UCunnilingus: ungayenza kanjani i-cunnilingus?

I-Cunnilingus iwubulili bomlomo, obuhlanganisa ukushukumisa izitho zobulili zowesifazane ngolimi nezindebe zakhe. Ingenziwa yibo bobabili abesilisa nabesifazane, futhi ithathwa njengenye yemikhuba “yakudala” eyingxenye ye-foreplay. I-Cunnilingus iqukethe ukuphulula, ukuqabula, ukukhotha, ukuncela noma ukuncela yonke indawo ezungeze i-pubis: i-clitoris, izindebe, isitho sangasese sowesifazane kanye nedidi yomamukeli. Kungenziwa ngolimi kuphela, noma ngokushintshanisa imivimbo ngeminwe. Umqondo uwukushintshanisa ukunyakaza okuhlukene kuze kufike ku-orgasm ngokushukumisa i-clitoris kanye / noma isitho sangasese sowesifazane.

Wonke umuntu wesifazane uhlukile, ngakho-ke akukho mhlahlandlela obekiwe we-cunnilingus ephumelelayo. Okubalulekile ukulalela uphathina wakho futhi uzwe ukuthi ingabe lowo owakamuva uyasabela yini ekushukumiseni kwakho. I-Cunnilingus iwumkhuba oxhumene nenjabulo yabesifazane, okuhloswe ngayo ukujabulisa nokunikeza imizwa. Yazi ukuthi yonke indawo ephakathi kwamathanga nesisu esingaphansi i-erogenous.

Ngakho-ke ungakwazi ukushintshanisa ama-caresses akho phakathi kwezingxenye ezihlukene zale ndawo: i-pubis, i-clitoris, i-vagina, i-anus, njll. Izinsalela ezifanele, nokho, ekuphakameni kwenjabulo, ukugxilisa ukuphulula kwakho ku-clitoris: yilapho ubumnandi buzokwenza khona. kube esiphezulu. Unganqikazi, ngaphezu kolimi lwakho, ukusebenzisa iminwe yakho ukuza uzophulula indawo ezungezile. Okokugcina, ungakhohlwa ukuthi ingquza, isitho sowesifazane sobumnandi, sizungeza izindonga zesitho sangasese. Ngokungena esithweni sangasese, kungaba ngeminwe noma ngolimi lwakho, ngakho-ke ugcizelela ukunyakaziswa kwe-clitoris.

Isikhundla esivamile kakhulu yileso somthunywa wevangeli: owesifazane ulele, futhi umlingani wakhe naye ulele phansi, ezingeni le-pubis yakhe. Lesi sikhundla sinethezekile kubo bobabili abantu futhi sikuvumela ukuthi uhlale ufakiwe isikhashana. Kodwa-ke, kunezinye izikhundla zokwenza i-cunnilingus. Isikhundla esibizwa ngokuthi "69", lapho abantu ababili bekhanda nomsila, kuvumela ubulili bomlomo kanye ne-cunnilingus, noma i-cunnilingus emibili ngesikhathi esisodwa. Omunye ulele ngomhlane omunye umi phezulu kwelinye icala, noma bobabili balele ngohlangothi. Lesi simo esivusa inkanuko sivumela bobabili ozakwethu ukuthi bathole injabulo ngesikhathi esisodwa, kungaba abathandana nobulili obuhlukile noma abathandana nabobulili obufanayo. I-Cunnilingus ingenziwa futhi kwezinye izikhundla: owesifazane angakwazi ukuma, noma ahlale esihlalweni noma emaphethelweni ombhede isibonelo.

Ubulili besifazane buyindawo ebucayi kakhulu. Ngakho-ke qaphela ukuthi ungalimazi umlingani wakho, ikakhulukazi ngamazinyo akho. Ukuncwina kancane noma ukunyakazisa izindebe kungaba mnandi kakhulu kulowo othola i-cunnilingus, kodwa futhi kungaba buhlungu kakhulu uma kwenziwa kanzima kakhulu. Ngokunjalo, uma umkhuba uthatha isikhashana, kungenzeka ukuthi indawo yome kancane. Qinisekisa ukuthi umlingani wakho uhlala egcobile, ikakhulukazi ngamathe akho. Futhi khumbula ukuthi konke kumayelana nesigqi nokuhlukahluka kwe-stroke. Ungabi yisidina, futhi uzame ukulinganisa isivinini sokunyakaza kwakho, unake ukusabela komlingani wakho. Okokugcina, ungakhohlwa ukuthi uma sekufike i-orgasm, i-clitoris izophinde ibe yindawo ebucayi kakhulu, futhi ukuthintana okuncane kungaba buhlungu.

