Okuqukethwe
Ukuzalwa uthakathiwe, kuyini?
“Ukuzalwa uthakathiwe kuyifilosofi kanye ‘nebhokisi lamathuluzi’, ukuzala ngendlela engcono kakhulu oyifunayo,” kuchaza uMagali Dieux, umsunguli wale ndlela. Umama wakusasa ube esezisiza ekuzwakaliseni umsindo. Kuqukethe ukukhiqiza umsindo, umlomo ovaliwe noma ovulekile, ngesikhathi sokufinyela. Lokhu kudlidliza kusiza ukuhamba ngokufinyela, nge-epidural noma ngaphandle kwayo. Umama wesikhathi esizayo uyakwamukela ukufinyela ngaphandle kokuqina, ngaphandle kokukuphikisa. Ngesikhathi esifanayo lapho eveza lo msindo, umama wesikhathi esizayo ukhuluma ngomcabango nengane yakhe, emzimbeni wakhe. Ubuhlungu obuzwiwayo buyancipha futhi abazali basuke bethintana nengane yabo ngesikhathi sokubeletha.
Wazalwa ethakathwa: ngekabani?
Kwabashadikazi abafuna ukubuyisela ukuzalwa kwabo. Kobaba abafuna ukuba yingxenye yokuphelezela amakhosikazi abo kulobu bunzima.
Ukuzalwa kuthakathiwe: ukuqala nini izifundo?
Uqala lapho ufuna, kodwa abesifazane abaningi bakhetha ukuqala ngenyanga yesi-7. Lokhu kuhambisana nokuqala kwekhefu labo lokuyoteta, isikhathi lapho behlela ukubeletha. Okuhle ukuqeqesha nsuku zonke ngemva kwalokho. Umgomo uwukuzikhulula ku-tension reflex lapho ubhekene nokufinyela. Sifundisa abesifazane ukuthi bahlale bevulekile, bamamatheke futhi bazwakale.
Ukuzalwa kuthakathiwe: yiziphi izinzuzo?
Abesifazane bathola ukwaneliseka okukhulu ngemva kokuprakthiza ukudlidliza ngesikhathi sokubeletha. Ngisho nesigaba se-epidural noma sokuhlinzwa, abazizwa sengathi babekezelela noma balahla ingane yabo. Bahlale bexhumana naye. Ngemva kokubeletha, izingane “Ezalwe ngemilingo” zizophaphama futhi zizole. Abazali bayaqhubeka nokudlikiza lapho ingane ikhala futhi ithule ngokuzwa imisindo enyakazisa umbungu wayo.
Ukuzalwa Enchanted: ukulungiselela ngaphansi kwesibonakhulu
Abaqeqeshi be-“Naître enchantés” banikeza amaseshini amahlanu noma izifundo zezinsuku ezimbili. Abazali bafunda ukukhiqiza ukudlidliza, kodwa futhi ukuze bathole ukuzethemba endimeni yabo njengabazali. I-CD yokuqeqesha iqeda ukuqeqeshwa.
Ukuzalwa kuthakathiwe: kuphi ukuzijwayeza?
Isibhedlela sokubeletha ePertuis (84) maduze sizobizwa ngokuthi “Naître enchantés” njengoba bonke abasebenzi bezokwelapha sebeqeqeshiwe lapho. Abasebenzi basakazwa kulo lonke elaseFrance.
Ulwazi olwengeziwe mayelana:
Testimony
"Lokhu kulungiselelwa kuphelele kobaba", uCédric, ubaba kaPhilomène, oneminyaka engu-4 ubudala, noRobinson, oneminyaka engu-2 nengxenye ubudala.
“U-Anne-Sophie, umkami, wabeletha okokuqala ngqa ngoJuni 2012, kwase kuba ngoJulayi 2013. Lokhu kuzalwa okubili kwalungiselelwa “ngendlela ye-Naître enchantés ”. Wayehlangane noMagali Dieux owayemnike ukuthi afundele umsebenzi. Wangitshela ngakho. Kwangiqinisa idolo ukwazi ukuthi ngeke kuculwe, ngoba ngiwumculi ompofu! Phakathi ne-internship, sakwazi ukufunda izindlela eziningi zokudlidliza ngokuhlala sixhumekile futhi sithathe izintambo. Sazilolonga kancane ekhaya. Ngesikhathi sibeletha sangeniswa ewodini lababelethayo safakwa ewodini. Saqala ukwenza ukudlidliza ekufinyezweni ngakunye. Saqhubeka kwafika umbelethisi osemncane. Wamangala, kodwa wakhetha ukudlidliza kunokumemeza. Ngisho nasezikhathini ezimbi kakhulu, lapho u-Anne-Sophie elahlekelwa unyawo lwakhe, ngakwazi ukumsiza ukuba agxilise ingqondo ngokudlidliza naye. Wabeletha ngo-2:40, ngaphandle kwe-epidural, ngaphandle kokudabula. Okwesibili, kwaba ngcono nakakhulu. Besivele siqhaqhazela emotweni. Umbelethisi akazange asikholelwe lapho u-Anne-Sophie emtshela ukuthi wayezobeletha ngokushesha, kodwa ngemva kwezinyanga ezintathu kwezine, uRobinson wayeselapho. Umbelethisi wahalalisela u-Anne-Sophie ngokumtshela ukuthi: “Kumnandi, uzibelethele wedwa”. Lokhu kulungiselelwa kuphelele kobaba. Uma ngitshela abanye obaba ngakho, kubenza bafune. Abangane banqume ukwenza okufanayo. Futhi babekuthanda. “