Ubani othi ihlobo elithi ukubhukuda, idamu lokubhukuda, ulwandle, umfula… kodwa futhi uqaphe ngengozi yokuminza. E-France, ukuminza ngengozi kuyimbangela yokufa okungaba ngu-1 unyaka ngamunye (ingxenye yakho phakathi nesikhathi sasehlobo), okwenza kube imbangela ehamba phambili yokufa kwengozi kwansuku zonke phakathi kwabantu abangaphansi kweminyaka engu-000 ubudala. Kodwa ngokuthatha izinyathelo ezimbalwa zokuphepha, izingozi eziningi zingagwenywa. Esihlokweni esishicilelwe kumagazini Uhlangothi oluhle futhi ebonwe nguParole de Mamans, u-Natalie Livingston, umama osekuyiminyaka ehola uphenyo lokuminza, unikeza iseluleko sakhe kubo bonke abazali abafuna ukuchitha ihlobo elinokuthula emanzini.
1. Chaza izingozi
Ngaphandle kokuba nexhala, tshela ingane yakho ngokucacile ukuthi kuyini ukuminza futhi umenze aqonde ukubaluleka kokulandela imithetho ethile.
2. Chaza izindlela zokuphepha
Uma ingozi isiqondwa, ungabeka imithetho ethile okufanele uyilandele. Batshele ngokucacile lapho kungenzeka khona ukubhukuda, ukugxuma, ukubaluleka kwentamo emanzi ngaphambi kokungena emanzini, hhayi ukugijima echibini, ungangeni ngaphandle kokuba khona komuntu omdala , njll.
3. Cisha ifoni yakho
Ukuminza kwenzeka ngokushesha. Ukushaya ucingo, umlayezo wombhalo obhaliwe kunganele ukusiphazamisa futhi sikhohlwe, imizuzu embalwa, ukubuka izingane. Ngakho-ke u-Natalie Livingston weluleka ngokubeka ifoni yakho kumodi yendiza, noma ukusetha isikhumbuzi njalo ngeminithi ukuze ukhumbule ukubheka phezulu.
4. Ungathembi abanye ukuthi bazokugada izingane zakho
Uyohlala uqaphile kunabanye.
5. Zinike wena kanye nezingane ikhefu
Ngenxa yokuthi ukuqapha kwakho kungase kwehle futhi ngenxa yokuthi kuhle ukuphumula, vumela wonke umuntu ukuba aphumule lapho ephuma emanzini. Mhlawumbe sekuyisikhathi se-ayisikhilimu?!
6. Izingane zigqoke amajakhethi okuphila
Kungase kungabi kuhlekisi kakhulu, kodwa yizona zinsiza ezintantayo kuphela ezihambisana nemithethonqubo.
7. Fundisa izingane ngobude bazo maqondana nokujula kwamanzi.
Bakhombise ukuthi kujule kangakanani ukuphakama kwabo nokuthi bangayi kuphi.
8. Fundisa umthetho wesibili we-5
Uma kukhona ongaphansi kwamanzi, cela izingane ziqale ukubala ziye ku-5. Uma zingamboni umuntu ekhuphuka ngemva kwemizuzwana emi-5, kufanele zitshele umuntu omdala ngokushesha.
9. Fundisa izingane ukuhlonipha indawo yomunye nomunye
Asikho isidingo sokunamathela emanzini, engozini yokwenza omunye uvalo.
10. Lapho izingane zibonisa, zinike ithuba lokubukeza imithetho yezokuphepha.
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