Amandla angamandla ethu okuphila, esiwadingayo ukuze siphile impilo eguquguqukayo, egcwele nejabulisayo. Kodwa abaningi bethu babonakala bengaphili ekupheleni (noma ekuqaleni) kosuku. Imithi ye-Psychosomatic ibonise ukuxhumana okuqinile phakathi kwengqondo nomzimba, okusho ukuthi amandla amancane esinawo, sivame ukugula, ukucindezeleka nokukhathazeka.
Kunabantu empilweni abajwayele ukumunca amandla ngokushesha okukhulu. Futhi uma ungumuntu ozwelayo noma ozwelayo, uzoba nomuzwa onamandla kakhulu wokuthi ubani oncela amandla akho nokuthi nini. Ngenkathi abanye abantu bethi ama-vampires amandla abantu abangakwazi ukugcina amandla abo empilo enempilo bebodwa, abanye bakholelwa ukuthi ama-vampires amandla anezisusa ezinhle futhi ajwayelekile, kodwa abantu ababusayo. Ezimweni eziningi, ama-vampires amandla awazi ngisho nezenzo zawo.
Indlela yokubona i-vampire yamandla
Uhlangabezana nalezi zimpawu ezilandelayo:
Ubuthakathaka Izinhlungu zomzimba (ikhanda, ukuqaqamba komzimba, njll.) Ukukhathala ngokwengqondo nangokomzimba Ukucasuka noma ukukhathazeka.
I-energy vampire, yona, ingabonisa izici eziningi ezilandelayo:
I-ego enkulu, ithanda ukuphikisana Ukuthambekela okunolaka noma kokungenzi lutho-nolaka I-Paranoia Ukuveza ukucasuka nentukuthelo I-Narcissism Ukuziphatha okunomsindo Ukukhononda nokukhononda Inhlebo Isidingo esihlala njalo sokuqinisekiswa nokwamukelwa Ukukhohlisa, ukuhlukumeza ngokomzwelo, njll. Umona
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ama-vampires amandla awawona ngaso sonke isikhathi abantu. Kungaba futhi izimo ngisho nezinto ezibonakalayo njenge-inthanethi, i-TV, umsakazo, ucingo, ezinye izilwane.
Into enzima kakhulu yilapho ama-vampires amandla engena kumbuthano womndeni wakho noma abangani. Ngakho-ke, singakumisa kanjani ukugeleza kwamandla kithi uma sixhumana nomuntu owukhipha ngenkuthalo?
Misa ukubheka amehlo isikhathi eside
Ingenye yamasinki amakhulu kakhulu wamandla. Uma unaka kakhulu, uhlanganyela kakhulu engxoxweni futhi awuboni nokuthi ungenalutho kangakanani. Kulokhu, ukuxhumana kwamehlo ngezikhathi ezithile kuyadingeka.
Setha umkhawulo wesikhathi
Isikhathi sakho naso siyigugu, futhi awudingi ukulinda amahora angu-1-2 kuze kube yilapho amandla akho ephela ngokuphelele futhi ubuchopho bakho buba ndikindiki. Ngokwezinga lakho lamandla, beka umkhawulo wemizuzu emi-5, eyi-10, eyi-15, engama-20.
Funda ukungasabeli
Kubaluleke kakhulu. Ama-vampire wamandla adla ukusabela kwabanye, okukuphoqa ukuthi uqhubeke ubonisa. Kubalulekile ukuthi ufunde ukungathathi hlangothi ekusebenzelaneni kwakho nabanye abantu. Udinga ukuqapha ngokucophelela ukubonakaliswa kwemizwelo emihle noma engemihle ngokweqile.
Funda ukungaxabani
Yebo, kuyalinga, kodwa ekugcineni awukwazi ukuguqula abanye abantu ngaphandle kokuthi baziguqule bona kuqala - uma ubamela kakhulu, bayokuqeda amandla.
Khuluma naye enkampanini yabanye abantu
Ukusondela ku-vampire yamandla nomuntu oyedwa, ababili, noma abathathu kuzosiza ukunciphisa umzamo futhi kuphazamise ukunaka. Ukuze lokhu kusebenze, udinga ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi laba bantu abawona futhi ama-vampire wamandla.
Lalela kakhulu kunokukhuluma
Ngokuvamile, ama-vampires afuna nje ukulalela. Lapho ukhuluma kakhulu, ulahlekelwa amandla engeziwe (ikakhulukazi uma ungumuntu ongenalwazi). Ukusebenzisa amagama anjengokuthi “kungani”, “nini”, nelithi “kanjani” kukhuthaza ama-vampires ukuthi akhulume kakhulu, okuzogcina amandla akho. Vele uzame ukuthi ungalaleli yonke into ngokuphelele, ungayithathi mathupha futhi, futhi, ungabonisi imizwelo.
Zama ukunamathela ezihlokweni ezilula
Izingxoxo zakho akumele zicindezele. Uma kunesidingo, lawula ingxoxo futhi uguqule isihloko sengxoxo sibe into elula futhi elula.
Buka ngeso lengqondo
Abantu abaningi bathi ukubona ngeso lengqondo izivikelo zamandla avikelayo kusiza ukususa ukukhathala kwengqondo nokugcina isimo sokungathathi hlangothi nesizolile. Vele uzame.
Gwema Ama-Energy Vampires Uma Kungenzeka
Akwenzeki njalo, kodwa kuyindlela elula yokuzisiza. Kodwa-ke, uma uhlangana kancane ne-vampire yamandla, amathuba amancane okuba nawo okuthuthukisa nokusebenzisa amakhono okuphila awusizo nadingekayo.
Sika othintana naye
Lesi yisinyathelo sokugcina nesokugcina. Kwesinye isikhathi, ngempilo yakho nenjabulo yakho, udinga ukwenza izinqumo ezinzima ngendawo okuyo. Ekugcineni, uma uqhubeka nokuhlupheka, inketho engcono kakhulu ukuyeka ukuxhumana nalo muntu.