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Udlame Lokuthuthukisa: "Inqobo nje uma ungidinga, ngizoba nawe!"
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Udlame lwentuthuko ukusetshenziswa kwamandla ukuthuthukisa nokuthuthukisa umuntu. Ukuthuthukiswa kwentando kanye nokujwayela Isidingo esihlakaniphile.
Akuwona wonke umzuzu wokuphila ingane eyazi ukuthi idingani ngempela. Ingane ibona i-Now kuphela, futhi ibhikishela i-Must, njengokungathi iphikisana nomunye umuntu.
Isidingo - kuhlale kufunwa umuntu
Isidingo sihlala siwukufunwa ngomunye umuntu: hhayi ukuthi yini oyifunayo, futhi lokhu kungaba yinto evamile ngokuphelele. Kufanele uvuke ekuseni - yilokhu ubaba ayekufuna, ngoba wayefuna ukukunikeza njalo ngehora ekuseni futhi akujwayeze ukuhleleka kokusa - lokhu kuzoba usizo kuwe empilweni. Ekuseni ngidinga ukugeza - kwakuyisifiso sikamama, ngoba wabona ukuthi ubuso bakho busha kangakanani nokuthi amehlo akho ayejabule kangakanani ngemva kokuwageza ngamanzi apholile futhi esula ngethawula elihlanzekile. Lezi "ngifunayo" ngaleso sikhathi kwakungeyona intokozo yakho ngaso sonke isikhathi, kwake kwazwakala njengokubi "Kumelwe", kodwa abazali bakho benze umsebenzi wabo, bakukhulise futhi bakugeze. Ngokuvamile bathi: “Ngiyabonga!”
Isidingo Esihlakaniphile
Kufanele uhlakaniphe futhi ube yisimungulu. Isidingo Esihlakaniphile yilokho engikufuna kusasa. Namuhla - angikazizwa ngikuthanda okwamanje, kodwa kusasa - ngiyafuna, kodwa kusasa kuzobe sekwephuze kakhulu. Ngakho-ke kuyadingeka namuhla. Isidingo ikhono lokubona kusasa. Yilokhu okuqinisekisa ikusasa lakho futhi kwakha ubuntu bakho, kuthuthukisa ukucabanga kwakho, ikhono lokubona imibono.
Umthethosivivinywa wokukhanya wafika, kuyadingeka ukukhokha. Uma ungakwenzi lokhu Namuhla, Kusasa, izinhlawulo zizokhuphuka ngezikweletu ezingakhokhiwe, futhi uzobuzwa ukuthi yini oyifunayo ngaphezulu: khokha inani elikhulu kakhulu noma ushiywe ungenagesi, noma uphume endlini? Kusasa elinjalo, cishe, uzofuna ukukhokha.
Namuhla angifuni ukusukuma, kodwa kufanele ngivuke. Ukumelana no-Ungafuni kuwudlame, kodwa udlame luyakhula futhi luwusizo.
Umugqa phakathi kodlame oluthuthukisayo nolucindezelayo
Ukuthamba, ukuhamba kancane, ngaphandle kwemibhikisho enamandla - futhi kungenzeka ukujwayela. Futhi uma iphukile, imiphumela ingaba engalindelekile, kuhlanganise nokucindezelwa kobuntu bomntwana.