I-Cunnilingus, njengeminye imikhuba yobulili, ayinayo ingozi. Nakuba singacabangi ngakho kaningi, khumbula njalo ukuthi ezinye izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi (STIs) zisakazwa ngoketshezi locansi (ijusi yothando kwabesifazane), ngakho-ke ngesikhathi socansi lomlomo. Nakuba cishe ingekho ingozi yokudluliselwa kwe-HIV ngesikhathi se-cunnilingus, kuyanconywa nokho ukugwema lo mkhuba phakathi nenkathi yemithetho, igazi liwuketshezi lwe-vector yegciwane. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ingozi yokutheleleka iphezulu ezifweni ezifana ne-hepatitis B, i-chlamydia, i-syphilis noma i-herpes yangasese, edluliselwa kalula kakhulu lapho kuthinta ulwelwesi lwamafinyila. Ukuze uzivikele kulezi zifo zocansi ngesikhathi se-cunnilingus, okuwukuphela kwekhambi ukusebenzisa idamu lamazinyo noma ikhondomu yabesilisa esikiwe.

Indlela yokwenza i-cunnilingus: iseluleko sochwepheshe

I-Cunnilingus ibhekwa ngokungafanele njengenye yezenzo zocansi ezinzima kakhulu. Ngokusobala, le nkolelo ilandela komunye - mayelana "nobunzima" kanye "nokungaqondakali" kwezitho zangasese zabesifazane. Iseluleko esingezansi sizowuphikisa lo mbono ongenangqondo.

Ngakho-ke, vumela intombazane ukuthi iqonde ukuthi uthatha inqubo ngokungathí sina, ukuthi lokhu akusona isandulela "sengxenyeni eyinhloko" nokuthi ikuguqula ngempela.

Esahlukweni esibizwa ngokuthi "I-Cunnilingus Manifesto," u-Koerner ubala izinto ezintathu owesilisa okudingeka azifunde ukuze ajabulele inqubo nomlingani wakhe:

1. Ngesikhathi se-cunnilingus, ukhohlwa ngawe: manje injabulo yakho incike ekujabuleleni kwakhe.
2. Uthatha isikhathi sakho: ufanelwe sonke isikhathi emhlabeni. Futhi ufuna ukujabulela ngaso sonke isikhathi.
3. Iphunga layo liyajabulisa, ukunambitheka kwalo kuyamangalisa. Futhi zombili ziyingxenye yemvelo enhle.

Uma ungabonisa umlingani wakho ukuthi konke kulungile kuwe, khona-ke uzoba phakathi kwabathandi abambalwa abakhulu.

2. Lungiselela umlingani wakho kanye nawe ukuzithokozisa isikhathi eside

I-Foreplay ngaphambi kwe-cunnilingus kungenye indlela yokuphumula nokujabulisa intombazane. Futhi, lokhu kuyadingeka: i-clitoris izwela kakhulu, ukuyithatha ngokungananazi akusona isisombululo esingcono kakhulu. Ngakho-ke chitha isikhathi uqabula, ugone, uthinte, utshele amaphupho akho. Futhi kuphela lapho owesifazane ejabule ngokwanele, hamba ezithweni zangasese. Kodwa nalapho akufanele usheshe: qala ngokunyakaza okulula kolimi phezulu naphansi.

Sicela uqaphele: ngisho nangemva kokulungiselela okunjalo, umlingani uzofinyelela i-orgasm ngokwesilinganiso semizuzu engama-20. Ngakho nakekela ukunethezeka kwakho.

Qiniseka ukuthi umzimba wakho usesimweni esikhululekile solulekile. Zama ukubeka izindebe zakho nolimi ku-engeli engu-45 degree esikhundleni se-engeli engu-90-degree ukuze wenze kube lula. Ukuze wenze lokhu, phumula izinsini zakho emzimbeni womlingani, nekhanda lakho emlenzeni wakhe. Ukuze lokhu kwenzeke, imilenze yakhe kufanele isondelene ngokwanele.

