Okuqukethwe
- 1. Thumelani yonke into eniyenza ndawonye ku-inthanethi.
- 2. Wena noma umlingani wakho anilokothi nilushiye ucingo
- 3. Ufuna umlingani wakho athumele izithombe zenu ndawonye
- 4. Bhala kakhulu ngobudlelwano.
- 5. Sebenzisa ngokweqile ama-hashtag anoshukela namagama-ncazo
- 6. Awunelisekile ngokuthi uzakwethu akaxhumani nawe kuwebhu
- 7. Ungazisusi izithombe ze-ex yakho
- 8. Aweneme ngokuyimfihlo ngokuthunyelwe namazwana omlingani wakho
Izinkundla zokuxhumana azigcini nje ngokusilethela eduze, kodwa futhi zivivinya ubudlelwano ukuze uthole amandla. I-Facebook ne-Instagram zigcwele izingibe. Indlela yokuziphatha ukuze ungangeni kuzo?
“Kungani ungangithandi?” U-Elena ubuza u-Anatoly ngokucasuka. “Lenok, angizange ngiye nakuFacebook namuhla!” “Akulona iqiniso, ngikubone kuWebhu!” Iqiniso elisha alinikezi nje kuphela amathuba amasha, kodwa futhi lidala izinkinga ezintsha.
Siqhathanisa ubudlelwano bethu nobudlelwano bezinye izithandani ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Ingabe bahamba ngaphezu kwethu? Ukugona okuningi esithombeni kunathi? Ukuncintisana okubonakalayo akugcini nje ngokusigcina sisesimweni esihle, kodwa futhi kubukela phansi ukuzwana kwababhangqwana. Wenzani kabi futhi yini okumele ishintshwe ukuze kugcinwe ukuthula nothando?
1. Thumelani yonke into eniyenza ndawonye ku-inthanethi.
Ngokudalula isithombe esidlangalaleni, siguqula isikhathi "kwababili kuphela" sibe yisizinda somphakathi. Khohlwa ngocingo, vumela ababhalisile bashiywe ngaphandle kokuthunyelwe okusha. Gxila kumlingani wakho, chitha isikhathi nobabili kuphela.
2. Wena noma umlingani wakho anilokothi nilushiye ucingo
Awuyidedeli i-smartphone yakho. Njalo hlola imeyili yakho, bese inethiwekhi. Ingabe umlingani wakho wenza okufanayo? Noma uvele azihlalele alinde uze udinwe ucomenta kumapost wabangani bakho? Kungokwemvelo ukuthi azizwe engafaneleki. Vele ubeke i-smartphone yakho kude futhi ujabulele ubusuku obubili. Futhi sihlala sinesikhathi sezinkundla zokuxhumana.
3. Ufuna umlingani wakho athumele izithombe zenu ndawonye
Kungase kumangaze futhi kucasule ukuthi umlingani wakho akanazo izithombe zakho ezihlangene ekhasini. Akabhali ngawe nhlobo, sengathi usakhululekile. Linda ukuthi ucasulwe. Mhlawumbe umlingani akathandi izinkundla zokuxhumana noma ukholelwa ukuthi impilo yomuntu siqu kufanele ihlale iyimfihlo. Indlela elula yokuqeda ukungabaza ukukhuluma naye ngokuqondile.
4. Bhala kakhulu ngobudlelwano.
Imilayezo engapheli kanye “nezindaba” usuku lonke kuyisimo esibi. Noma ngabe bonke ababhalisile bakho bejabule ngawe, kungekudala bazokhathala ukumosha okuthunyelwe okunoshukela-omnandi. Yeka ukuvala “amateyipu” abanye abantu, shiya ikhoneni empilweni yakho elizohlala lingenakufinyeleleka emehlweni okuhlola.
Asikho isidingo sokubeka ama-hashtag amaningi akhuluma ngenjabulo yakho engenamkhawulo. Ngemva kwesesine, akekho obanaka. Kungokufanayo nangamasignesha. Ngezinye izikhathi okuncane kungcono.
6. Awunelisekile ngokuthi uzakwethu akaxhumani nawe kuwebhu
Uzakwethu akakushiyi imibono esekelayo, "akathandi" izithombe, futhi akaxhumani nawe nge-Instagram. Ingabe kuyakucasula? Khuluma naye ngokungagwegwesi, thola ukuthi yini emvimbela ukuthi axhumane nawe ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Chaza ukuthi ukunaka akujabulisi kuphela ngasese, kodwa naphakathi kwabantu.
7. Ungazisusi izithombe ze-ex yakho
Ungathumeli izithombe zakho ne-ex yakho. Cishe akujabulisi ngozakwethu omusha ukubabona. Ngisho noma ungacabangi “nganoma yini efana naleyo”, othandekayo angakuqonda ngendlela ehluke ngokuphelele. Futhi ngokuvamile, izithombe ezinjalo zingaba uphawu lokuthi awukaluvumeli uthando oludala.
8. Aweneme ngokuyimfihlo ngokuthunyelwe namazwana omlingani wakho
Ingabe ucasulwa okuthunyelwe kozakwethu noma ukuphawula kwakhe okuvela kumngane oyedwa? Uthukuthele kodwa uthule? Kungcono ukukhuluma ngqo ngalokho ongakuthandi. Mhlawumbe uzakwethu uthumele isithombe esingalungile noma ukucasule ngokuqhathanisa nothile. Ungacindezeli imizwa yakho. Ingxoxo eqotho iyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuxazulula izinkinga.