Okuqukethwe
I-Black Friday Le yindlela ukukhathazeka nge-Covid 19 okuthonya ngayo ukuthenga kwethu
Ukucindezeleka nomuzwa wokuthola umvuzo osheshayo kungasenza sithenge izinto ezingaphezu kwalokho esizidingayo noma esizifuna ngempela
ULwesihlanu Olumnyama 2020 bukhoma
Njengoba uKhisimusi ususeduze, osekushiwo ngoLwesihlanu olwedlule ngoNovemba kanye nesimo sokucindezeleka esibangelwa isimo samanje, kulo nyaka sifinyelele epulazini elihle kakhulu lokuthenga esizozisola kamuva. Kunzima, ngokusakazwa okuningi nokukhuthazwa, ukuthi lapho "Black Friday»Asizizwa sifuna ukuthenga okuthile.
Ngokuvamile, abantu abaningi basebenzisa uthenga njengendawo yokuphumela ezinkingeni zakho. Ungase ube nokulutheka, nakuba kungabonakali njengesifo sengqondo kuyi-Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, igcine ukubuyekezwa ngo-2013. “Ukuthenga kusinika ukwaneliseka okusheshayo, kodwa okungamanga kancane,” uyachaza. U-Antonio Ruiz, umeluleki ku-Applied Neuroscience kanye ne-Biotechnological Integration. Uchwepheshe uthi, lapho uthenga, isisekelo siwukuthi sifinyelela umgomo esizibekele wona esikhathini esifushane, okusenza sizizwe sijabule. “Futhi sandisa umuzwa wokuba nezinto, esiwuhlobanisa nesikhundla, nokuba seqenjini lezenhlalo kanye nokulinganisela okuthi, ngisho noma singanakile, kusenze sizizwe singcono,” uveza futhi axwayise ngokuthi lokhu kwaneliseka “kudlula kithi. Ngokushesha”. "Uma siyibona kugrafu, lo mzwelo womvuzo uzokwehla ngokushesha kakhulu", ubonisa futhi unikeze isibonelo sokuthenga imoto: ekuqaleni sijabule kakhulu, kodwa ngemva konyaka siye sacabanga njengento evamile.
Idethi efana ne-"Black Friday" yakhelwe ukuthi yenza abathengi bathenge okwengeziwe, ngokusebenzisa izisusa ezihlukahlukene. Ulimi olugcwele amagama anjengokuthi “thatha ithuba” noma “lithole” liyangena kancane kancane; kunemiyalezo eminingi enenhloso efanayo egcina isivusela izidingo empeleni ezingekho. “Sizele ukuzozama ukuphikisana nalezi zidingo ezicatshangwayo,” kusho u-Antonio Ruiz, owenezela ngokuthi kulo nyaka, uma kubhekwa isimo sokungazinzi nokungabaza, ungasenza sicabange ukuthi siyazidinga izinto kuyilapho empeleni singazidingi.
Ukucindezeleka nokuthenga
Ngokuvamile, u-Antonio Ruiz ucabanga ukuthi okwamanje sisheshisa kakhulu; Nakuba singakuzwa ukucindezeleka okungaka, kukhona endaweni esihlala kuyo. “Sibhekene nesimo lapho sichitha isikhathi esiningi phambi kwesikrini kunangaphambili futhi, uma sihlanganisa lokhu nokucindezeleka okuvamile kanye nazo zonke lezo zikhuthazo esasikhuluma ngazo, sifika ekucabangeni ukuthi, ngokuthenga okuncane, sizokwehlisa ukukhathazeka kwethu ", ubonisa.
Kuyiqiniso ukuthi sonke asinalo izinga elifanayo lokulawula izifiso zethu, futhi kukhona abantu abangakwazi ukulawula ukuthenga okuphoqelekile. «Lo msebenzi uvuselela izingxenye ezifanayo zobuchopho ezibangela ukuphuza utshwala.», Kusho uchwepheshe, futhi ukhumbula ukuthi, kulo nyaka, kufanele sicabangele okunye okukhethekile. Njengamanje sesihlukanisiwe ngokwenhlalo kunanini ngaphambili futhi thina, njengabantu bomphakathi, singathola ngokuthenga indlela yokuxhumana nabanye. “Uma, ngokwesibonelo, iqembu lonke labangane bami lithenge umkhiqizo othile, futhi lingayeki ukukhuluma ngawo, ngingase ngizizwe kudingekile ukuba ngizithengele wona, ukuze ngikwazi ukuxhumana nabo,” usho kanje.
Thenga ngekhanda
Kubalulekile ukufunda ukuthenga ngendlela elinganiselwe, kokubili ekuthengeni ukudla kwamasonto onke, kanye nemikhiqizo yekhaya lethu, izingubo noma “ama-whim” esiwafunayo. “Ingabe abalungisisayo izinqumo eziphusile esizenzayo, kulokhu kuthenga, kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi kufanele sibe ngo-100% abaqinile futhi sibe nenhliziyo eqinile ", kusho u-Antonio Ruiz, umeluleki we-Applied Neuroscience and Biotechnological Integration, ocacisayo: “Akuyona into embi ukuthenga okuthile, okungalungile ukuhlukumeza”.
Uxwayisa ngokuthi, ngokuvamile, sicabanga “okubi” esikhathini esiphakathi nesikhathi eside nokuthi kumelwe sifunde ukukubona kusengaphambili lokho okungenzeka. "Umuntu, ngokuvamile, uthanda ukuhlala lapha futhi manje. Kufanele sifunde ukwenza isibikezelo. Uma kuziwa ekuthengeni, kulungile ukuthi uzitike ngesinye isikhathi, kodwa kufanele siqinisekise ngaphambi kokuthi sikwazi ukukukhokhela,” usho kanje.
Enye ingozi, u-Antonio Ruiz uyaxwayisa, ukuthi ukuthenga okuningi kuthengwa ngekhadi lesikweletu. "Sonke siyakuzonda ukulahlekelwa, futhi ngekhadi lesikweletu, asiboni ukuthi silahlekelwa yini", esho futhi aqhubeke: "Kuwuhlobo" lobuciko "lokufihla ukulahlekelwa: akufani nokunikeza ngaphezu kwebhili yama-euro angu-50 nokudlulisa “ucezu lwepulasitiki” emshinini. ”
Amathiphu ayisithupha okugwema ukuthenga okuphoqelekile
Ekugcineni, u-Antonio Ruiz uyasishiya imihlahlandlela eyisithupha yokuhlobanisa umfutho wokuthenga, futhi ukwazi ukukwenza ngendlela enesibopho:
1. Ibalulekile qaphela ukuthi sisesimweni esibucayi, lapho kubusa ukucindezeleka.
2. Kubalulekile hlola ukuthi yiziphi izidingo zangempela esinazo,kanti yini ukuphapha nje.
3. Kumele yenza "ishadi lezezimali" zesimo sethu samanje: uhlu lwemali engenayo nezindleko futhi ucabange, ezinyangeni eziyisithupha, yiziphi izimo ezingase zenzeke.
4. Singakwazi sivumele ilayisensi ethile futhi uthenge, ngokwesibonelo, isipho sothile esimthandayo, noma into esifuna ngempela ukuba nayo.
5. Kungconor ngigweme ukuba namakhadi esikweletu “aqoshiwe” kunoma iyiphi inkundla ye-inthanethi.
6. Singakhetha umkhiqizo esifuna ukuwuthenga, futhi linda amahora angu-12 kuya kwangu-24 ukuze uyithenge, ukuze ungakwenzi ngokuxhamazela.