomzwelo likuziro, futhi umkhawulo yizinga elithile eliphakeme ngokwanele lomzwelo elikhethwe umuntu ngokuzenzakalelayo.

- Ingabe kungaba khona izinga lomzwelo elingaphezu kwamaphesenti ayikhulu?

Kungenzeka. Manje sesithathe umqondo womuntu kuphela mayelana nobukhulu. Awazi ukuthi abantu badlulela kuphi ezimeni ezibucayi. Kodwa manje sidinga izinga eliphezulu kakhulu. Ukuqala kokuthile nokukala. Njengokwezomnotho: izinga lika-1997 liyi-100%. 1998 - 95%. 2001 - 123%. Njll. Udinga nje ukulungisa okuthile.

- Futhi uma umuntu ethatha izinga elincane kakhulu lomzwelo njengamaphesenti ayikhulu?

Khona-ke uyomane abe nesilinganiso angakwazi ukweqa ngaso njalo inombolo yekhulu. Ukuzithemba - amaphesenti angamakhulu amabili. Abanye bangase bathande!

Izinombolo eziphelele azibalulekile lapha. Into eyinhloko ukulawulwa nokuphathwa kombuso, hhayi isibalo esiqondile. I-subjective kakhulu - isiqiniseko samaphesenti angamashumi amabili nesikhombisa, isiqiniseko samaphesenti angamakhulu amabili. Iqhathaniswa kumuntu kuphela.

Ingabe kungenzeka njalo ukufinyelela ekhulwini?

Cabanga ngoyebo. Siqale sithathe amaphesenti ayikhulu ngangokunokwenzeka kungenzekaizinga. Okusho ukuthi, ekuqaleni kucatshangwa ukuthi kufinyeleleka kumuntu onikeziwe, nakuba kungase kuthathe umzamo othile kulokhu. Cabanga nje ngakho ngale ndlela futhi uzophumelela!

Kungani kwakudingeka lokhu kubizelwa?

Ngangifuna ukukhohlisa u-Andrey kancane. Isithiyo esikhulu endleleni eya phezulu ukungabaza. Ngamphazamisa kancane, wakhohlwa nokungabaza. Ngezinye izikhathi leli qhinga liyasebenza, ngezinye izikhathi alisebenzi.

Izincomo

Lapho wenza lo msebenzi, kwanele ukuthola ukufinyelela ekulawuleni nganoma yiluphi uhlobo. Okusho ukuthi, akudingekile ukuba uqaphele ukuthi yini ngempela umuntu esonta ngaphakathi kuye. Isingathekiso sanele ukusichaza. Umbandela kuphela ukuthi umsebenzi kufanele abonise ushintsho esimweni. Ukuhlaziywa okunembe kakhudlwana kuzoba ezivivinyweni nasemasu alandelayo.

Izinkinga ezivame kakhulu lapho wenza lo msebenzi ziwubunzima ekunqumeni amaphuzu adlulele, ukuguquka kwesimo kungazelelwe.

Uma kunzima ngomfundi ukuba acabange amaphuzu eqisayo, khona-ke angamenywa ukuba azizwele izinga eliphakeme kakhulu lokuhlangenwe nakho. Uma kwethulwa, umuntu angathola ukufinyelela okuncane kakhulu kokuhlangenwe nakho, noma acabange ukuthi kubukeka kanjani kwabanye abantu. Lapho ehlangabezana, ucwiliswa esimweni esiphezulu. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ungamsiza ngesimo sakho. Enye inketho yisimiso se-pendulum. Yenza i-buildup - okokuqala nciphisa, bese ukwandisa umbuso. Ungakwenza lokhu izikhathi eziningana uze ufinyelele ezingeni eliphezulu.

Uma udokotela ehluleka ukufinyelela ubuningi, angaqinisekiswa ukuthi lokhu akudingekile lapha. Njengoba inani eliphezulu lithathwa ubuningi ngangokunokwenzekaisimo, futhi lokhu kuwukweqisa. Makazame ukufinyelela esiphezulu sakhe kulesi sigaba.

Uma kwenzeka lokhu kungasizi, ungaphakamisa ukuthi abuyele kulo msebenzi esigabeni sokudiliza imizwelo ibe yi-submodalities.

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