Ukuba umuntu wasekhaya kungaphazamisa ubudlelwano bomphakathi. Ungaba kanjani nekhaya elincane futhi uphume endlini ngaphezulu? 

Umuntu wasekhaya ngumuntu othanda ukuhlala ekhaya, othanda impilo yokunganyakazi. 

Ukuba ngumuntu wasekhaya akuhlonishwa ngaso sonke isikhathi emphakathini. Abanikazi bezindlu ngezinye izikhathi babizwa ngokuthi abahlali basekhaya. Abanye abantu bakuthola kunzima ukuqonda ukuthi kungani abanye bezizwa bekhululekile ekhaya futhi bengenasidingo esincane sokuphuma. Bangase bazibheke njengezokuhlalisana nabanye abantu.

Kodwa-ke, umuntu wasekhaya akufanele adidaniswe nokuba yedwa noma ukuhlalisana nabanye abantu: umuntu wasekhaya uyathanda ukubona abantu, kodwa kahle ekhaya. 

Izizathu eziningana zithuthukiswa odokotela bengqondo ukuze bachaze ukuthi abantu bahlala emakhaya: bangase babe nomkhuba womndeni wokusingatha okuningi ekhaya; kungenzeka bebengalondekile ebuntwaneni ngabazali babo futhi ikhaya labo liyindawo ephephile; bayakwazi ukuzimela futhi abadingi ukuba nokubukeka kwangaphandle ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuze bazizwe bekhona. 

Uma umlingani wakho ekhathazekile ngokuba ngumuntu wasekhaya (ezizwa enesidingo sokuphuma ngaphezu kwakho), ungazama ukushintsha.

Kulokhu, udokotela wezifo zengqondo kanye nodokotela wengqondo u-Alberto Eiguet uphakamisa ukuvula kancane kancane: ukwenza lokhu, bona abantu abasondelene kakhulu ngokwendawo, bese wandisa umbuthano wakho, ngokutshala imali enhlanganweni ngokwesibonelo. 

Udokotela wengqondo u-Laurie Hawkes uphakamisa ukuthi ucabange ngenjabulo elethwa ukuphuma: dlidliza phakathi nohambo oluya emnyuziyamu, yenza ukuhlangana okuhle ngenkathi uyophuza nabangani. Lo ngoti uphinde ukweluleka ukuthi uthole amandla angaphakathi kuwe ukuze uphume futhi ungakwenzi ukujabulisa obathandayo. Ukunikeza umsebenzi wokuvivinya umzimba: zibone ngeso lengqondo uhlukana futhi ube nengxoxo nawe: “Woza, asiphume. Kunefilimu enezibuyekezo ezinhle kakhulu ”.

Kwesinye isikhathi, ukwenza isiko lokuphuma, kanye ngesonto ngokwesibonelo, kungakwenza ufune ukuphuma. Isibonelo, zama ukuya endaweni yokudlela kanye ngesonto.