I-Psychology

Izingane zethu zikhula zodwa emvelweni. Noma bephuma ehlobo baye ezweni. Kubo, enye indawo yokuhlala ingokwemvelo - yenziwe umuntu. Indlela yokubasiza ukuba baqaphele umhlaba ozungezile, bazizwe bethintana namanzi, izitshalo, izinambuzane, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo bachithe isikhathi ndawonye nesithakazelo? Eminye imibono yempelasonto yehlobo.

Khumbula ukuthi wawubuka isikhathi esingakanani ubulembu ehlathini usemncane, uhogela iphunga lamacici kapopulari entwasahlobo noma wema kuvulandi we-dacha, ubuka ukuthi imvula ikhula kanjani, bese libohla imvula kuqhume amagwebu emachibini... Izingane zethu , abahlala endaweni ye-multimedia, bayanda ukubuka izenzakalo zemvelo efasiteleni lemonitha noma i-TV.

Kodwa inkinga iwukuthi abantu abadala ngokwabo ngokuvamile abazi ukuthi bangabasiza kanjani baxhumane nezwe langaphandle. Umlobi waseMelika, isazi sezinto eziphilayo nendawo yonke, isazi somphakathi uJennifer Ward weza nezinto ezingama-52 ezithokozisayo zabantu abadala nezingane ezineminyaka engu-3-9 ubudala, ezizosiza ukuzwa nokuqonda umhlaba wemvelo ephilayo nengaphili, futhi ithuthukise umcabango futhi ivuse ilukuluku. 5 ukuhlola okungalindelekile okuvela kule ncwadi.

1. Hlangana nemvula

Ubani owathi kumele uhlale ekhaya uma lina? Yima nengane yakho ngaphansi kwesambulela futhi ulalele imvula ishaya isigubhu kuso. Buka ukuthi amaconsi ageleza kanjani ezansi nesambulela futhi awe esuka kuso aye phansi. Lalela lo msindo. Uzizwa kanjani?

Bamba iconsi lemvula futhi ulivumele lisakazekele entendeni yesandla sakho. Ingabe icwile esikhumbeni sakho noma yaphuma? Vala amehlo akho ubeke ubuso bakho emvuleni. Kunjani? Landela umkhondo lapho imvula ibheke khona nokuthi iziphatha kanjani njengoba ifika ezindaweni ezihlukene. Ingabe akhona ama-puddles? Kuphi futhi ngani? Kukuphi lapho imvula ingazange ishiye khona umkhondo noma yacwila ebusweni bomhlaba? Futhi wabutha kuphi emifuleni?

Ingabe zikhona izilwane noma izinambuzane ngaphandle ezijabulela imvula? Uma kunjalo, ubani ombonayo futhi ubani ongambona? Ingabe uyayizwa imisindo yanoma yiziphi izilwane noma izinambuzane emvuleni? Uma imvula ilula futhi ilanga liphuma ngezikhathi ezithile, zama ukuthola uthingo.

Uma usuqedile ukujabulela imvula, ungakhohlwa ukoma uma ufika ekhaya.

2. Ukubuka izintuthwane

Kuzo zonke izinambuzane, izintuthwane yizo okulula ukuzibuka—zitholakala noma kuphi, kusukela emigwaqweni yomgwaqo kuya ezinkundleni zokudlala, kusukela otshanini obuncane kuya emasimini angapheli. Izinambuzane zinemilenze eyisithupha, kanti umzimba uhlukaniswe izingxenye ezintathu: ikhanda, ithorax nesisu. Khumbula ukuthi zonke izintuthwane ziyaluma futhi ukulunywa kwazo kubuhlungu! Ungazithinti izintuthwane zanoma yimuphi usayizi.

Zibuke isikhashana. Thola umzila wezintuthwane bese ulandela lapho ekuyisa khona. Izintuthwane zihamba ngeketango - yile ndlela ezibheka ngayo ukudla. Lapho intuthwane eyodwa ithola ukudla, ishiya umkhondo wephunga khona lapho ukuze ezinye izintuthwane eziseqenjini layo zazi lapho kufanele ziye khona. Uma uthola uxhaxha lwezintuthwane kusho ukuthi zaphuma ziyofuna ukudla kweqembu lazo.

Yenza isilingo esisodwa esithakazelisayo ukuze ubone ukuthi izintuthwane zixhumana kanjani zodwa ngenkathi zihamba zilandelana.

Qoqa amanye amagatsha namaqabunga bese uwabeka endingilizini eduze kwesiduli ukuze wakhe indawo evalekile. Ungalwenzi ucingo luphakame kakhulu, malube phansi futhi lube banzi. Thela ushukela kanye nemvuthuluka yekhukhi kumbuthano. Maduze, izintuthwane zizothola isipho sakho, futhi njengoba zisithatha, zizoshiya iphunga ukuze zibuyele endaweni efanayo kamuva ukuze zithole okunye ukudla. Ezinye izintuthwane ezivela kuqoqo elifanayo zizothola ngokushesha umkhondo futhi ziwulandele ukuze zifike emthonjeni wokudla.

Ngokushesha nje lapho uchungechunge lwezintuthwane kwakheka, susa ngokucophelela izinti. Buka ukuthi kwenzekani: izintuthwane zizodideka njengoba umkhondo unyamalala.

