Ukushonelwa umngane womshado kuwukuzamazama komhlaba, ukushaqeka okucekela phansi yonke into, okuhlakaza. Ubuhlungu obungenakulinganiswa okufanele bunqotshwe ukuze bakhe kabusha.

Kusukela eshadile umuntu uba umfelokazi. Kusuka kumbhangqwana, umuntu uba ongashadile. Singakhuluma ngezinhlungu ezimbili, elomuntu esimthandayo ongasekho kanye nolombhangqwana esawusungula. Ngokukadokotela wezengqondo uChristophe Fauré, ngikhona, kukhona wena futhi kukhona inhlangano yesithathu, thina. Omunye akekho, indlu ayinamuntu, asisahlanganyeli izinto zansuku zonke nomngane wethu wempilo.

Ngokufa kothandekayo, ingxenye yobuntu bethu. Kusele insimu yamanxiwa kanye nobuhlungu obuvuselelwa nakakhulu isikhathi ngasinye lapho sizithola sisodwa, esidlweni sakusihlwa, ngesikhathi sokulala. Intukuthelo nokudabuka ngezinye izikhathi kufinyelela kushubile, okungaphezu kwalokho umuntu ebengase akucabange. Ukushona komngane womshado noma umlingani wokuphila kuwukufa kothando lwempilo yethu… umuntu esingathembela kuye ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi uzosisekela ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo. Futhi ukulahlekelwa ukuthintana ngokomzimba okwase kuyingxenye evamile yokuphila kwakho kwansuku zonke. Kusukela manje kuqhubeke, wukubusa “kokungaphinde” okondla izinhlungu.

Usizi luyimpendulo engokwemvelo futhi evamile ekulahlekelweni. Ngokuvamile kubonakala njengemizwa, phakathi kwesizungu nokudabuka. Eqinisweni, ukudabuka kuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu. Kukuthinta kuwo wonke amazinga, ngokomzwelo, ngokwengqondo, ngokwenhlalo, ngokomoya, nangokomzimba.

Ezinyangeni zokuqala eziyisithupha kuya kweziyishumi nambili ngemva kwengozi ebulalayo, abantu basengozini enkulu yezifo. Ngokusho kongoti bezempilo, abantu abakhungethwe usizi maningi amathuba okuthi bangene engozini ngoba bekhathazekile ngosizi lwabo. Amasosha omzimba asebenza ngokugcwele, futhi kunethuba elihle lokuthi ukukhathala kuyisimo esihlala njalo. Kuyindlela umzimba osabela ngayo ekuhlukumezekeni. Kubalulekile ukuyilalela. Ungase uphathwe ukuqwasha, njengoba nje ungase ufune ukuchitha usuku lwakho embhedeni. Ungase uzizwe unesicanucanu futhi uyeke ukudla, njengoba nje ungase ulambe futhi ushwabadele konke onakho. Qiniseka ukuthi udla kahle futhi uphumule phakathi nezinsuku zokuqala zosizi lwakho. Lokhu akusona isiphiwo, uma sizilile, umuntu olahlekile ulawula yonke imicabango yethu. Le nkinga yokugxilisa ingqondo ingase ibangele ukulahlekelwa inkumbulo. Uma kuqhathaniswa nalabo ababengadabuki, abantu abashonelwe abalingani babo ezinyangeni eziyisithupha ngaphambili babenobunzima obukhulu bokukhumbula imininingwane yendaba, ngemva nje kokuyizwa noma ngemva kwesikhashana.

Izikhathi eziningi, ukushona kwenkosikazi noma umyeni kuwushintsha kakhulu umhlaba njengoba ubuphila kuze kube yilapho owakwakho ehamba. Njengombhali, uThomas Attig uye waveza, kufanele "ufunde kabusha umhlaba wakho". Konke kuyashintsha, ukulala, ukupheka, ukudla, ngisho nokubuka i-TV, manje sekuyizinto ezihluke kakhulu uma uwedwa.

Imisebenzi noma imisebenzi yasekhaya, uma sekwabelwana ngayo, imicimbi wena nophathina wakho eniyilindele, imikhosi yokuthweswa iziqu, ukuzalwa kwabazukulu, kanye nezinye izikhathi ezikhethekile, manje sekufanele nizinakekele ngokwazo. Umhlaba uba yindawo ehlukile nenesizungu. Manje kufanele ufunde ukuzihlalela, uzenzele izinqumo. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi uzihlele ukuze ungakhungatheki.

Ubudlelwano nabangane nabo buzoshintsha, abangani bakho abashadile basebudlelwaneni futhi ngisho noma bekubonisa ukukunaka, manje usungumfelokazi, ezweni eligcwele ngababili ... Uzodinga isikhathi sokujwayela lezi zindaba. Ezinye izithandani ozibone nophathina wakho zingase zithathe ibanga elide futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi zingabe zisakumema. Uzothola ukuthi ubungozi, njengomfelokazi, kufanele bukhishwe empilweni yezenhlalo yezinye izithandani. Kumahhala, kutholakala kwabanye, usuphenduke "usongo" kancane kubo.

Ukufa okudabukisayo komlingani wakho kanye nokuphela kobudlelwane bakho kungakafiki kuzohlala kuwumthombo wosizi. Uma wesaba ukwenza indawo yokwelapha ngoba wesaba ukuthi kuzokwenza ukhohlwe owakwakho, yazi ukuthi awusoze wabakhohlwa.

Uyohlale unezinkumbulo eziyigugu ngaye, ngawe, njengoba uzohlala uzisola ngeminyaka yenjabulo ongeke ube nayo ithuba lokuhlala naye.

Nokho, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, izinkumbulo zakho ezimnandi zizokusiza wakhe kabusha. Lokhu kwakha kabusha kuhilela ukuveza imizwa yakho. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, ungawahlukumezi kodwa wabelane ngawo, uwabhale, hhayi ukuze uwaqede kodwa uwaguqule. Unganqikazi ukukhuluma ngomlingani wakho wokuphila, ukutshela ngobuntu bakhe. Yabelana ngezinkumbulo zakho eziyigugu kakhulu.

Unganqamuli ubudlelwano nabangane bakho kodwa wenze abanye ngokubhalisa ngokwesibonelo ezifundweni zokudweba, ama-workshop we-chess, thakasela abantu abaseduze kwakho emkhakheni wobungcweti, njll.

Uzothola ukuthi umuntu angaphila, athande, enze amaphrojekthi amasha, kuyilapho ehlala ekuhlangenwe nakho okudabukisayo okuhlobene nokungabikho komlingani wakhe womshado. Zitshale kabusha empilweni ngokuzinakekela, ikakhulukazi ukulala kwakho. Hlela amasiko, akusiza ukuthi uphinde ulawule impilo yakho, ululame: hamba uyoshaywa umoya njalo ekuseni ngaphambi kokuya emsebenzini, bhala okujabulisayo kwakho kujenali yokubonga ngaphambi kokuyolala ukuze ubike ngokuthuthuka kwakho. Xhuma kabusha kokuhle.