“Kukuwo wonke umuntu ukuthi abone nini lapho ezizwa ekulungele, kodwa kungcono ukungakwenzi sekwephuzile ngoba imvelo ayihlali iphana. Maduze ngizoba neminyaka engu-30 futhi sisalindele ingane yethu yokuqala. Nokho, sanquma ukuba nengane eminyakeni engu-7 edlule futhi sizoba neminyaka engu-10 sishadile maduze. Kufanele sidlule ku-IVF, ngiqala okwesibili kule nyanga. “ UJenny 1981
“Isifiso sami sokuba ngumama safika ngimncane kakhulu (iminyaka engu-15-16 ubudala) kwathi ngisanda kuthola umuntu wami, sagcina sehluleka. Ngithole izingane zami zineminyaka engu-22, 24 no-26 (ngizobe ngina-28 ngenyanga ezayo). Ngingathanda ukuba nowesine kodwa hhayi ubaba (…). Angikwehluleli ukukhetha kwabanye abantu besifazane kodwa ukuthola umntwana ngemva kweminyaka engu-45, ngikuthola sekuhlwile ngoba kunengozi enkulu kumama nengane futhi lapho ngizoba le minyaka, kuyoba yithuba lami. izingane zibe abazali. Umama wami wayengugogo eneminyaka engu-45 ubudala futhi ngangingaba nesikhathi esibi ngokuthola umntwana ngesikhathi esifanayo nami… Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi asizikhethi, ngiyazi ukuthi ukube ngaba nenkinga yokuba umama, ngangingeke angizibekele imingcele. Yinye into eqinisekile: Angisoze ngazisola ngokuba nabantwana bami besebancane. ” Glouglou1943
“Ngangingumama okokuqala ngineminyaka engu-29 kanti kwesibili ngizoba neminyaka engu-32. Kimina, u-40 uwumkhawulo ophezulu. Ngingathanda ukuba nazo zonke izingane zami ezineminyaka engu-36 ubudala. Okubalulekile wukuthola umuntu ofanele ongaqala naye umndeni. Sathatha isikhathi ngaphambi komntwana wethu wokuqala, kodwa okungenani sobabili sase silungile. ” Evepey
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