I-Psychology

Isikhathi samaholidi siyaphela, okusho ukuthi abaningi bethu kuzomele bandize baye ekhaya maduze nje. Endizeni asivamile ukujabulela umakhelwane nezingane, ikakhulukazi uma ingane ihlezi ngemva kwethu. Ubanga umsindo, adonse ingemuva lesihlalo sethu, asishaye ngezinyawo zakhe. Uyajwayela? Sinikeza amathiphu azosiza bobabili abazali ngesikhathi sendiza nezingane, nabagibeli asebephenduke izisulu zabo bengaqondile.

Ngamunye wethu okungenani kanye ngesikhathi sendiza waphenduka umakhelwane wengane engaphumuli. Futhi mhlawumbe uyena umzali onamahloni ngenxa yokuziphatha kwengane yakhe. Yini okufanele uyenze ezimweni ezinjalo? Indlela yokuthulisa umuntu ohluphayo?

1. Khipha izicathulo zengane yakho

Kunzima kakhulu ukukhahlela isihlalo ngezinyawo ezingenalutho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, akubuhlungu. Ngakho-ke kumgibeli ohlezi ngaphambili, ngeke neze azwele.

2. Zibekele isihlalo phambi kwengane yakho

Kunokuba uhlale eduze kwakhe, hlala phambi kwakhe. Ngakho-ke, ngemuva komzali, hhayi umgibeli womunye umuntu, uzothola imivimbo.

3. Thatha ithoyizi lesilwane esiyintandokazi yengane yakho emgwaqweni

Umcamelo wesilwane noma ithoyizi eliwubukhazikhazi - yonke ingane ihamba nayo. Ayifake ephaketheni lesihlalo esingaphambili, futhi ngeke akhahlele umngane wakhe othandekayo. Uma ingane yenza lokhu, yisho ukuthi uzolithatha ithoyizi uma “likhubekisa”.

4. Phatha Isithombe Esikhulu Esiphrintiwe Sikagogo uhambe nawe

Yinamathisele ngemuva kwesihlalo sakho endizeni. Akakwazi ukukhahlela ugogo!

5. Beka izinyawo zengane yakho emathangeni akho

Ngakho-ke ingane izokhululeka kakhudlwana futhi ngeke ikwazi ngokomzimba ukukhahlela isihlalo esingaphambili.

6. Nikeza isinxephezelo kumgibeli olimele

Uma ingane yakho ihlupha othile, nikeza lowo mgibeli ukuthi athenge okuthile okuphuzwayo. Ngaleyo ndlela ungaxolisa ngokuphazamiseka.

7. Gcina ingane yakho imatasa

Ukubheja okuphephile ukunikeza ingane yakho i-iPhone yakho futhi uyitshele ukuthi uma iphinda ishaya isihlalo, uzothatha ifoni.

8. Uma ungumgibeli ukhahlelwa yingane, thintana naye ngqo.

Phenduka utshele ingane yakho ukuthi iyeke ukukhahlela ngoba ibuhlungu futhi ikwenza ungakhululeki. Lokhu cishe kuzosebenza, njengoba izingane, ikakhulukazi ezineminyaka engaphansi kwemihlanu, ngokuvamile zingabalaleli abazali bazo futhi zifune ukubona ukuthi zingahamba ibanga elingakanani, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo zisabela ngokushesha emazwini omuntu angamazi.

Kuyadabukisa ukuthi umphathi wabasebenzi akakwazi ukuzungeza i-cabin futhi abize izingane ukuthi zihlele. Babezomlalela nakanjani!


Mayelana Nombhali: U-Wendy Perrin yintatheli ephethe eyakhe iwebhusayithi lapho ivikela khona abavakashi abahlushwe yizinsizakalo zokuvakasha ezisezingeni eliphansi.

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