Okuqukethwe
Ngokocwaningo olwenziwa yi-IFOP ngo-Ephreli 3 no-4, 2020 kubantu abangu-1, u-016% wabesifazane babengasawugqoki ubhodisi ngesikhathi bevalelwe. Nakuba zingama-8% kuphela ezikhathini ezijwayelekile. Inani labesifazane kuyavunywa ukuthi liphansi, kodwa eliphindwe cishe ngo-3. Isibalo esikhuluma okuningi ngesisindo semithetho yangaphandle, ngokusho kwesazi sefilosofi uCamille Froidevaux-Metterie, umbhali wencwadi ethi “Seins, enquête d ' a liberation ”, ekhishwe ngoMashi 3 ngohlelo lwe-Anamosa. Ukuhumusha: Ngaphandle "kwesibopho somphakathi", abanye besifazane bakhetha ukungagqoki ubhodisi, ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka.
Kuhle noma akukuhle?
Kuyavunywa ukuthi ubhodisi kufanele ugqokwe ukuze amabele aqine futhi aphakame. Nokuthi ukungayigqoki kubangela ubuhlungu. Izinkolelo ezihlanganyelwa iningi labesifazane. Kodwa ingabe kuyiqiniso? Phakathi nocwaningo olwenziwa cishe iminyaka eyishumi nanhlanu ngeminyaka yawo-2000, uJean-Denis Rouillon, udokotela wezemidlalo, wabonisa ukuthi lapho engasawugqoki ubhodisi, owesifazane wabona ubuhlungu bakhe bunyamalala ngemva konyaka, futhi ngokuphambene nenkolelo evamile, amabele awazange awafake. sag nhlobo. Umcwaningi waze waqaphela ukuthi ngaphandle kukabhodi, izingono zikhula kancane. “Ngokwesilinganiso, ingono yayiphakanyiswa ngamamilimitha ayisikhombisa ngonyaka,” kusho udokotela. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isifuba silungisa ukungabikho kokusekelwa kwangaphandle. Umbono kadokotela, manje osethathe umhlalaphansi: “Umbono wethu oyinhloko ukuthi ekuqaleni ibele liyakwazi ukuzinakekela ngenxa yemisipha kaCooper. “
NgokukaJean-Denis Rouillon, ngemva kweminyaka embalwa, ikakhulukazi uma ubhodisi ugqokwa ngesikhathi sokuthomba, ngesikhathi sokukhula kwebele, isimiso sokwesekwa kwemvelo siyawohloka, khona-ke owesifazane uboshelwa ukugqoka leli thuluzi. Ngokusho kowayengudokotela, ngemva kokuyeka ukugqoka noma yiluphi uhlobo lwe-brassiere noma ubhodisi, kuthatha unyaka ukuthi ibele lizilungisele izimo ezintsha, amandla adonsela phansi kanye nemikhuba yezemidlalo.
Ngakho-ke, selokhu kwaqala ukuvalelwa ejele, ngoMeyi 11, ingabe ubhodisi usuyibuyisile indawo yawo esifubeni sakho? Noma ingabe ihlala ekamelweni?
Prakthiza izivivinyo zemisipha yakho elengayo
Ukukhohlwa ukugqoka ubhodisi wakho kusho ukuzamukela ngokwemvelo, nge-artifice eyodwa encane, kungakhathaliseki ubudala bakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unamabele amakhulu noma, ngokuphambene, amancane kakhulu. Kungani ubungeke uzenze zisebenze? Ngokuzivocavoca kwemisipha elengayo, uzobona isifuba sakho sikhuphuka ngemuva kwezikhathi ezimbalwa!
Senza njengoba sithanda!
Gqoka ubhodisi noma nini lapho ufuna! Uma uthanda ubhodisi ngoba uthola ukuthi uhlobisa isifuba sakho, ukwenze uthandeke emehlweni akho kanye nalawo esithandwa sakho, ungawugqoka ngezikhathi ezithile kuphela, kusihlwa njengesibonelo. Ngoba futhi kuwumsebenzi wobhodisi: ukuba yisisekeli esithandekayo esithuthukisa amabele, futhi sibambe iqhaza othandweni nempilo yocansi. Ngakho, unobhodisi noma ungenawo? Kufana nokuthi wonke umuntu wesifazane uncamela!