Okuqukethwe
Kungani ungeke uqambe ingane igama ngesihlobo sakho esingasekho
Kungabonakala sengathi lokhu kuyinkolelo-ze nje. Kepha ngemuva kwayo, kanye nasemuva kwamasiko amaningi, kunezizathu ezizwakalayo.
“Ngizobiza indodakazi yami ngokuthi uNastya,” kusho umngani wami u-Anya, eziphulula ngesisu ngesinono.
UNastya igama elihle. Kepha ngasizathu simbe ngineqhwa esikhunjeni sami: lelo kwakuyigama likadadewabo ka-Anya oshonile. Washona esemncane. Ukushayiswa kwemoto. Manje u-Anya uzobiza indodakazi yakhe ngokumhlonipha…
U-Anya akayedwa. Abaningi babiza umntwana ngokufana negama lesihlobo esincane esishonile noma ngisho nengane endala abalahlekile.
Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zithi kulokhu, kunokushintshwa ezingeni lokubona. Ngokwazi, abazali babona ukuzalwa kwengane enegama elifanayo njengokubuya noma ukuphindukuzalwa komuntu oshonile, okunomthelela omubi ekugcineni kwengane.
Futhi, akufanele unikeze intombazane igama likamama, nomfana igama likababa. Kukholakala ukuthi ama-namesake ngeke akwazi ukuzwana ngaphansi kophahla olulodwa. Futhi bazoba nengelosi eyodwa ebabhekele ababili. Ukubiza indodakazi ngegama likamama, umuntu angalindela ukuphindaphindwa kwesiphetho sikanina. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ithonya likamama kowesifazane lihlala liqinile impela, noma ngabe indodakazi isivele ikhulile, izele izingane zayo, futhi noma umama engasekho. Ithonya likamama we-namesake likhulu kakhulu futhi lingavimbela indodakazi ukuthi iphile impilo yayo.
Ngokuvamile, ukukhethwa kwegama kufanele kusondele ngokucophelela okukhulu. Ngakho-ke, sesiqoqe ezinye izinhlobo ezinhlanu zamagama okungafanele zinikezwe izingane.
Ukuhlonipha amaqhawe ezincwadi nezaseBhayibhelini
Isilingo sokuqamba ingane ngegama lomlingiswa osencwadini oyithandayo noma kumamuvi sikhulu kakhulu. Ngezikhathi zamaSoviet, abantu bafunda iMpi Nokuthula nguLeo Tolstoy no-Eugene Onegin nguPushkin, futhi amantombazane amaningi e-USSR aqanjwa ngamaqhawekazi alezi zincwadi - uNatasha noTatiana. Lawa magama sekuyisikhathi eside efakiwe esikweni laseRussia. Kodwa-ke, bekukhona nezinketho ezingathandeki kangako. Ngo-2015, abaseRussia basekela inkambiso yaseNtshonalanga futhi baqala ukuqamba izingane zabo ngamagama abalingiswa abakuchungechunge lwe-Game of Thrones oluyimpumelelo. Phakathi kwabo kukhona u-Arya (leli yigama lomunye wamaqhawekazi amakhulu emlandweni weMibuso Eyisikhombisa), uTheon, uVaris noPetyr. Uma unamathela emfundisweni yokuthi igama liletha izimfanelo ezithile ebuntwini bomuntu, khona-ke udinga ukukhumbula ukuthi isiphetho salawa maqhawe sinzima, awukwazi ukusibiza ngokuthi sijabule. U-Arya uyintombazane elwa kanzima njalo ukuze iphile. U-Theon ungumlingiswa ongenasiphetho, imbuka.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunezimo lapho abazali baqamba indodana yabo ngokuthi uLusifa noma uJesu. Amagama anjalo athathwa njengokuhlambalaza.
Ihambisana nezinhlangano ezingathandeki
Ekuboneni kokuqala, kubonakala kungajwayelekile ukubiza ingane yakho ngegama lapho umama noma ubaba enezinhlangano ezingathandeki. Kepha lokhu kwenzeka lapho umzali oyedwa ephikelela ekukhetheni igama. Isibonelo, umama wayehlale ephupha ngokubiza indodana yakhe ngokuthi uDima, futhi kuyise uDima wayengumhlukumezi owamshaya ngokungenasihawu esikoleni.
Ezimweni ezinjalo, kusengcono ukuvumelana ngegama elizofanelana nabazali bobabili. Ngemuva kwakho konke, kunethuba lokuthi uzokhipha yonke imizwa emibi kumnikazi wegama olizondayo enganeni.
Abanye abazali ngokukhethekile bakhethela izingane zabo amagama angavamile futhi amahle. Ikakhulukazi abantu abanobuciko abacabanga ngobuciko bayakuthanda lokhu. Kunemibono ehlukahlukene mayelana nomthelela wegama eliyingqayizivele kokudalelwa komuntu. Futhi ungabakholelwa noma cha, kepha iqiniso lokuthi akuwona wonke amagama aphesheya ahamba kahle negama elilodwa noma isibongo liqinisekile. Intombazane encane izokhula, ibe umuntu omdala, cishe, ishintshe isibongo sayo ngemuva komshado. Futhi, ngokwesibonelo, kuzovela uMercedes Viktorovna Kislenko. Noma uGretchen Mikhailovna Kharitonova. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amagama angavamile awahlali elungele ukubukeka.
Ukuhlonipha abomlando
Enye inketho engeyinhle kakhulu kungaba amagama okuhlonipha osopolitiki abadumile kanye nezibalo zomlando. Ungaqagela ukuthi bazomphatha kanjani umfana ogama lakhe lingu-Adolf. Futhi, ngasendleleni, hhayi ezweni lethu kuphela. Leli gama lesiJalimane, ngemuva kwezenzakalo zomlando ezaziwayo, alithandwa kakhulu naseJalimane.
Uma ubiza ingane yakho ngegama eliqhakazile futhi elingajwayelekile, ungavilaphi ukuthola ukuthi ngabe kwakukhona yini emlandweni womnikazi wayo, owashiya ngemuva "umzila" ongajabulisi wolwazi.
Amagama anezincazelo zepolitiki
Akunamuntu ongamangala ngamagama anjengoVladlen (Vladimir Lenin), Stalin, Dazdraperma (May May Live), njll. Babaziwa ngezikhathi zamaSoviet. Kodwa-ke, nanamuhla kunamagama okushisekela izwe. Isibonelo, intombazane eyazalwa ngoJuni 12, iRussia Day, yabizwa ngeRussia.
Kepha kusukela ngoMeyi 1, 2017, akuvunyelwe ngokusemthethweni ukunikeza ingane amagama aqanjiwe. Manje igama lomuntu alikwazi ukuba nezinombolo nezimpawu, ngaphandle kwehayikhoni. Kwakunecala lapho abazali betha indodana yabo i-BOCh rVF ngomhlaka 26.06.2002. Lesi sifinyezo esixakile sisho i-Human Biological Object yomndeni wakwaVoronin-Frolov, futhi izinombolo zisho usuku lokuzalwa. Awukwazi ukusebenzisa inhlamba futhi.