Kungani singakwazi ukuzihlukanisa nochungechunge lwethu esiyintandokazi

Kungani singakwazi ukumisa uhlelo lwethu oluthandayo? Kungani ulungele ukudela ubuthongo ochungechungeni olulandelayo lwesaga esijabulisayo? Nazi izizathu eziyisithupha ezenza izinhlelo ze-TV zibe nethonya elinamandla kangaka kithi.

Kukangaki uphuthuma ekhaya ngemva kokusebenza kanzima ukuze ubuke uhlelo olusha olukhulunywa ngabo bonke ozakwenu nabantu obaziyo? Futhi manje sekudlule phakathi kwamabili, futhi usuvele uwine uhhafu wesizini. Futhi nakuba wazi ukuthi cishe kuzodingeka ukhokhele isimo sengqondo esinjalo sokulala kusasa ngokukhathala emsebenzini, uyaqhubeka nokubuka.

Kungani siqhubeka nokuvula isiqephu ngemva kwesiqephu nsuku zonke, futhi yini esivimbela ukuthi sichofoze inkinobho yokumisa isikhashana?

Ikhono lokuthola imizwa ejulile

Uchungechunge lwe-TV lunikeza ithuba lokuthola imizwa enganele empilweni yangempela. Ukuhileleka endabeni ethakazelisayo, siqala ukuzwelana nabalingiswa futhi sizwelane nemizwa yabo njengokungathi eyethu. Ubuchopho bufunda le mizwa njengengokoqobo, ingeyethu. Futhi cishe siyayivala leyo adrenaline nenjabulo, esingenayo eyanele ekuphileni kwansuku zonke.

Ukulutha emizweni ejabulisayo

Imidlalo iyalutha ngempela. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ngenkathi ubukela umbukiso owuthandayo noma enye ividiyo ejabulisayo, i-dopamine, i-hormone yenjabulo nenjabulo, ikhishwa ebuchosheni. Ngokwesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sasemtholampilo uRene Carr, lo “mvuzo” ubangela ukuba umzimba ube nohlobo oluthile lwenjabulo, injabulo. Bese ifuna ukuphinda lesi sigameko kaninginingi.

Intshisekelo kanye nelukuluku

Iningi lezinhlelo zochungechunge oluthandwa kakhulu zisekelwe kumaqhinga aphumelelayo alula futhi asefakazelwe kakade. Cabanga okungenani ngezintandokazi zakho ezimbalwa: cishe ungathola kalula imigqa yezindaba efanayo kanye nokusonta kuzo okusenza sihlale sibukele umbukiso futhi silinde ngelukuluku ukubona ukuthi yini eyenzekayo ngokulandelayo.

Isibonelo, kolunye lochungechunge oludume kakhulu, i-Game of Thrones, ungathola kalula itulo elinyakazayo njengokuthi "ukusuka enzondweni kuye othandweni" noma "kushisa nokubanda". Okubalulekile wukuthi ubudlelwano bothando buboshelwe phakathi kwamaqhawe anabalingiswa abahlukene nabavela emazweni ahlukene. Ngenxa yalokhu, umbukeli uhlale ezibuza ukuthi laba ababili bazoba ndawonye noma cha, futhi uyaqhubeka ebalandela ngesithakazelo.

Amadrama kamabonakude anikeza indawo eyengeziwe yokuxoxa izindaba. Iziqephu eziningi zisiza ababhali ukuthi "bakhulise" abalingiswa abaqinile abazothandwa ngababukeli.

Ukuphumula nokuphumula

Ngisho nokulula kakhulu, kodwa izindaba ezinjalo ezijabulisayo ziphazamisa ingcindezi enqwabelene ngemva komsebenzi onzima wosuku, zinikeze umuzwa wokunethezeka, futhi zikhululeke. Ukushuba kuyadamba ngemva kokungena kancane endabeni ethakazelisayo ezophetha ngesiphetho esijabulisayo. Ucwaningo lwe-Age of Television lubonise ukuthi ababukeli abangu-52% bayazithanda izinhlelo zethelevishini ngenxa yokuthola ithuba lokuzwelana nabalingisi, bakhululeke futhi babaleke emisebenzini yansuku zonke.

Ikhono lokuthonya isakhiwo

Uma uzibuza, "Laba babhali babonakala beqagela kanjani ukuthi ngifuna laba balingisi babe ndawonye?" Khona-ke ake sembule imfihlo - iziqephu zivumelana ngempela nombukeli. Ngesikhathi sekhefu lokuqopha iziqephu ezintsha nezinkathi zonyaka, abadali bohlelo bahlaziya indlela esisabela ngayo ngeziqephu ezintsha nezindaba. I-inthanethi inikeza amathuba amaningi ocwaningo olunjalo.

Impumelelo yezinto ezibonakalayo yabadali bochungechunge incike ngqo ekutheni bangaki abantu nokuthi bayibuka kaningi kangakanani. Ngakho-ke, abakhiqizi bavame ukuthatha imibono yeziqephu ezintsha kumibono yabalaleli, basinike ngokoqobo yonke into esiyicelayo. Futhi i-Netflix, enye yezinkundla zokusakaza ezinkulu kakhulu emhlabeni, ibuye ihlaziye lapho ababukeli becwila embukisweni futhi baqale ukubuka iziqephu eziningi ngesikhathi.

Ukuvela kwezihloko ezintsha zengxoxo

Izinhlelo ze-TV ziyisihloko esihle ongakhuluma nentombi yakho noma umndeni wakho. Amaqhawe athandwayo abonakala kithi esibajwayele eduze, futhi ukushintsha okungalindelekile esiphethweni sabo nemizwa yethu ngabo bafuna nje ukuxoxa nomngane noma isihlobo.

Kuyahlekisa ukuthi isiqephu semizuzu engamashumi amane nanhlanu singaholela kanjani ezingxoxweni eziyingxenye yeshumi nambili: "Ubonile?", "Ungakukholelwa?", "Ucabanga ukuthi kuzokwenzekani ngokulandelayo?" Futhi kaningi lezi zingxoxo ziholela ezingxoxweni ebezingeke zizalwe ngenye indlela.

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