Kwesinye isikhathi kuyenzeka emadodeni ukuthi ukuqhanyelwa kwenzeka ngokushesha kunalokho umuntu angathanda. Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi i-ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi, noma ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Kuyini lokhu kuphazamiseka okubangelwa futhi yiziphi izindlela zokubambezela isikhathi sokuphuma kwesidoda?

Ukuphuma ngaphambi kwesikhathi kungukuphazamiseka okuvamile kokusebenza emadodeni. Kuphumela ekungakwazini ukulawula isikhathi sokuphuma kwakhe isidoda, okube sekwenzeka ngokushesha kunalokho abekufisa. Lesi sifo sivame kakhulu, ikakhulukazi phakathi kwezinsizwa, ekuqaleni kwempilo yazo yocansi. Eqinisweni, ukuze ufunde ukuphatha ukuphuma kwakho bese ulawula "isikhathi" sakho, udinga ukuthi ube nolwazi oluthile futhi wazi ukuthi ungalawula kanjani ubumnandi bakho. Sikhuluma nge-ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi lapho eyokugcina okungenani imizuzu engu-3 ngaphambi kokuqala kokuvuselelwa kwenduku (noma kungenxa yokungena, ukushaya indlwabu noma i-fallatio ngokwesibonelo). Phakathi kwemizuzu emi-3 nengu-5, singakhuluma ngokuphuma “okusheshayo”, kodwa hhayi ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Ekugcineni, ukujula ngaphambi kwesikhathi akubangelwa ukungasebenzi komzimba noma komzimba, ngakho-ke kwelashwa kalula.

Ukujula ngaphambi kwesikhathi akusona isifo noma ukufa. Ngempela, ngokuqeqeshwa, ungafunda ngokuphelele ukuphatha kangcono injabulo yakho futhi ngaleyo ndlela ulawule isikhathi lapho ukhipha isidoda. Umeluleki wezocansi angaba neseluleko esihle, futhi akusize uchaze ndawonye amasu okusebenza ekujabuleleni kwakho futhi uphumelele ukubambezeleka lapho kufika isikhathi. Ngokunjalo, kubalulekile ukuthi ungabi namahloni futhi ube nengxoxo. Ukuphuma ngaphambi kwesikhathi ngaphambi kwesikhathi kwesinye isikhathi kungenxa yengcindezi noma ingcindezi enkulu ngesikhathi sokuya ocansini, okusheshisa inqubo futhi kukhulise injabulo ngokushesha okukhulu kakhulu. Ngakho-ke lokhu kungaxoxwa ngakho ebudlelwaneni bakho noma nabalingani bakho bocansi, ukuze uthole izixazululo.

Kunezincazelo ezahlukahlukene, ngokuvamile ezingokwengqondo, zalesi sifo sobulili. Esokuqala, futhi ngokungangabazeki esivame kakhulu, ukungabi nalwazi noma "ukwesaba kwesiteji". Phakathi nokuya ocansini kokuqala, injabulo ivame ukuba nzima kangangokuthi kunzima "ukumelana nayo". Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-ejaculation ibonwa njengokukhululeka emadodeni: ngakho-ke, uma ingcindezi inamandla kakhulu, ubuchopho bungathumela i-oda lokukhipha i-ejaculate, ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Ngakho-ke, ingcindezi, ukukhathazeka noma ukutholakala komlingani omusha ocansini kungaba yimvelaphi. Ngokunjalo, ukuhlukumezeka ngokwengqondo, njengokuhlangenwe nakho okucacile kwezocansi, inkumbulo noma ukwethuka okungokomzwelo kungaba yimbangela yalesi sifo. Okokugcina, ukuvama kokuya ocansini kuyacatshangelwa: ukuhlangana okungavamile, noma okungajwayelekile, kwandisa ingozi yokuphuma njalo. Impela, lapho senza uthando njalo, yilapho ukumiswa kungahlala isikhathi eside.

Nokho, akhona amasu athile okulibazisa ukuqhanyelwa. Okokuqala ukwenza i-foreplay igcine ukuze uzilungiselele kahle futhi ufunde ukuphatha injabulo yakho. Ngokunjalo, izikhundla lapho indoda ingaphezulu kufanele ibe nenhlanhla, ukuze ikwazi ukwehlisa ijubane uma izwa ukuthi isasasa likhuphuka ngokushesha. Isu elithi "yima futhi uhambe", elihlanganisa ukuyeka ukunyakaza, lingasebenza futhi ekuvimbeleni ukuqhafaza. Ungakwazi futhi ukugxila kwesinye isihloko okwesikhashana ukuze uthulise inkanuko yakho yocansi. Cabanga Ekugcineni, indlela yokugcina ukukhama i-frenulum, etholakala ngaphansi kwe-glans, kuyilapho ucindezela ngokuqinile esisekelweni somthondo. Lesi senzo sizoqala ukumisa indlela yokuphila ye-ejaculation.

Uma ufuna ukulawula i-ejaculation yakho futhi wenze ukuma kwakho kuhlale isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka, umthetho wegolide ukwazi ukuthi ungayilawula kanjani intokozo yakho. Impela, lapho umuntu esesondele ku-orgasm, umuntu angacabanga ukuthi ukuqhanyelwa akukude kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, uma uzwa ukuthi usondela enjabulweni enkulu, yehlisa ijubane noma umise ukunyakaza ngokuphelele isikhathi esithile. Ungathatha ithuba lokugxila kumlingani wakho, ngokumphulula noma ngokumqabula, futhi ngaleyo ndlela ukhulule ingcindezi okwesikhashana. Umqondo awukona ukuthi ungalahlekelwa yiyo yonke injabulo, kodwa ukuwulawula. Okokugcina, i-ejaculation okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho ngaphambi kwesikhathi kungase kungabi njalo ngomlingani wakho. Uma nobabili ninomuzwa wokuthi nobabili ninesikhathi sokufinyelela i-orgasm ngesikhathi socansi, asikho isidingo sokwethuka: ucansi aluwona umncintiswano!