Okuqukethwe
Iholide ehlelwe ngaphambilini iba umgomo. Sibala izinsuku, siphuphe futhi silindele. Siphupha ngezintaba, ulwandle, amadolobha amasha, izigigaba… Yeka amahloni lapho, ngaphambi kokuba siqale, iholide lethu liphazanyiswa ukugula.
Ngokuvamile, lapho siya eholidini, ngokuzumayo siqala ukuba nomkhuhlane, “ukubamba” ubuthi noma esinye isifo esingaziwa. Enye indlela: sithola ukulimala okuhlukene, ngisho noma singakhulumi ngokuzijabulisa okusebenzayo. Nginomngane oletha ekhaya izibazi ezintsha sha kuwo wonke amaholide, futhi wake wabuya nokuphuka. Kungani lokhu kwenzeka? Kungani, esikhundleni sokuphumula nokukhululeka ngomoya ophansi, sikhubazekile futhi sigule?
1. Ingabe leli iholidi?
Umbono wokuqala oyiphutha owokuthi uhambo lokuya kwelinye izwe luyiholide. Ezingeni lokuqaphela, mhlawumbe ucabanga kanjalo, kodwa ngomzimba lokhu ukucindezeleka. Indiza, ukuguquka kwesimo sezulu, imvelo, ngezinye izikhathi izindawo zesikhathi, ukudla okunomsoco, uhlobo lwemithi - konke lokhu akulona iholide. Ezomphakathi nezengqondo zibekwe phezulu emsebenzini womzimba - abanye abantu, isiko elihlukile, ulimi, umkhathi, imithetho nezinkambiso.
Umphumela uba isethi yemithwalo yokucindezeleka. Kuvela ukuthi sinikeza izimpawu zomzimba eziphikisana neqiniso. Sithi: “Manje kuzoba kuhle! Ake siphumule ekugcineni! Sawubona!» Futhi umzimba wethu kanye nokungazi lutho kuzwa konke ngendlela ehlukile: “Hlobo luni lokuphumula? Ukhuluma ngani? Ngicindezelekile, futhi ungitshela ukuthi konke kuhamba kahle. Yebo, nginamandla amancane kunalawo enganginawo!
Uma singazizwa, umzimba wethu ulungele ukuzola, usimise futhi udlulise ulwazi oludingekayo nganoma iyiphi indlela, kuze kufike ekuhlanganiseni ukunyakaza okungalungile, ukushelela, ukuwa, ukushaya noma ukungangeni kunoma yiliphi ikhona.
2. Kwenze ngezinsuku eziyi-10
Ukuzijwayeza okuvamile kudinga ubuncane bezinsuku eziyi-14. Futhi lesi yisikhathi kuphela sokujwayela ngokugcwele, lapho umzimba usulungele ukufinyelela endaweni eyithafa yokuphumula. Akumangalisi ukuthi ukwelashwa kwe-spa kuthatha izinsuku ezingama-21. Ezimweni zethu ezingokoqobo, iholidi alivamile ukuthatha isikhathi esingaphezu kwamasonto amabili. Kwesinye isikhathi izinsuku eziyi-10, isonto, noma izinsuku ezi-5. Lesi sikhathi akwanele nje ukuphumula, kodwa ngisho nokubuyisela nje.
3. Konke noma lutho!
Ukulala kahle kungabizwa ngokufanelekile ngokuthi ukuphumula - ngesikhathi sokulala okujulile, izinguquko ze-metaphysics, izinqubo emzimbeni zihamba kancane, kungena ukuphumula kwangempela. Kodwa ngamaholide, abaningi balala kabi kunasekhaya. Ushintsho endaweni evamile, ubunzima ekulawuleni okubuthakathaka, isifiso sokuthatha uhambo oluningi futhi ube nesikhathi sokubona konke okungenzeka, ukuphazamisa ubuthongo.
Futhi yimiphi imithwalo esiyinika umzimba? Vuka ngo-5 ekuseni ukuze uphuthume ohambweni olude nolukude, ngesikhathi sesidlo sasemini zama ukuzama inani eliphezulu lezitsha ezivela ku-buffet, unambitha yonke ibha encane futhi uvakashele izindawo ezithakazelisa kakhulu edolobheni lokungcebeleka, ezophela ebusuku kakhulu. Akumangalisi ukuthi ngemva "kokuphumula" okunjalo kuyadingeka futhi, kakade ekhaya, ukuze kubuyiselwe amandla. Amaholide abaluleke kakhulu. Njengasekhasino - bheja yonke into bese ulahlekelwa! Lokhu kwenzeka ngoba…
4. Asikwazi ukuphumula ngoba asikwazi ukusebenza.
Manje, ngokuqinisekile, othile uzofuna ukuphikisana nami futhi aphikisane ngokuvumelana nokusebenza kwabo kanzima. "Sisebenza usuku lonke, kwesinye isikhathi siza ehhovisi (noma kwenye indawo) ngaphambi kwesikhathi ebesilindelwe bese sihamba ngokuhamba kwesikhathi." Inkinga ke leyo. Uhlelo olunjalo aluyona inkomba yekhono lokusebenza. Sisebenza ngokweqile kangangokuthi eholidini, esikhundleni sokuphumula, ukuvuselela kuqala.
Uma ufunda ukuzinakekela futhi uzithande njalo futhi yonke indawo, ukusabalalisa ngokuhlelekile umthwalo usuku lonke, isonto, unyaka, khona-ke ngeke kube khona ukuphazamiseka okubukhali eholidini. Yebo, akukhona njalo kithi. Kunezimo, abaphathi, amaklayenti adinga ukubala okuphelele nsuku zonke. Ngokuvamile, umsebenzi ungase ungathandwa, kodwa lapho ukuya khona.
Kulesi simo, konke kufanele kunxeshezelwe ngokuzilibazisa kwakho okuthandayo, imihlangano ejabulisayo, ukudla okumnandi, ubulili obuhle, ukulala okuhle nokuphumula okuvamile. Khona-ke ibhalansi izoshaywa. Kulokhu, uhambo olude olulindelwe lungahlanganiswa ohlelweni lwakho njengoshintsho lomsebenzi kanye nemvelo, futhi hhayi njengesikhathi kuphela onyakeni lapho ungaphuma khona futhi uqiniseke ukuthi wenza konke. Ngale ndlela, umzimba akudingeki "usicasule" ngobuthakathaka, ukugula noma ukuhlukumezeka. Futhi sizokwazi ukuthola inzuzo eyengeziwe kanye nenjabulo eholidini.