Okuqukethwe
Uyiqiniso kangakanani lo mbono ovamile mayelana nemicabango yabesilisa nabesifazane? Konke kuphambene ncamashi - ochwepheshe bezocansi bakholelwa futhi baphikisa enye inkolelo mayelana nobulili.
"Ukudlwengula ngokuvamile kuyiphupho labesilisa"
U-Alain Eril, isazi se-psychoanalyst, isazi sezocansi:
Konke kuphambene ncamashi! Phela, ikakhulukazi amadoda akholelwa ukuthi owesifazane uphupha ngokudlwengulwa, ngoba lokhu kususa icala kubo ngenxa yemicabango yabo efanayo.
Kwanele ukubheka ukuthi, esimweni sokudlwengula kwangempela, owesifazane ufaka isicelo kuma-ejensi zomthetho. Lapho, baqala ukumbuza imibuzo: “Ubugqoke kanjani? Uqinisekile ukuthi awuzange ubangele ukuhlasela?"
Njengoba kubonakala kule mibuzo, ngokungazi owesilisa uvame ukucabanga ukuthi owesifazane uphupha ngokudlwengulwa. Ukudlwengula ngokuvamile kuyiphupho labesilisa, futhi ngihlala ngithola ukuqinisekiswa kwalokhu emisebenzini yami.
Kodwa kwabesifazane, enye yemicabango evame kakhulu i-threesome, lapho yena namadoda amabili behlanganyela khona.
Lokhu okweqile okucatshangelwayo kungenxa yokuthi inani elibalulekile labesifazane, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi injabulo yabo inkulu kangakanani, banomuzwa wokuthi amandla abo awakapheli. Bezicabangela benamadoda amabili, baphupha ngokuzama ukufinyelela i-orgasm eqine nakakhulu.
“Isifiso sokwenza lawa maphupho aphile ngokuvamile siholela emiphumeleni ebuhlungu”
U-Mireille Bonierbal, udokotela wezifo zengqondo, udokotela wezocansi:
Lokhu akulona iqiniso kwabesifazane. Ocwaningweni olukhulu lwesayensi yezokuhlalisana kwabantu olwenziwa udokotela wengqondo nodokotela wezocansi ongumFulentshi uRobert Porto, amaphupho okudlwengula phakathi kwabesifazane ayesendaweni yeshumi.
Okuvame kakhulu kwakungamaphupho lapho owesifazane akhumbula khona isimo socansi esiphazamisayo nomlingani wakhe wangaphambili.
Nokho, emphakathini wanamuhla, oqhubeka udida izinganekwane nezinto ezingokoqobo, okokuqala ngithanda ukukukhumbuza ukuthi ukucabanga okunjalo kuyigugu kuphela njengendlela yokuthuthukisa umcabango ovusa inkanuko. Isifiso sokubenza baphile ngokuvamile siholela emiphumeleni ebuhlungu.
Ngokuqondene nabesilisa, bavame ukuphupha ngothando bebathathu, kodwa ... ngokubamba iqhaza kwenye indoda
Emaphusheni abo, bamnika owesifazane wabo, okhuluma ngesikhathi esifanayo ngokukhanukela amandla kanye nobungqingili obucindezelwe.
Amanye amadoda aletha lawa maphupho kumakhosikazi awo aze avume ukuwabona ngokweqiniso. Okuhlangenwe nakho okunjalo kubhubhise imibhangqwana eminingi: akulula kakhulu ukubuka owesifazane wakho ejabulela ukusondelana nomunye.