3. Ufuna imbewu

Entwasahlobo nasehlobo, izitshalo zinokuningi okumelwe zikwenze: zidinga ukukhula, ukuqhakaza, impova futhi, uma zinenhlanhla futhi impova yenzekile, nika imbewu. Imbewu ihamba ngezindlela eziningi ezahlukene, kusukela ekundizeni emoyeni kuya ekubambeleleni emsileni wengwejeje. Kwezinye imbewu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhambisa kude ngangokunokwenzeka "kumzali" wabo ukuze bathole isiqephu sabo sezwe. Ekupheleni kwentwasahlobo noma ihlobo yisikhathi esihle sokuyofuna imbewu.

Cela ingane yakho ukuthi ibeke i-mitten noma isokisi elidala eliklwebhayo esandleni sayo. Manje hamba uyoshaywa umoya. Lapho udlula ezindaweni ezinotshani, cela ingane ukuba igijime isandla sayo phezu kotshani. Ungathinta nezitshalo esezivele zabuna. Linga ngezimila ezihlukene. Ngokushesha uzoqaphela ukuthi abagibeli - imbewu - babambelele emkhiqizweni wewuli.

Ekhaya, uthele umhlabathi phakathi kwesokisi, uwubeke esosweni bese ubeka isoso efasiteleni elikhanyiswa ilanga. Thela amanzi kusokisi lakho futhi maduze nje uzothola ukuthi yini ezokhula kuyo!

Enye indlela yokusiza imbewu ukuthi iqhume ukusebenzisa ibhokisi lamaqanda e-Styrofoam noma ubisi olungenalutho noma isikhwama sejusi. Gcwalisa ibhokisi ngomhlaba, uqoqe imbewu, uyibeke endaweni ethile lapho kukhona ilanga eliningi futhi ubone ukuthi kwenzekani.

4. Sichitha ubusuku ngaphansi kwesibhakabhaka esivulekile!

Esikhathini esifudumele, unethuba elimangalisayo lokuchitha ubusuku nendodakazi yakho noma indodana yakho ngaphandle. Ngalesi sikhathi sosuku, kuvuleka umhlaba ohluke ngokuphelele lapho! Ngemva kokulala emini, izilwane zasebusuku ziyaphila. Izinkanyezi ziyakhanya. Inyanga ikhanyisa isibhakabhaka ngokuveza ukukhanya kwelanga.

Hlela i-sleepover yangaphandle nengane yakho. Misa itende emahlathini aseduze noma uchithe ubusuku ekotishi lakho lasehlobo. Uma lokhu kungenzeki, hamba uhambo olufushane lwasebusuku. Hlala uthule ulalele imisindo yasebusuku. Obani abawashicilelayo? Amaxoxo? Amakhilikithi? Ilulwane? Isikhova noma izikhova ezimbili? Noma bekuyisilwane esincane ebesicathama sifuna ukudla?

Xoxa ngawo wonke umsindo owuzwayo. Uyini umehluko phakathi kwemisindo yasebusuku evela ngaphandle uma usekhaya kanye nemisindo yasebusuku ekuzungezile ngaphandle? Zihluke kanjani emisindweni oyizwa ngesikhathi sohambo lwasemini? Yimiphi eminye imisindo ekhona ebusuku ngaphandle kwaleyo eyenziwa izilwane? Mhlawumbe umsindo womoya?

Hlala kahle ukuze ulale kahle ebusuku futhi uvumele imvelo ikuyelele ukuze ulale.

5. Ukufuna ukuphila eduze

Zonke izingane zithanda ukudlala abaseshi. Hamba emgwaqweni lapho imfihlakalo ihlala khona futhi umeme ingane yakho ukuba ilandele impilo yalabo abameleli bezwe lezilwane zasendle abaye bahlala eduze kakhulu.

Izilwane eziningi zihlala eduze kwabantu, kusukela kwezicabucabu ezincane kuya kwezinyamazane ezidla edlelweni, kuye ngokuthi uhlala kuphi. Udinga nje ukuthola imikhondo ezokutshela ngezilwane ezihlala eduze. Isikhathi sokuhlola!

Cela ingane yakho ibheke ubufakazi bokuphila kwesilwane, njengolwembu, iqabunga elihlafunwayo noma eligayiwe, uphaphe, isikhumba senyoka, noma umnyango womgodi. Nakuba singabona izimpawu zempilo yezilwane futhi singaziboni ngokwazo, cishe zisendaweni ethile eduze.

Igundane lingakwazi ukuhlala ku-mink, elala emini. Uma sibona igobolondo eliqhekekile, mhlawumbe inyoni noma ingwejeje eyayidla inathi futhi yazifaka ushevu ukuze ifune ukudla okusha. Ingabe ubona izitshalo zezimbali noma kuphi? Ngaphandle kwezinto ezithwala impova njengezinyosi, izimvemvane noma amalulwane, bezingeke zibe khona izimbali.

Yiziphi ezinye izimpawu ezibonisa ukuthi izinambuzane nezilwane, ezinkulu nezincane, zihlala eduze kwakho? Bheka ngokucophelela ngaphansi kwamadwala nezihlahla eziwile ukuze ubone ukuthi ubani ohlala ngaphansi kwawo. Lapho ubuyela ekhaya, futhi uhlole ngokucophelela konke. Ingabe bukhona ubufakazi bokuphila kwezilwane eduze kwekhaya lakho? Yini oyitholile? Yibani ngabaseshi futhi nithole ukuthi umhlaba usebenza kanjani okuzungezile.

Funda ngalokhu kanye neminye imisebenzi yangaphandle nezingane encwadini ka-Jennifer Ward ethi The Little Explorer. 52 imisebenzi yangaphandle ethokozisayo. Umshicileli we-Alpina, 2016.

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