Uma ungathandi ukwenza i-cunnilingus ulele, ungaguqa eduze nombhede. Kodwa noma iyiphi indlela oyikhethayo, qiniseka ukuthi ukhululekile futhi ulungele ukwenza zonke izenzo ngaphandle kokuxhamazela.

3. Bazi kahle indlela eyisisekelo ye-cunnilingus

Omunye umthetho obalulekile: ngesikhathi se-cunnilingus, kungcono ukuba ube mnene futhi ube ne-methodical, kunokuba ube luhlaza futhi ungalindeleki. Lokhu kusho ukuthi udinga ukuthola indlela ethandwa umlingani wakho futhi unamathele kuyo.

U-Kerner uphakamisa indlela eyisisekelo elandelayo:

1. Ngemva kokulungiselela, gxila ekukhotheni indawo yangaphambili ye-commissure (indawo engaphezulu nje kwekhanda le-clitoris lapho i-lebia ihlangana khona). Ulokhu uyiphulula ingquza uqobo ngolimi nomunwe wokukhomba.
2. Ngokukhula kwenjabulo, ngena esithweni sangasese: okokuqala ngolimi, bese kuba ngomunwe owodwa noma emibili. Kodwa ungabuyeli emuva naphambili. Kunalokho, cindezela iminwe yakho obondeni lwangaphambili lwesitho sakho sangasese sowesifazane lapho kufanele kube khona i-G-spot yakho, futhi uqhubeke ushukumisa i-clitoris yakho ngolimi lwakho.
3. Ngesandla sakho samahhala, phulula isifuba somlingani wakho, isisu kanye nezinye izindawo ezinobuthi.

Le ndlela ingasetshenziswa njengesiqalo. Nokho, ungakhohlwa ukuthi wonke owesifazane unezintandokazi zakhe. Abanye bathanda ukukhuthaza ngomlomo kanye nangesandla kanyekanye, abanye abakwenzi. Abanye basheshe bafike ku-orgasm uma ikhothwa ingquza, abanye uma beyincela. Buka intombazane ukuze ubone ukuthi yini emlethela injabulo eyengeziwe. Okungcono nakakhulu, buza ngokuqondile: cishe uyazi.

4. Futhi futhi: naka i-commissure yangaphambili

I-anterior commissure yezindebe yindawo evame ukunganakwa e-cunnilingus ngenxa yokusondela kwayo kobugebengu ku-clitoris eyaziwayo. U-Koerner uthi ukucindezela kule ndawo kuvuselela umzimba we-clitoris yangaphakathi (yebo, i-glans iyisihloko se-iceberg).

Uphakamisa ukusebenzisa le ndlela elandelayo: cindezela udebe olungenhla noma ushingamu endaweni engenhla kwe-clitoral hood bese ukhotha indawo ezungeze i-clitoris. Uma umlomo wakho uku-engeli engu-45-degree emzimbeni wowesifazane, lingisa ukumamatheka kuka-Elvis Presley - lesi simo sezindebe sizokwenza kube lula inqubo.

5. Lungiselela i-orgasm

Lapho umlingani esondela kowamanqamu, u-Koerner weluleka ukuvala imilenze yakhe ngokuqinile ukuze andise ukugqugquzela.

Kodwa okubaluleke kakhulu okufanele ufunde ukuthi: ungasishintshi isigqi noma indlela oyishukumisayo (ngaphandle kwalapho umlingani wakho ebuza okuhlukile).

Kwabesifazane abaningi, ama-caress azinzile ayisihluthulelo esiyinhloko i-orgasm. Ngakho-ke, ngemva kokuthola yona kanye indlela , ungakushintshi. Uma kungenjalo, uzifaka engozini yokuhlala ekamelweni nentombazane ecasukile.

Futhi ithiphu lokugcina: khumbula ukuthi i-clitoris izwela kakhulu ngemva kwe-orgasm. Vumela umlingani wakho aphumule ngemva kwe-cunnilingus ngaphambi kokudlulela emisebenzini emisha. Futhi-ke, ungakhohlwa ukumtshela ukuthi ukujabulele kangakanani futhi uzibongele ngomsebenzi owenze kahle!