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E-Brazil, sivame ukubeletha ngokuhlinzwa
"Cha, kodwa uyadlala?" Uhlanya ngokuphelele, uzozwa ubuhlungu obukhulu! “, akhale umzala ngimtshela ukuthi ngiyobelethela eFrance, esithweni sangasese. EBrazil, ukubeletha kuyinto evamile, ngoba abesifazane bacabanga ukuthi ukubeletha okungokwemvelo kubuhlungu kakhulu. Futhi kuyibhizinisi langempela: Abesifazane baseBrazil babelethela emitholampilo, lapho igumbi kanye nosuku lokubeletha kugcinwa khona kusenesikhathi. Umndeni wonga izinyanga ukuze ukhokhele udokotela wokubelethisa. Lapho uGisèle Bündchen, i-supermodel yaseBrazil enkulu kunazo zonke, eveza ukuthi wabelethela ekhaya, kubhavu wakhe wokugezela futhi ngaphandle kwe-epidural, kwavusa ukusabela okunamandla ezweni. Wayefuna ukukhuthaza abesifazane ukuthi bashintshe bakhohlwe ukucwasa kwabo. Kodwa abantu baseBrazil baxakeke kakhulu ngomzimba wabo! Ikakhulukazi ngesimo semomozi yabo! Kumelwe ihlale injalo, futhi abayeni bayavumelana nalowo mbono.
Omama baseBrazil basebancane
” Bese ??? Umndeni wami wawulokhu ungibuza. EBrazil, singumama osemusha, Ngakho-ke emndenini wami, lapho ngineminyaka engu-32, ngingenamntwana, ngase ngivele “ngiyincekukazi endala”, ikakhulukazi kugogo wami owayenezingane eziyishumi nesishiyagalombili. Lapho ngithola ukuthi ngikhulelwe, wonke umuntu wajabula kakhulu. Ukukhulelwa, nathi, kuyiphathi yezinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye! Lapho ubonisa isisu sakho, yilapho uba muhle kakhulu. Siya ngisho nakubathungi ukuze senze izingubo ezikhethekile. Kodwa iBrazil iyizwe elihlukile: ukukhipha isisu kwenqatshelwe ngokuphelele, amanye amantombazane akhipha izisu ngasese, futhi amaningi abulawa yikho. Kuvamile futhi ukuzwa ukuthi usana lulahliwe. Ngokusobala, kuvame ukuba yizinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye ziqonde ngemuva kokuphela kweCarnival…
"Ukukhulelwa, kanye nathi, kuyiphathi yezinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye!"
Ingane yaseBrazil kufanele ibe yinhle futhi inuke kahle
"I-baby shower" isiko elisungulwe kahle ezweni lami. Ekuqaleni, yayenzelwa ukusiza omama ababezolahlekelwa izinto lapho bezalwa, kodwa manje sekuyisikhungo. Siqasha igumbi, simema ithoni yezivakashi futhi si-oda ikhekhe lomshado. Isipho esithandwa kakhulu uma kuyintombazane yipheya lamacici. Kuyisiko, futhi laba bavame ukubhobozwa kusukela bezalwa. Ewodini lababelethayo, abahlengikazi babuza omama ukuthi banesithakazelo yini.
Ezinkulisa, kuvamile ukubona emithethweni ukuthi izimonyo ne-nail polish zivinjelwe. Ngoba abaseBrazil abancane bavame ukugqoka njengabesifazane abasebasha! Umntwana waseBrazil kufanele abukeke emuhle futhi enuka kahle, ngakho uyawashwa izikhathi eziningana ngosuku. Omama bakhetha izingubo ezinhle kuphela futhi bamboze izingane zabo ngezidleke zezingelosi ezimibalabala.
EBrazil, omama abasebasha bahlala izinsuku ezingu-40 embhedeni
“Mzala, yeka ukusebenza kanzima, isisu sakho sizokhululeka!” “, Ngatshelwa ngocingo. Lapho u-Arthur ezalwa, umndeni wakithi wawulokhu ungishayela ucingo. EBrazil, umama noma umamezala uhlala nabazali abasebasha izinsuku ezingu-40. Umama osemncane kufanele ahlale embhedeni futhi avuke kuphela ukuze ageze. Uyatotoswa, yi-“resguardo”. Bamphathele imihluzi yenkukhu ukuze alulame futhi angangenwa umkhuhlane. Ubaba akahileleki ngempela ekunakekeleni ingane. Ngugogo onakekela omncane: kusukela kuma-diapers kuya ekugezeni kokuqala, kuhlanganise nokunakekelwa kwentambo.
“Omama baseBrazil bakhethela izingane zabo izingubo ezinhle kakhulu futhi bazimboze ngezidleke zezingelosi ezimibalabala.”
Ngikhumbula i-joie de vivre yaseBrazil!
EFrance, ngemva kwezinsuku ezine ngibelethile, ngase ngishanela. Nakuba ngangingenawo umndeni wami, ngangijabule. EBrazil, umama osemusha ubhekwa njengogulayo. Mina, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngathatha indima yami yokuba umama ngokushesha. Engikukhumbulayo ngeBrazil injabulo, umoya wenjabulo, iphupho elisabalele ngokukhulelwa nezingane. Konke lapha kubonakala kubucayi kakhulu. Ngisho nodokotela wami wezifo zabesifazane wayehlale ebheka phezulu!