Okuqukethwe
- Umbono 1. Hlanganani ngekhofi yasekuseni
- Umbono 2. Yidlani isidlo sasemini ndawonye
- Umbono 3. Hamba uyothenga
- Umbono 4. Buyela osukwini lokuqala
- Umbono 5. Nikezane isikhashana nje emotweni
- Umbono 6. Hlukanisa umsebenzi wesikole phakathi kokubili
- Umbono 7. Nikeza ukuthinta “okungahleliwe”
- Umbono 8. Hambani nigeze ndawonye
Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zaseYurophu zibiza umkhuba omusha wokuxhumana emibhangqwaneni encane-dating - micro-dates. Yenzelwe ukuvuselela noma yibuphi ubudlelwano, uma kungenjalo ngokuphazima kweso, bese ngokushesha okukhulu. Le fomethi iwusizo ikakhulukazi kwabashadile abamatasa.
Umsebenzi, ukuthenga, umsebenzi wasendlini kanye nezemidlalo - ekuphileni kwethu kwansuku zonke kunesikhathi esincane sothandekayo. Futhi lapho izingane zivela, kuba nzima kakhulu ukunikeza umlingani wakho ukunaka okwanele. Abalingani abaningi babonana kuphela ekuseni noma kusihlwa, lapho wonke umuntu ekhathele kakhulu ukuchitha isikhathi nomunye.
Ukuze isimiso singaluqedi uthando, kudingeka nibekele eceleni isikhathi sokukhulumisana kwezothando nindawonye. Okuhle wukuthi izithandani ezimatasa akumele zichithe impelasonto yonke kuphithizela ngenxa yokuba sodwa. Umqondo wemihlangano emincane ungena kalula kunoma yisiphi isimiso esimatasa. Sebenzisa izikhawu ezimfushane ovame ukuzichitha kumakhalekhukhwini noma uchungechunge. Uyini umnyombo wombono we-microdating?
Umbono 1. Hlanganani ngekhofi yasekuseni
Isiqalo esihle sosuku lokusebenza sizokujabulisa amahora angama-24 kusengaphambili. Ngakho-ke, uma kungenzeka, zama ukuphuma embhedeni ndawonye, ngisho noma othile engase akhumule i-nightcap kamuva. Cabanga ngomsebenzi wasekuseni ohlangene eniwujabulela nobabili. Isibonelo, idethi emfushane kumenzi wekhofi. Ungakwazi ukulungisela izinhlelo zosuku, wabelane ngemisebenzi ezayo nezinselele, noma izinto ezijabulisayo ozilindele ngenkathi uphuza ikhofi ndawonye.
Umbono 2. Yidlani isidlo sasemini ndawonye
Uma wena nophathina wakho nisebenza eduze, ningathatha ikhefu lesidlo sasemini ndawonye okungenani kanye ngesonto. Usuku endaweni ethile “enkabazwe”, phakathi kwamahhovisi akho, yithuba elihle lokudlela endaweni yokudlela enhle futhi nijabulele isikhathi ndawonye.
Uma ukuhlangana kuyinselelo enkulu kuwe, kodwa ufuna ukugcina umqondo we-microdating, vele uhlele ucingo lwesikhathi sasemini. Noma ingxoxo yevidiyo ezonivumela ukuthi nidle ndawonye, noma kunjalo. Ukuhlangana njalo ubuso nobuso kungaba isiko elijabulisayo futhi kuqinise ubuhlobo benu. Uma ikhefu lakho lesidlo sasemini lilifushane futhi uthola izingcingo emsebenzini ngaso sonke isikhathi, mhlawumbe ningalandana emsebenzini ngezikhathi ezithile?
Umbono 3. Hamba uyothenga
Uma wena nozakwenu nithenga ndawonye masonto onke, ningaphinda niguqule ukuthenga kube i-microdate. Phatha ubhasikidi noma gingqa inqola, nibambene ngezandla, niqabulane emgqeni lapho niphuma khona. Lezi njabulo ezincane zizongena kalula osukwini lwakho futhi zisize uthando nothando kungashabalali ekuphithizeleni kwempilo yansuku zonke.
Umbono 4. Buyela osukwini lokuqala
Kubonakala sengathi ukuphinda usuku lwakho lokuqala kuwumqondo onzima noma ongenangqondo. Akunakwenzeka ukuthi kuzokwazi ukukhiqiza ngokunembile ngalolo suku. Kodwa imininingwane emincane, yebo, ingafakwa empilweni evamile yansuku zonke. Isibonelo, vula ingoma enayizwa nobabili ngaleso sikhathi, pheka isidlo enasi-ode ngaleso sikhathi, noma ufake okuthile okumangazayo noma okwenza umlingani wakho ahleke ngaleso sikhathi. Ngokuqinisekile kuzozibuyisela izinkumbulo ezimnandi.
Umbono 5. Nikezane isikhashana nje emotweni
Uma nishayela ndawonye ngemoto lapho uya emsebenzini noma uyothenga, mbambatha umlingani wakho edolweni noma ubambe isandla somlingani wakhe. Ungakwazi futhi ukufaka i-CD yezingoma zomlando wakho owabelane ngawo ukuze ubuyise izinkumbulo ezimnandi.
Umbono 6. Hlukanisa umsebenzi wesikole phakathi kokubili
Khetha “umsebenzi wasekhaya” ongawenza nozakwenu. Isibonelo, phinda ilondolo noma ulayishe umshini wokugeza izitsha ndawonye. Futhi kule nqubo, ungadlala, ihlaya - lokhu kuzoba inketho enhle ye-microdate.
Umbono 7. Nikeza ukuthinta “okungahleliwe”
Njalo uma udlula umlingani wakho, zama ukumthinta. Kiss esiphongweni noma esihlathini, mbambatha emhlane, noma ugone uqinise. Ukuthinta okunjalo akunikezi nje umuzwa wokusondelana nokufudumala, kodwa futhi kwenza omunye umuntu ajabule ngempela. Phela, ngamunye wethu udinga ukuxhumana. Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi umuntu ovamile udinga ukwanga kasishiyagalombili ngosuku ukuze akhiqize ama-hormone adingekayo ukuze umuntu ajabule.
Umbono 8. Hambani nigeze ndawonye
Zama ukuhlangana endlini yangasese ukuze uthole i-microdate namhlanje kusihlwa. Geza ndawonye. I-microdate enjalo enomzamo omncane izonikeza umphumela omkhulu, ikunikeze ukusondelana, ivuselele uthando.
Ziningi izindlela zokuvuselela ubudlelwano. Amaqhinga anjalo abaluleke kakhulu emibhangqwaneni enezingane, lapho ingozi yokuthatha indima yabazali futhi ikhohlwe ngezindima zabalingani inkulu. Khumbula ukuthi eduze kwakho kukhona umuntu othandekayo kuwe, onjengawe, ofuna ukunakwa kwangempela nokufudumala. Lesi isinyathelo sokuqala nesibaluleke kakhulu esibheke enjabulweni ebudlelwaneni.