Ukuncoma nokumangala ngokuthile okukhulu kakhulu kunathi ngokungenakuqhathaniswa, sisondela engqikithini yethu. Abacwaningi bafinyelela lesi siphetho ngokuhlola imizwa yabantu ezimweni ezibangela ukwesaba.
Izazi zezengqondo zezenhlalakahle uTonglin Jiang wasePeking University (PRC) kanye noConstantin Sedikides waseNyuvesi yaseSouthampton (UK) batadisha ukuthi sithinteka kanjani umuzwa wokwesaba, ukwesaba okungcwele esiba nakho phambi kokuthile okwandisa ukuqonda kwethu umhlaba.
Ukuze lokhu, Jiang and Sedikides, isihloko kuJournal of Personality and Social Psychology: Interpersonal Relations and Group Processes, yenze izifundo eziyi-14 ezibandakanya amavolontiya angaphezu kuka-4400.
Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi, ngokuvamile, ukuthambekela komuntu kokuzwa ukwesaba, njengokumangazwa izinto zemvelo, kuhlobene nokuthi ufuna kangakanani ukuziqonda nokuqonda ukuthi ungubani ngempela.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, umuzwa wenhlonipho ngokwawo wenza umuntu acabange ngengqikithi yakhe. Lokhu kwenzeka, ngokwesibonelo, lapho, kolunye ucwaningo, abahlanganyeli baboniswa izithombe zeNorthern Lights futhi bacelwa ukuba bakhumbule izimo lapho bebona okuthile okukhulu okwabenza badlulela ngalé kwabo siqu futhi bazizwe njengohlamvu lwesihlabathi phakathi nendawo. ugwadule.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, okuhlangenwe nakho okunjalo, okusiza ukusondela engqikithini yakho yangempela futhi uqonde ukuthi ungubani, kwenza umuntu abe ngcono endizeni yomuntu - unothando olwengeziwe, uzwela, ukubonga ngomakhelwane bakhe, isifiso sokunakekela labo abamnakekelayo. ngiyayidinga, eyasungulwa ochwepheshe bezengqondo.