😉 Ukubingelela kubafundi abavamile nabasha! Madoda akusiyo imfihlo ukuthi imishado eminingi iyachitheka. Umfazi ohlakaniphile kuphela okwazi ukugcina umkhaya kanye nokusha kwemizwa yomyeni wakhe iminyaka eminingi. Le mfihlo itholakala ekhonweni lenkosikazi lokucabangela. Wonke umuntu wesilisa ukulungele ukuvuma ukuthi angathanda ukubona owesifazane onjalo eduze kwakhe.
Noma iyiphi intombazane ingaba nokuhlakanipha, udinga nje ukuthola ukuthi uyini lo mqondo.
Iseluleko sowesifazane ohlakaniphile
Umfazi ohlakaniphile - akukho lutho oluyinkimbinkimbi kule ncazelo. Isimo sezulu endlini kanye nesimo somyeni sincike kuso. Amathuluzi akhe ayinhloko yilawa: uthando, ubuqotho, ukuqonda nokubekezela.
Owesifazane ohlakaniphile akalokothi amemeze noma amahlazo. Izintokazi ezinemizwa kakhulu ziyethusa amadoda, zifuna ukubabalekela. Umngane womshado udinga ukuzola, ukuxazulula zonke izinkinga ngaphandle kokuphakamisa izwi. Udinga ukutshela umyeni wakho, uma kungazelelwe okuthile okungahambisani nawe, futhi unikeze izinketho zokuxazulula izinkinga.
Intombazane kumele ihloniphe indoda emkhethile ukuthi aphile nayo. Ungamthuki, ungamehlisi. Ungamgxeki phambi kwabantu. Inhlonipho ibonakala ngokwamukela izithakazelo, imibono, izinto zokuzilibazisa. Kumelwe senze kanjalo ukuze azizwe engumvikeli, umondli. Amadoda ayakwazisa ukunconywa nokusekelwa ezinqumweni zawo.
Uma owesifazane efuna ukwenza isinqumo esincike endodeni, umuntu kufanele akwazi ukumsikisela ngakho ukuze ezwe ukuthi usenezwi lokugcina. Kubalulekile ukukwenza ngobuqili, ngaphandle kokuphoqelela noma ukuphoqa.
Udinga ukunakekela ukubukeka kwakho, ngoba amadoda athanda kakhulu ngamehlo abo.
Udinga ukunakekela umyeni wakho. Ungazivumeli ukuthi unamathele noma ujwayele. Ngokuvamile, imizwa enjalo ibhubhisa ubuntu kanye nengqondo yowesifazane. Umlingani ohlakaniphile ngeke ahlale eqapha futhi agcine umyeni wakhe eduze kwesiketi sakhe. Kufanele sinikeze indoda inkululeko, futhi izokwazisa.
Ukuthethelela kungenye yezimpawu zokuhlakanipha. Owesifazane ohlakaniphile ubona izimfanelo ezinhle kubantu, uletha ubuhle emhlabeni, ufundisa lokhu kwabanye, ebeka isibonelo. Uyaqonda ukuthi bonke abantu abaphelele futhi naye unjalo.
Owesifazane ohlakaniphile uhlale evumelana naye, nemizwa yakhe, nemizwa ngomyeni wakhe. Ubulili obuqinile buhlonipha abesifazane abahlakaniphile abanezinto zabo zokuzilibazisa, abenza ibhizinisi elithile, futhi abazithuthukisayo.
Unkulunkulukazi ekuphileni kwansuku zonke
Owesifazane onobuhlakani bempilo uyinkosikazi enhle endlini yakhe. Umyeni wakhe uyamkhulekela, izingane ziyalalela, abangane bayamkhulekela. Izivakashi zihlala zijabulile ngomoya wakhe wokungenisa izihambi. Umndeni uhlale ucela iseluleko kunina nomkakhe obathandayo.
Umama wekhaya onekhono kudingeka afunde ukonga nokwaba isabelomali somkhaya ukuze sanele. Akuyona ize ukuthi amadoda anikele umholo wawo kumakhosikazi ahlakaniphile kuphela, futhi afihlela labo abachitha yonke into kubo.
Umninikhaya ohlakaniphile uhlala esekhaya ethule, ezolile futhi enethezekile. Ngifuna ukuza kulendlu ngivela emsebenzini, ngoba kunomoya okhethekile wothando emoyeni. Unkosikazi ushiya zonke izinkinga zomsebenzi emsebenzini.
Owesifazane ophumelelayo kufanele abe namandla, azimele, azimele, futhi akwazi ukuhlala ezolile kunoma yisiphi isimo, noma kunzima.
Ukuphila komkhaya, okokuqala, ukubambisana. Ngakho-ke, intombazane ehlakaniphile ikhetha ngokushesha umlingani wokuphila ofanelekayo ongeke alungele ubulili obuhle kuphela, kodwa futhi nokubambisana.
Emshadweni akekho umuntu okweleta umuntu. Phela, umshado kufanele usekelwe othandweni nasekuqondeni okujulile nokuhlonipha imigomo yokuhlala ndawonye, kanye nemigomo yokuzimela ekuphileni komuntu ngamunye.
Akunzima kubagcini beziko ukukhombisa ukuhlakanipha, into esemqoka ukuthi kukhona uthando empilweni yabo. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi owesifazane uzuza ukuhlakanipha futhi akaqhakazi ngeminyaka ekhulayo, kodwa ngendoda yakhe ethandekayo, nomphefumulo wakhe womshado, lowo, ngokuphindaphindiwe, onakekela futhi othanda owesifazane wakhe.
Umfazi ohlakaniphile nemithetho yakhe yegolide (ividiyo)
😉 Bangane, ngilinde ukuphawula kwenu, izengezo esihlokweni esithi “Umfazi ohlakaniphile: izimfihlo zempilo ejabulisayo.” Yabelana ngamathiphu avela empilweni yakho siqu. Siyabonga!