Le ntombazane, odokotela abayithembisa eneminyaka engu-13 ukuthi ngeke ize ibe nezingane, yakwazi ukuba ngumama wamawele. Kuyiqiniso, azifani naye ngokofuzo.
Ukunqamuka kokuya esikhathini - leli gama lihlotshaniswa neminyaka "ethile endaweni engaphezu kwengu-50". Indawo yokugcina ama-ovari iyaphela, umsebenzi wokuzala uyaphela, bese kuqala inkathi entsha empilweni yowesifazane. Ku-Amanda Hill, le nkathi yaqala lapho eneminyaka engu-11 kuphela.
U-Amanda nomyeni wakhe uTom.
“Isikhathi sami sokuqala saqala ngineminyaka engu-10 kwathi lapho ngineminyaka engu-11, saphela ngokuphelele. Lapho ngineminyaka engu-13, kwatholakala ukuthi nginesifo sokukhulelwa esibelethweni ngaphambi kwesikhathi futhi ngangihluleka ukusebenza futhi ngatshelwa ukuthi angisoze ngaba nezingane, ”kusho u-Amanda.
Kubukeka sengathi kuneminyaka eyi-13 futhi akukho lutho olungaqina - ngubani ngaleso sikhathi ocabanga ngezingane? Kodwa kusukela ebuntwaneni, u-Amanda wayefisa ngomndeni omkhulu. Ngakho-ke, ngacindezeleka kakhulu, lapho ngangingakwazi ukuphuma khona eminye iminyaka emithathu.
“Eminyakeni edlule, ngaqala ukubona ukuthi ukukhulelwa ngokwemvelo akuyona ukuphela kwendlela yokuba ngumama. Ngibe nethemba, ”kuqhuba intombazane.
U-Amanda wanquma nge-IVF. Umyeni wakhe wameseka ngokuphelele kulokhu, wayefuna nokukhulisa izingane ngokufanayo nonkosikazi wakhe. Ngezizathu ezisobala, le ntombazane yayingenawo amaqanda ayo, ngakho-ke kwakudingeka ukuthi ithole umnikeli. Bathole inketho efanelekile ohlwini lwabanikeli abangaziwa: “Bengibheka lencazelo, bengifuna ukuthola umuntu ofana nami, okungenani ngamagama. Ngithole intombazane ubude bami ngamehlo anombala ofanayo nowami. "
Sekukonke, u-Amanda nomyeni wakhe basebenzise cishe ama-ruble ayizigidi eziyi-1,5 ku-IVF - cishe amakhilogremu ayizinkulungwane eziyi-15. Ukwelashwa kweHormone, ukufakelwa kokufakelwa, ukufakelwa - konke kwahamba kahle. Ngesikhathi esifanele, lo mbhangqwana waba nendodana. Umfana waqanjwa ngokuthi u-Orin.
“Ngangesaba ukuthi angizukuxhumana naye ngokomzwelo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ufuzo asizwani komunye nomunye. Kodwa konke ukungabaza kwaphela lapho ngibona izici zikaTom, umyeni wami ebusweni buka-Orin, ”kusho umama osemncane. Ngokusho kwakhe, waze waqhathanisa izithombe zikaTom zobuntwana no-Orin futhi wathola okufanayo kakhulu. “Bayafana nje!” - intombazane iyamamatheka.
Eminyakeni emibili ngemuva kokuzalwa kuka-Orina, u-Amanda wanquma ngomzuliswano wesibili we-IVF, ikakhulukazi njengoba kwakusenombungu osele okokugcina. Uyachaza: “Ngangifuna u-Orin abe nomfowethu noma udadewabo omncane ukuze angazizwa enesizungu. Futhi konke kwasebenza: Iwele lika-Orin, uTylen, wazalwa.
“Kuyaxaka ukuthi bangamawele, kodwa uTylen wachitha iminyaka emibili efrijini. Kepha manje sihlangene futhi sijabule kakhulu, - wengeza u-Amanda. “U-Orin usemncane kakhulu ukuthi angazi ukuthi yena noTylen bangamawele. Kepha uvele athande umfowabo omncane. "