Ukuhleka kuwuphawu lomhlaba wonke oluqondakalayo kubantu bamazwe ahlukene, amasiko kanye nezigaba zomphakathi. Iyashintsha kuye ngokuthi sixhumana nobani njengamanje. Ngakho-ke, singakwazi cishe ngokungangabazeki, kuphela ngokuzwakala kwezwi, ukunquma ubuhlobo phakathi kwabantu abahlekayo, ngisho noma sibabona okokuqala.
Kuvele ukuthi umngane akaziwa kuphela enkingeni, kodwa nalapho sincokola naye. Futhi abaningi bethu bangabona ngokunembile ukuthi abantu ababili bazana kahle ngokubalalela behleka.
Ukubona ukuthi ukuhleka kwehlukile yini phakathi kwabangane nabantu ongabazi nokuthi lo mehluko uqondwa kanjani abantu bakwamanye amazwe namasiko, iqembu lamazwe ngamazwe lezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo lenze ucwaningo olukhulu.1. Abafundi babemenywa ukuba baxoxe ngezihloko ezihlukahlukene, futhi zonke izingxoxo zabo zaziqoshwa. Abanye abantu abasha babengabangane abakhulu, kuyilapho abanye beqala ukubonana. Abacwaningi babe sebesika izingcezu zokuqoshwa komsindo lapho labo ababekhuluma nabo behleka kanyekanye.
Ngabangane, sihleka ngokuzenzekelayo futhi ngokuzenzakalelayo, ngaphandle kokulawula noma ukucindezela izwi lethu.
Lezi zingcezu zalalelwa izakhamuzi ezingu-966 zamazwe angu-24 emazwenikazi amahlanu ahlukene. Kwakumele banqume ukuthi laba abahlekayo bayazana yini futhi basondelene kangakanani.
Ngaphandle kokwehluka kwamasiko, ngokwesilinganiso, bonke abaphendula banqume ngendlela efanele ukuthi abantu abahlekayo bayazana yini (amaphesenti angama-61 wamacala). Ngesikhathi esifanayo, izintombi zesifazane kwakulula kakhulu ukuzibona (zaziqagelwa ku-80% wamacala).
“Lapho sikhuluma nabangane, ukuhleka kwethu kuzwakala ngendlela ekhethekile, - kusho omunye wababhali balolu cwaningo, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esisebenza ngengqondo eNyuvesi yaseCalifornia (USA) uGrek Brant (Greg Bryant). - Ngamunye «chuckle» uhlala kancane, i-timbre kanye umthamo wezwi futhi ihluke evamile - bayanda. Lezi zici zitholakala emhlabeni wonke - phela, ukunemba kokuqagela emazweni ahlukene akuzange kuhluke kakhulu. Kuvele ukuthi nabangane sihleka ngokuzenzekelayo futhi ngokuzenzakalelayo, ngaphandle kokulawula noma ukucindezela izwi lethu.
Ikhono lokunquma isimo sobudlelwano ngezimpawu ezifana nokuhleka liye lavela phakathi nokuvela kwethu. Ikhono, ngezimpawu ezingaqondile, lokunquma ngokushesha ubudlelwano phakathi kwabantu esingabazi lingaba usizo ezimweni ezihlukahlukene zomphakathi.
1 G. Bryant et al. "Ukuthola ubudlelwano emiphakathini engama-24", Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 2016, vol. 113, №17.