Ukuzala ngisho nengane eyodwa kuyawushintsha unomphela umzimba womuntu wesifazane. Futhi uma kuwukukhulelwa okuningi, izinguquko zibonakala nakakhulu.
UNatalie, 30, unezingane ezinhlanu. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, wayekhulelwe kabili kuphela - okokuqala wabeletha indodakazi, u-Kiki, futhi ngokushesha wazala abane. Indlela eya ekubeni ngumama yayingelula entombazaneni, yanikezwa esinye sezifo ezinzima kakhulu: ukungazali okungaqondakali. Kwadingeka ngikhuthaze ukuvuthwa kweqanda, ngijove ama-hormone ukuze uNatalie akhulelwe. Kodwa akakhonondi, ujabulela ukuthi unomndeni omuhle kangaka.
U-Natalie ubelokhu engumsubathi kakhulu: wenza i-crossfit, i-powerlifting, i-yoga. Ngaze ngafundisa neyoga. Alukho usuku olulodwa ngaphandle kokuzivocavoca umzimba, ukuqeqeshwa, ukuzivocavoca. Akumangalisi ukuthi wayekwazi njalo ukuziqhayisa ngomfanekiso omuhle kakhulu, omncane futhi ofanelekile. Ngisho nangesikhathi sokukhulelwa akazange afiphaze, naphezu kokwelashwa kwe-hormonal kanye neqiniso lokuthi wayethwele ezine. Ukuzalwa kokuqala emfanekisweni wakhe cishe akuzange kuboniswe nganoma iyiphi indlela. Yebo, isisu asizange siqinise ngokushesha, kodwa ngemuva kwakho konke, akuwona wonke umuntu ongaba abesifazane abakhulu njengo-Emily Ratajkowski. Kodwa ukukhulelwa kwesibili, imibungu eminingi, kwashintsha umzimba wakhe ngokuphawulekayo.
“Uma ngigqoke izikhindi noma ama-leggings anokhalo, awuboni lutho. Kodwa kufanelekile ukukhumula i-bikini noma ukwehlisa ibhande, futhi konke kuyacaca: isisu sami sangemva kokubeletha asizange siye ndawo, "u-Natalie usayine izithombe ezithathwe ngezikhathi ezithile imizuzwana embalwa. Kokunye mncane futhi ufanelekile, kwesinye isisu sakhe silenga phezu kwesikhindi nephinifa elixegayo.
“Lona wumshikashika wami wansuku zonke. Ngizama ukuzithanda ngendlela engiyikho, ngingavumeli lezi zikhumba zicekele phansi impilo yami,” usho kanje. Ukuphela kwendlela yokukhipha isisu iwukuba uphakamise, abdominoplasty. “Angifuni ukukukhokhela lokhu,” kusho uNatalie. - Ngacabanga ngakho kakhulu, yebo. Ngifuna ukubuyisela umzimba wami wokubeletha. Kodwa angifuni ukungena ngaphansi kommese kadokotela ohlinzayo. “
Ngokusho kukaNatalie, into eyinhloko kuye akuwona usayizi okhalweni hhayi isisu esiphelele. Okuyinhloko ukuthi wakwazi ukubekezela futhi wazala izingane ezinhlanu. Neqiniso lokuthi umyeni wakhe uyamthanda, naphezu kokungapheleli kwakhe ngokomzimba.
“Ngiyabonga ngalokhu kwethembeka,” babhalela umama osemusha emibhalweni. - Uyakhuthaza kakhulu! Umuhle kakhulu futhi kufanele nje uziqhenye ngawe nomndeni wakho. “
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