Lapho isifiso sabo sokulindela umntwana singenzeki ekukhulelweni okuzenzakalelayo, imibhangqwana eminingi iphendukela ku-AMP (Assisted Reproductive Medicine) noma i-AMP. Kude nokusondelana emshadweni, sibanjwe umthetho olandelwayo wezokwelapha oba umlamuli obalulekile ekufezekisweni kwephrojekthi yethu. Njengoba sizama, umzimba wethu uyasetshenziswa, welulelwe ekufezeni iphrojekthi yale ngane.
Ukwesekwa ngokwengqondo
Namuhla, kuye kwenziwa intuthuko enkulu amaqembu ezokwelapha ukuze asekele imibhangqwana ezizwa idinga usizo. Phakathi nemizamo, siyasekelwa ukuze singazivumeli ukuba sigajwe imizwa yokukhungatheka, ukungabi nabulungisa, noma ngisho nokuphelelwa ithemba; ukuze bakwazi ukuphinde bagxile kulokho abakulindele ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, enganeni elindelekile, hhayi esifisweni sodwa sokuba abazali ukuze ekugcineni bafane neminye imibhangqwana. Kwesinye isikhathi, kufanele uthole usizo kudokotela wezengqondo, ukuze uthole indlela yokuxoxisana nomngane wakho uma kunesidingo. (futhi akukho lutho ongaba namahloni ngalo!)
Ukukhathazeka okukhulu
Lapho ukukhulelwa kwenzeka, sibhekana nakho njengokunqoba kwangempela, sizwa umzuzwana wenjabulo enkulu, lowo ohambisana nesimemezelo somcimbi ojabulisayo. Futhi ukungabaza okufanayo noma ukukhathazeka njengabo bonke abazali besikhathi esizayo kuphakama, ngezinye izikhathi kugcizelelwe kakhulu. Ngemva kokulinda isikhathi eside kangaka, isifiso sinamandla sokuba nomntwana, sobabili sizizwa sikulungele ukwamukela umntwana futhi simnakekele. Kodwa lapho umntwana esezelwe, ngezinye izikhathi kucatshangwa kahle futhi sizithola sibhekene nokukhala, ukusungulwa kwezigqi zokulala, ukukhathazeka okuncane kokudla. Ochwepheshe be-Perinatal kanye nabancane (odokotela, ababelethisi, abahlengikazi basenkulisa) bakhona ukuze basisize silungiselele ngokuzola ngangokunokwenzeka indima yethu entsha, hhayi "njengabazali abaphelele" kodwa "njengabazali abanakekelayo".
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