Izehlakalo ezicindezelayo, ukuhlambalaza nokululazeka zishiya umbhalo enkumbulweni yethu, zisenza sibhekane nazo ngokuphindaphindiwe. Kodwa izinkumbulo azibhalwanga kithi kanye. Angahlelwa ngokususa ingemuva elibi. Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo u-Alla Radchenko usitshela ukuthi kusebenza kanjani.
Izinkumbulo azigcinwa engqondweni njengezincwadi noma amafayela ekhompyutha.. Asikho isitoreji sememori esinjalo. Ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho sibhekisela emcimbini othile wesikhathi esedlule, siyabhalwa phezu kwalokho. Ubuchopho bakha uchungechunge lwezenzakalo kabusha. Futhi ngaso sonke isikhathi uhamba ngokuhlukile. Ulwazi mayelana «nezinguqulo» zangaphambilini zezinkumbulo zigcinwa ebuchosheni, kodwa okwamanje asikazi ukuthi singazifinyelela kanjani.
Izinkumbulo ezinzima zingabhalwa kabusha. Esikuzwayo esikhathini samanje, indawo esizungezile, ulwazi olusha — konke lokhu kuthinta indlela isithombe esisibiza ngenkumbulo sizovela ngayo. Lokhu kusho ukuthi uma umzwelo othile unamathele emcimbini othile onolwazi - yithi, intukuthelo noma ukudabuka - ngeke uhlale unomphela. Esikutholile okusha, imicabango emisha ingakwazi ukudala kabusha le nkumbulo ngendlela ehlukile — ngomoya ohlukile. Isibonelo, utshele othile ngesenzakalo esinzima ngokomzwelo empilweni yakho. Futhi wanikezwa ukwesekwa - bakududuza, bathembisa ukumbheka ngenye indlela. Lokhu kwengeze emcimbini umuzwa wokulondeka.
Uma sibhekene nohlobo oluthile lokushaqeka, kuyasiza ukushintsha ngokushesha ngemva kwalokhu, ukuzama ukushintsha isithombe esivele ekhanda lethu.
Inkumbulo ingadalwa ngokungemthetho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngendlela yokuthi ungayihlukanisi neyoqobo, futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, “inkumbulo yamanga” enjalo nayo izothola imininingwane emisha. Kukhona ucwaningo lwaseMelika olukhombisa lokhu. Abafundi bacelwa ukuthi bagcwalise uhlu lwemibuzo ngabo ngokuningiliziwe bese bephendula imibuzo ngabo. Impendulo kwakufanele ibe lula - yebo noma cha. Imibuzo yayiwukuthi: "ingabe wazalelwa lapho nalaphaya", "abazali bakho babenjena", "uthanda ukuya enkulisa". Ngesinye isikhathi, batshelwa: “Futhi lapho uneminyaka emihlanu ubudala, waduka esitolo esikhulu, waduka futhi abazali bakho babekufuna.” Umuntu uthi, "Cha, akwenzekanga." Bathi kuye: “Awu, bekusekhona ichibi elinjalo, bekubhukuda amathoyizi, ugijime uzungeza leli chibi, ufuna ubaba nomama.” Kwabe sekubuzwa eminye imibuzo eminingi. Futhi emva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa baphinde bafike, futhi babuye babuzwe imibuzo. Futhi babuza umbuzo ofanayo mayelana nesitolo. Futhi u-16-17% wavuma. Futhi bengeza izimo ezithile. Kwaba yisikhumbuzo somuntu.
Inqubo yenkumbulo ingalawulwa. Isikhathi lapho inkumbulo ilungiswa imizuzu engama-20. Uma ucabanga ngokunye phakathi nalesi sikhathi, ulwazi olusha ludlulela enkumbulweni yesikhathi eside. Kodwa uma ubaphazamisa ngokunye, lolu lwazi olusha ludala umsebenzi oqhudelanayo wobuchopho. Ngakho-ke, uma sibhekene nohlobo oluthile lokushaqeka noma into engathandeki, kuyasiza ukushintsha ngokushesha ngemva kwalokhu, ukuzama ukushintsha isithombe esivele ekhanda lethu.
Cabanga ngengane efunda esikoleni futhi uthisha evame ukuyithethisa. Ubuso bakhe buhlanekezelwe, ucasukile, uyaphawula kuye. Futhi uyasabela, ubona ubuso bakhe futhi acabange: manje kuzoqala futhi. Kudingeka sisuse lesi sithombe esifriziwe. Kukhona izivivinyo ezikhomba izindawo zokucindezeleka. Futhi ukuzivocavoca okuthile, ngosizo lapho umuntu, njengokungathi, aphinde ahlele lo mbono wezingane eqandisiwe. Uma kungenjalo, kuzolungiswa futhi kuthinte indlela umuntu azoziphatha ngayo kwezinye izimo.
Ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho sibuyela ezinkumbulo zobuntwana futhi zinhle, siba basha.
Kuhle ukukhumbula. Lapho umuntu ehamba emuva naphambili ngenkumbulo - engena esikhathini esidlule, ebuyela esikhathini samanje, ehamba phambili - lokhu kuyinqubo enhle kakhulu. Njengamanje, izingxenye ezihlukene zokuhlangenwe nakho kwethu ziyahlanganiswa, futhi lokhu kuletha izinzuzo ezibonakalayo. Ngomqondo othile, lezi zinkumbulo zihamba zisebenza njengomshini "wesikhathi" - ukubuyela emuva, senza izinguquko kuzo. Phela, izikhathi ezinzima zobuntwana zingatholwa ngokuhlukile nge-psyche yomuntu omdala.
Ukuzivocavoca engikuthanda kakhulu: zicabange uneminyaka eyisishiyagalombili ngebhayisikili elincane. Futhi uzobe unethezekile futhi ulungele ukuhamba. Ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho singena ezinkumbulo zobuntwana futhi zinhle, siba basha. Abantu babukeka behluke ngokuphelele. Ngiletha umuntu esibukweni futhi ngibonise ukuthi ubuso bakhe bushintsha kanjani.