UBeata wayezifuna ngempela izingane. Kodwa akakwazanga ukukhulelwa. Eminyakeni eyisishiyagalombili yomshado, wazama cishe zonke izindlela zokwelapha. Kodwa-ke, ukuxilongwa kwe "polycystic ovarian disease on the background of overweight" (ngaphezu kwamakhilogremu angu-107) kwazwakala njengomusho kowesifazane osemusha.
UBeata nomyeni wakhe, uPavel oneminyaka engu-40 ubudala, babenenketho eyodwa eyengeziwe: i-in vitro fertilization, i-IVF. Yiqiniso, odokotela babeka umbandela: ukunciphisa umzimba.
"Nganginogqozi olukhulu," uBeata kamuva etshela abaseBrithani .
Izinyanga eziyisithupha, u-Beata wehla ngaphezu kwamakhilogremu angu-30 futhi waphinde waya kuchwepheshe wokuzala. Kulokhu wagunyazwa ukuba enze inqubo. Inqubo yokuvundisa yaba yimpumelelo. Lona wesifazane wabuyiselwa ekhaya, waxwayiswa ukuthi emasontweni amabili kufanele enze ukuhlolwa kokukhulelwa.
UBeata wayeselinde iminyaka. Lezi zinsuku ezingu-14 ezengeziwe zazibonakala ziyingunaphakade kuye. Ngakho wenza ukuhlolwa ngosuku lwesishiyagalolunye. Imivimbo emibili! UBeata uthenge ezinye izivivinyo ezinhlanu, zonke ezazithi unalo. Ngaleso sikhathi, umama owayekhulelwe wayengakasoli ukuthi wayelindelwe yini.
“Lapho sifika ku-ultrasound yokuqala, udokotela waxwayisa ngokuthi ngesikhathi esifushane kangako angase angaboni lutho,” kukhumbula uBeata. – Kodwa wabe eseshintsha ebusweni futhi wamema umyeni wami ukuba ahlale phansi. Kwakukhona kathathu! “
Kodwa-ke, lokhu akumangalisi kakhulu: ukukhulelwa okuningi ngesikhathi se-IVF kuvamile. Kodwa kuBeata otshaliwe kwamila umbungu owodwa kuphela. Futhi amawele akhulelwa ngokwemvelo! Ngaphezu kwalokho, ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ngaphambi "kokutshalwa kabusha" kwengane kusuka ku-tube yokuhlola.
“Cishe sephule izimfuneko zodokotela kancane,” umama osemusha unamahloni kancane. – Bathe ezinsukwini ezine ngaphambi kokuqoqa amaqanda ukuze bangahlanganyeli ocansini. Futhi yilokho okwenzekile. “
I-Reproductologists ibiza umphumela hhayi nje emangalisayo, kodwa iyingqayizivele. Yebo, kwakukhona izimo lapho abesifazane beqala ukulungiselela i-IVF, bese bethola ukuthi bakhulelwe. Kodwa lokho kwakungaphambi kokudluliselwa kombungu. Ngakho-ke abazali banquma ukuphazamisa umjikelezo we-IVF futhi babekezelele ukukhulelwa okungokwemvelo. Kodwa lokho ngesikhathi esifanayo, bese-ke - izimangaliso nje.
Ukukhulelwa kwakuqhubeka kahle. U-Beata ukwazile ukuthwala izingane ezifika emavikini angu-34 ubudala - lokhu kuyinkomba enhle kakhulu yamawele amathathu. Umntwana u-Amelia, ngokusemthethweni omncane, kanye namawele uMatilda no-Boris bazalwa ngoDisemba 13.
“Angikholwa namanje ukuthi ngemva kweminyaka eminingi kangaka yemizamo engaphumeleli manje nginezingane ezintathu,” emamatheka owesifazane. - Kubandakanya labo abakhulelwe ngokwemvelo. Ngibapha ukudla cishe njalo ngemva kwamahora amathathu, ngihamba nabo nsuku zonke. Ngangingazi ukuthi kwakunjani ukuba umama wezingane ezintathu ngesikhathi esisodwa. Kodwa ngijabule ngokuphelele. “