"Ufile Kimi": Okuthile Mayelana Nobungane Besifazane

Amantombazane enziwe ngani - amantombazane anamuhla aneminyaka engamashumi amathathu, ngaphansi kwamashumi amane nangaphezulu kancane? Kusuka kumakhadi esikweletu - ukukhokha izikweletu eziningi: imali yezindlu, ukuthenga, abafundisi bezingane. Kusukela kumalulwane e-baseball — ukuvikela indawo yakho. Kusukela kuma-margaritas ukuphulukisa amanxeba enkampanini yomngane omkhulu. Ukufa Kimi cishe kuwumbukiso wobungani besifazane oyinqaba owake wawabona.

Ngokungakhethi, "isikhathi sabesifazane" ochungechungeni aluzange luqale izolo: "Ubulili kanye neDolobha" bahlanganisa iminyaka engu-20 ngonyaka odlule, "Omama Bezindlu Abaphelelwe ithemba" yi-15 namuhla.

Kodwa-ke, ububanzi bezinkinga ezibhekene namaqhawekazi esimanje nezithombe zesifazane selube banzi. Futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo - kanye nohlu lwezihloko ezibonisa amaqiniso ezwe lanamuhla: inhlekelele ekhona kanye nokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane - ku-"Matryoshka", ukuzilimaza kanye ne-Munchausen syndrome ethunyelwe ku-"Sharp Objects", ukuhlukunyezwa kanye nobumbano besifazane "Amanga Amancane Amakhulu", i-psychopathy - ku-"Killing Eve." Ochungechungeni olubili lokugcina (lusaqhubeka njengamanje), kugxilwe ebudlelwaneni phakathi kwabesifazane. Futhi basenhliziyweni yeculo elisha le-Netflix elishisa izikhotha elithi Dead to Me.

Hlobo luni lobungane obusekelwe emangeni nasekubulaleni?

- Inkimbinkimbi?..

Konke kwakuxubene endlini kaJen Harding. Umyeni wakhe washayiswa imoto waze wafa: umshayeli wabaleka endaweni yobugebengu, futhi lokhu kuletha uJen entukuthelweni engachazeki; Nokho, njengoba kuvela kamuva, «ukulawula intukuthelo» akulona ikhono lakhe eliqine kunawo wonke jikelele. Izingane zakhe zibhekene nobunzima ngokufa kukayise, okuyinto uJen angayazi, kodwa uyaqonda ukuthi wayengeyena umama ongcono kakhulu: zonke izinkathazo ngamadodana akhe zilele kumyeni wakhe. Ibhizinisi lilenga esilinganisweni: umthengisi onesimo esingalawuleki akulona iphupho lekhasimende.

Eqenjini lokusekela labasinde ekulahlekelweni, uJen uhlangana nomuntu ongaziwa - uJudy. Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa, abesifazane baba abangane abakhulu, futhi nakuba amanga amancane eqala ukuvela kusukela ekuqaleni, iqiniso lokuthi uJudy wangena empilweni yakhe ngesizathu, uJen uzoqonda kuphela ekupheleni kwesizini, kamuva kakhulu kune isibukeli.

Indlela yokubhekana nokulahlekelwa othandekayo? Kungenzeka yini ukuthi uhlale ngaphansi kophahla olulodwa nomuntu ungazi ukuthi ungubani nokuthi ubhekene nani?

Umbukeli ngokuvamile uba nesikhathi esinzima. Ngaso sonke isikhathi uzithola usuvale amehlo, uklabalasa ngokucasuka noma uthukuthelela abalingisi, uzwelana nabo (ikakhulukazi ngenxa yabalingiswa ababili bakaChristina Applegate ovela ku-“Ushadile … nezingane” kanye noLinda Cardellini) noma uthole ukuthi wena ugwinye iziqephu ezintathu, nakuba uhlale phansi ukuze uthole ikhompuyutha "umzuzu nje." Konke ngenxa yokuthi i-"Dead to Me" yaqoshwa ngokwawo wonke ama-canon alolu hlobo.

Futhi, njenganoma yiluphi uchungechunge oluhle, inezingqimba eziningi futhi, njengoba isakhiwo sikhula, sibuza umbukeli imibuzo eminingi engakhululekile. Indlela yokubhekana nokulahlekelwa othandekayo? Amaqhawekazi anezawo izindlela zokupheka: U-Judy - futhi empilweni yakhe kwaba nokulahlekelwa nakho - uzithola enobuchule, uJen ulalela i-hard rock futhi acekele phansi izimoto ezibudedengu nge-baseball bat. Kungenzeka yini ukuthi uhlale ngaphansi kophahla olulodwa nomuntu ungazi ukuthi ungubani nokuthi ubhekene nani? Kungenzeka yini ukuthi singaqondi ukuthi siyaqhathwa? Siphila amaphupho kabani futhi siphila impilo kabani? Icala kanye nemfihlo okufanele siyigcine ingenzani kithi?

Endleleni, ababhali bombhalo badlula ezifundweni ezingokomoya, nokuzilibazisa kwe-esoteric, nezikhulumi ezikhuthazayo - yonke into okunzima ukucabanga ngayo impilo yomuntu wesimanje, odidekile futhi osengozini, onamandla futhi obuthakathaka, ophelelwa yithemba futhi ongesabi. Njengami noma wena.

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