I-Psychology

Izindaba ezimbalwa kokuhlangenwe nakho kwami ​​​​kokuthuthukisa ukuzimela endodakazini eneminyaka engu-2 ubudala.

“Ukulingisa umuntu omdala kuthakazelisa kakhulu kunokulingisa ingane”

Ehlobo nendodakazi eneminyaka engu-2 ubudala ene-penny, baphumula nogogo wabo. Kwafika enye ingane - uSeraphim onezinyanga eziyishumi ubudala. Indodakazi yacasuka, yacasuka, yaqala ukulingisa ingane kukho konke, yamemezela ukuthi nayo yayincane. Ngaqala ngenza ebhulugweni, ngiphethe izingono zikaSeraphim namabhodlela amanzi. Indodakazi ayithandi ukuthi uSeraphim ugingqika ku-stroller yakhe, naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi yena sekuyisikhathi eside eyeka ukugibela inqola futhi ugibele ibhayisikili lakhe ngamandla amakhulu. U-Ulyasha wabiza ukulingisa uSeraphim "ukudlala ingane".

Angizange ngikuthande nakancane lokhu kwehliswa isithunzi. Isixazululo kwaba "ukwenza kusebenze umsebenzi ngethoyizi."

Ngaqala ukufundisa ingane ukulingisa unina kaSeraphim nokudlala njengokungathi iCherepunka (ithoyizi alithanda kakhulu) iyingane. Umndeni wonke wadlala ndawonye. Umkhulu ekuseni wavuka wayolahla inabukeni elibonakalayo kudoti, elisuswe ekuseni eCherepunka. Mina, ngemva kokusesha wonke amakhabethe kanye nezindawo zokulala kanye nemigogodla, ngakhela ufudu ibhodlela lamanzi. Ngithenge inqola yokudlala.

Ngenxa yalokho, indodakazi yehlisa umoya futhi yathinteka nakakhulu ngokomzwelo. Ngaqala ukudlala imidlalo yokulingisa. Kopisha umama kaSeraphim emininingwaneni emincane kakhulu. Waba ikhophi, isibuko. Futhi waqala ukusiza ngenkuthalo ukunakekela uSeraphim. Umlethele amathoyizi, umsize ageze, umjabulise esagqokile. Ngokuhlwithwa ukuhamba ne-stroller yakhe kanye nofudu, lapho uSeraphim ethathwa ukuba ahambe.

Kwavela ukuthi, yenza igxathu elihle ekuthuthukisweni.

«Shame on the incompent» — amagama amabili acasulayo

Ingane isivele ibili nesenti, iyakwazi ukudla ngesipuni, kodwa ayifuni. Okwani? Cishe inani elikhulu labantu abadala abajabulela ukumnika ukudla, ukuqabula, ukugona, ukufunda izinganekwane nezinkondlo. Kungani wenze okuthile ngokwakho?

Futhi, lokhu akungifanele. Izinkumbulo ezimangalisayo zobuntwana bami kanye nobuciko bokubhala - u-Y. Akim «Numeyka» uzongisiza. Manje iphinde yakhululwa kanye ncamashi nemifanekiso eyayisebuntwaneni bami - ngumculi u-Ogorodnikov, owabonisa umagazini we-Krokodil isikhathi eside.

Ngenxa yalokho, "uVova owayethukile wabamba isipuni." U-Ulya uthatha isipuni, azidle, futhi ngemva kokudla, ubeka ipuleti lakhe kusinki bese esula itafula ngemuva kwakhe. Sifunda "Abangakwazi" njalo futhi ayobe.

References:

Ukuncoma kakhulu okwabantu abadala:

1. M. Montessori "Ngisize ngikwenze ngokwami"

2. J. Ledloff "Indlela yokukhulisa ingane ejabule"

Ukufunda ngaphambi, phakathi nangemuva kokukhulelwa.

Ebudaleni (nakuba, ngombono wami, kuhlale kufanelekile) - AS Makarenko.

Okwengane eneminyaka engu-1,5-2 ubudala (PR-inkampani yabantu abadala)

— Ngingu-Akim. "I-Clumsy"

- V. Mayakovsky. "Yini enhle futhi yini embi"

- A. Barto. "Intambo"

Ngizoqhubeka "Rope" Barto. Akubonakali ekuqaleni, kodwa futhi umsebenzi obaluleke kakhulu wengane. Kungaba ngcono ukube inezithombe eziningi.

Inikeza isu lendlela yokwenza esimweni lapho ungazi ukuthi kwenziwa kanjani okuthile - udinga nje ukukuthatha futhi uzilolonge !!! Futhi konke kuzovela nakanjani !!!

ekuqaleni:

"Lida, Lida, umncane,

Uthathele ize intambo yokugxuma

ULinda akakwazi ukugxuma

Ngeke agxumele ekhoneni! ”

futhi ekugcineni:

“Lida, Lida, yilokho-ke, Lida!

Kuzwakala amazwi.

Bheka, lo Linda

Ihamba isigamu sehora.

Ngabona ukuthi indodakazi yami yayiphatheke kabi lapho kuvela ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle. Futhi-ke wenqaba ukuqhubekela phambili ekubambeni lokho okungaphumi. Akusebenzi, yilokho kuphela.

Sifunda leli vesi kaningi, ngivame ukubeka «Ulya» esikhundleni Lida. U-Ulya wakufunda futhi wayevame ukuzibhuqa, wagijima futhi wagxuma ngentambo nge-twist “Ngiqondile, ngimaceleni, ngokujika kanye nokugxuma, ngigxumele ekhoneni — bengingeke ngikwazi!”

Manje, uma sibhekana nento enzima, kwanele kimi ukuthi "Ulya, ulya, umncane", amehlo omntwana avuleka, kunesithakazelo kanye nenjabulo yokuhamba ngendlela enzima.

Lapha ngangifuna futhi ukwengeza ukuthi isithakazelo nenjabulo akufanele kudidaniswe namandla namakhono engane encane, kanye namakilasi athathiwe ngokucophelela. Kodwa leso isihloko esihluke ngokuphelele. nezinye izincwadi, ngendlela 🙂

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