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Lokhu Okthoba 13, 13 iminyaka ngemva kwendodakazi… ndodana yami!
Abanye bathi inombolo 13 iletha amashwa. Ku-Jean-François, kufana nenjabulo. Eminyakeni eyishumi nantathu ngemva kokuzalwa kwendodakazi yakhe uChloé, ngo-Okthoba 13, wamukela i-Sorel encane. Ubaba osemncane ubuyela kulokhu kuhlangana okumangalisayo ...
Uma u-Alexandre Dumas ebhala "Eminyakeni engamashumi amabili kamuva", lapha ngethulwa ekubhalweni kweminyaka eyishumi nantathu kamuva ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezedlule. Lokhu October 13, 13 iminyaka ngemva kwentombazanyana kuzalwa ... Okthoba 13, indodana yami yazalwa.
Indodana yethu, ngoba lezi zinto, ake sizwe izingane, azivamile ukwenziwa yedwa, okuphambene nalokho umuntu ayekwazi ukucula ngesikhathi esacula. Ingozi ehlekisayo kodwa ekugcineni enhle kakhulu lapho wonke umuntu ezobona ngaso leso sikhathi uhlangothi olusebenzayo: kunengozi encane yokukhohlwa izinsuku zalokhu. Lokhu ngokusobala kuvumelekile kubazali, noma ngabe sisola ukuthi, naphezu kwesimo sezulu, bazokwazi ukusikhumbula, kodwa futhi kuyiqiniso kakhulu emndenini, ekhweni, abangani kanye nabajwayelene nabo, bezungeza le microcosm entsha yomndeni ku. jikelele kanye nalokhu kufika okusha emhlabeni ikakhulukazi.
Ukukhalipha okuhle akunakulibaleka
Umbuzo wonke umuntu azibuza wona ngokufunda le migqa yokuqala yilo olandelayo. Cha akunjalo "ingabe kukhona akuthatha ngaphambi kokubhala?" », Kodwa okuningi«ukunakekela ingane kufana nokwazi ukugibela ibhayisikili? Awukwazi ukukhohlwa? “. Kumelwe kuvunywe ukuthi iminyaka engu-13, angizange ngibe nethuba lokushintsha amanabukeni amaningi nokuthi nakanjani kuzodingeka ngifake izandla zami kugrisi futhi mhlawumbe kancane kwenye into ...
JF, ubaba omncane ngo-2010
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini, ukuzalwa ngakunye kuyisenzakalo esiyingqayizivele. Uhlukile maqondana nomongo, indaba yomuntu siqu, imizwa… Ubaba wanamuhla akuyena ngempela owaneminyaka engu-13 edlule ongazange alokothe aphathe ingane ngoba esaba ukumephula. Umuntu angacabanga ukubona ngeso lengqondo isigameko uGaston Lagaff edidekile phambi kwenkomishi nebhola lakhe.
Kusukela manje kuqhubeke, kunokuzethemba okwengeziwe ezenzweni, ukukhathazeka kuyancipha uma ubhekene nokukhala, ukukhala, ukuthinta okuncane okuthukile ngisho nemibono exubile mayelana nemiyalelo yokusetshenziswa koMntwana nomama ohlala ingxenye yesipiliyoni sakhe sokuqala. Akukho mbuzo wokunikeza iseluleko noma, okubi nakakhulu, izifundo. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, kufanele wenze njengoba uzizwa, kuyiqiniso, isipiliyoni sokuthuthukisa izimo ezithile kuphela. Akuwona umbuzo wokukhiqiza kabusha isimo esidlule kodwa ukuphila okusha ngokugcwele.
Yebo ngiyakwazi !
Ngakho yebo, isipiliyoni siwusizo, kodwa njengoba wonke umuntu enza kahle, enongwe noma cha, siyabona futhi ukuthi akudingekile. Kuyindida. Ingabe lokhu kuqiniseka okusha okuzuziwe ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuzokwenza kube nokwenzeka ukuphila ngokujulile nakakhulu ezigabeni zokuqala? Lokhu ngisho noma i-diaper ishintsha noma ukugeza kokuqala okuchithwe ngokuthuthumela okugcwele nakho akuntuli ngamandla kurejista yomzwelo.
Umbono kaJean-François ngobubaba bakhe
Ngemva kweminyaka engu-13 yokucabanga ngale ndaba, ngokuba ubaba, ukubuka ngokuziqhenya kwangempela indodakazi yami ikhula futhi ngaleyo ndlela ithole, ngenxa yayo, kulokho eba khona, lokhu ukuzethemba okusha, ukubukeka kuyashintsha. Ukuhamba kwesikhathi kudala i-prism entsha lapho kubhekwa khona ukuba ubaba.
Ngakho-ke lobu bubaba buzothakazelelwa ngendlela ehlukile, ngemva kweminyaka eyi-13. Kodwa ingane ehlobene nayo injalo. Akukho okungcono, akukho okubi kakhulu, okuhlukile nje, kumnandi phakade, usuku nosuku uze ubale unyaka nonyaka. Ngoba ekugcineni siyabona ukuthi sikhumbula izikhathi ezinhle kuphela ezivela kubaba bethu. Uma bekufanele sikhumbule njengoba sabe sesibhekana nobusuku bokuqala bokungalali, ukuphalaza embhedeni ngo-2 ekuseni okufanele kuhlanzwe, isimo samanabukeni ngesikhathi lapho amazinyo ekhula ... emuva”.
Izinkumbulo…
Kodwa-ke, uma ubheka ngemuva kwakho, uyabona ukuthi izikhathi ezimbi zalezi zikhathi ezintsha zokuba ubaba ekugcineni ziyizinkumbulo ezinhle. Noma kunjalo: cha kwakungemnandi ukuhamba amahora nengane ukuze igcine izumekile, cha, kwakungemnandi ukushayela uzungeze iParis ukuze athande ukuba khona. thula, cha akungenzanga ukuthi ngimemeze ngokuhleka (yize) lapho indodakazi yami ipenda kabusha izindonga zekamelo ngamapeni azwakalayo… futhi nokho.
Naphezu kwakho konke, siqala futhi. Ngesiqiniseko ekugcineni ukuthi kuzoba kuhle nje. Ngemuva kweminyaka eyi-13, lezi zinkumbulo zihlala ziqinile futhi siphelelwa yisineke sokwakha ezintsha, ukudala izimo ezizovumela lezi zithombe ukuthi zigcinwe isikhathi eside, okuthi okwesikhashana zisisuse ebuncaneni bezithombe. umhlaba kanye nabanye.
Ngokusobala, uma kulesi sikhathi singakwazi ukuthatha inketho “Ngihlobisa kabusha igumbi likaPapa-Mama ngezimpawu ezinkulu zomaka”, okungase futhi kube kuhle kakhulu!